What boxed gift does my fashion-forward, beautiful 21 yr old niece want for Christmas (up to $500)?

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Anonymous wrote:Publicist pp: since you've been so helpful, I'll ask--do you have "essential" skin & hair care products that you swear by? I'm thinking expensive hairdryer, those motorized brushes for face, eye cream, etc. Similarly, what makeup or other products shouldn't be scrimped on and what is just as good from CVS? All, for the beautiful young 20-something's who want to look good.

Publicist PP here. I absolutely do have "essential" skin & hair care products that I'll never stray from. I'm fortunate enough to have products sent my way pretty frequently so I've had an opportunity to test A LOT of what is available. I'm actually cleaning out my product drawers right now, so I'll take a break to share some of what I have and love, that I'd wholeheartedly recommend to others...

Hair Care:

- T3 PROi Hair Dryer (my hair is incredibly shiny and smooth when I blow dry it with this as my cuticles love the T3)
- Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer (lightweight, great for my carpal tunnel, but doesn't get my hair as sleek and shiny as I like so I use this for day to day drying)
- Ghd Platinum Styler Flat Iron (no flat iron works as well as this does, without damaging your hair - it's worth ever penny)
- NuMe Titan 3 Curling Iron Wand w/ 3 Barrels (gives me long lasting curls)
- Beachwaver Pro Rotating 1" Curling Iron (I was actually just gifted this and I'm obsessed - it's so easy to use and makes beachy waves so easy to perfect)
- WolffBehr Serum (the best serum known to man - made by the best team in hair, Philip Wolff and Chief Behr; gives you INCREDIBLE shine post-styling)
- Shu Uemera Ultimate Remedy Extreme Restoration Shampoo for Ultra-Damaged Hair (I've gone bleach blonde to dark to bleach blonde more often than Kim K has so my hair NEEDS this shampoo)
- Oribe Conditioner for Beautiful Color (keeps my color looking fresh and healthy)
- Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray (my secret key for volume and texture)
- The Ouai Wave Spray (for those on the go days when I went something quick and effortless)
- The Ouai Hair Oil (GREAT at protecting your hair from heat damage before drying + styling)
- The Ouai Treatment Masque (if your hair has any type of damage, you'll fall in love with this)
- Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub with Sea Salt (you never would've guessed your scalp needed it's own scrub, until you try this)

Oral Care: (SO SO important for anyone in my role - sometimes people forget how much a great, bright smile matters)

- Philips Sonicare DiamondClean (I've tried the Oral B, but for the whitest teeth, I swear by this toothbrush - I've noticed a distinct difference in pictures)
- Philips Sonicare AirFloss Ultra (this is a product I was gifted, thought it'd be worthless, but now I'm obsessed with it)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Toothpaste (tested them all, this wins hands down)
- Crest 3D White Brilliance Boost Polishing Treatment (use twice a day in conjunction w/ the toothpaste above for a bright white smile)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Mouthwash (I only use alcohol-free mouthwash, and this has been my favorite)
- Oral-B Glide 3D White Floss Picks(always, always, always keep floss in my purse)

Skin Care:

- Clarisonic Smart Profile Face and Body Cleansing Brush (I use this head to toe and my skin has never looked or felt better)
- GlamGlow SUPERCLEANSE Daily Clearing Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser below)
- GlamGlow YOUTHCLEANSE Daily Exfoliating Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser above)
- GlamGlow SUPERMUD Clearing Treatment (use as necessary)
- GlamGlow THIRSTYMUD Hydrating Treatment (I try to avoid DC during the winters, but when I am in town, this is a weekly must)
- GlamGlow FLASHMUD Brightening Treatment (use as needed when your skin is looking dull and uneven)
- The Eye Concentrate by La Mer (you can get by without using any other La Mer product, but this is a gift from the gods)
- Fresh Lotus Youth Preserve Face Cream with Super 7 Complex (this is my day to day moisturizer, it's very lightweight and absorbs quickly!)
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair Synchronized Recovery Complex II (this is what I use every night, it doesn't get any better than this product for anti-aging needs)
- Bite Beauty Agave Lip Mask (put this on at night, before bed, and wake up with soft, kissable lips)
- Glossier Balm Dotcom Universal Skin Salve (use this as your daytime lip balm, although you can use it anywhere on your body that is dry and needs some lovin')
- Acqua Di Parma Blu Mediterraneo Arancia Di Capri Shower Gel (you'll feel like you've been transported to the island of Capri every morning)
- Tracie Martyn Shakti Resculpting Body Cream (expensive as hell, but good lord does your skin feel amazing afterwards! can't give this product up)
- Fresh Sugar Acai Age-Delay Body Cream (I alternate my expensive body cream with this)

I personally don't skimp on any of the items I've listed above with drugstore products because looking healthy and young is so important when you're in entertainment and fashion. I make sure I'm using the best available products that actually give me the results I want. With things like body lotion, when you're not being photographed and scrutinized by clients, brands, and everyone else, you can certainly get away with using Jergens, so by all means, save money on things like body lotion, but don't skimp when it comes to your face. It's what everyone sees every day, no matter what industry you work in, and it's what you see in the mirror every day. Buy the best items you can within your budget for your skincare needs and you won't regret it.

Makeup: (there are only a handful of things you need to splurge on, which are listed below - for everything else, go to your favorite DRUGSTORE!)
- Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation (always, always, always buy the BEST foundation you can afford - and this one is my gold standard)
- Real Techniques Brushes (not as expensive as others and you don't need them to be - buy each brush in this set, take care of them, and you'll never need another brush again)
- beautyblender original (I've tried the dupes, but I prefer the OG)
- Christian Dior Diorskin Nude Skin Perfecting Hydrating Concealer (I've tried them all, but this is the one that looks best on most everyone)
- Koh Gen Do Maifanshi Makeup Color Base Yellow (a tiny bit goes a long way to diffuse redness, brighten the face, control unevenness, and reduce shine)

I know all of this seems like a lot, but for me, it comes with the territory of my professional life. My girlfriends, sisters, aunts, and mom love coming over to raid my product drawers and over the past 5 years or so that I've had my own PR firm, they've been able to see the value in using better products to get better results. And they've also to that when it comes to things like makeup, if you have the best of the best when it comes to certain items, you can stick to drugstore brands for everything else, and you'll still look like a million dollars. I hope this list helps you out!

Helpless DH here who would like to get DW some brushes as a stocking stuffer, and I see you recommended the Real Techniques brushes. You link to the Bold Metals collection. Are these for eyes? You say buy al the brushes in the set, but the set itself (Spotlight Essential Set) includes 3 brushes while it appears there are a total of 9 brushes available in this collection? How does this differ from the Starter Set, which also appears to be for eyes? And finally any thoughts on the Core Collection? Thank you from a clueless guy.

[Anonymous]

I couldn't get the link to work, so searched "REAL TECHNIQUES BRUSHES" and came up with super inexpensive brushes with thousands of rave reviews (but not the bold metals). These would be perfect stocking stuffers.

Publicist pp: if you have any patent law questions, I'm your girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Publicist pp or anyone else still following: looking for jewelry suggestions for similar (price range $500 for Christmas and up to $1500 for 21st bday). Thanks!

As you know, jewelry is a very personal purchase, so my recommendations are based on what I know of your DD - which isn't enough to narrow down options without having seen her or seen her style and going by description only. I hope these help you narrow down your choices and also introduce you to brands that you may not know but I think you should. Good luck!

Jewelry Suggestions

Christmas: (up to $500)

- Trinity de Cartier Bracelet ($580.00) A very simple but unique Cartier bracelet, without being the flashy (and pricey) LOVE bangle.

- The Calendar Bracelet by Dalla Nonna Jewelry ($125.00) Really cool and unique bracelet slowly making its way through Hollywood. A birthstone punches out the date of birth, or other special date, and looks really cool on.

- Jennifer Fisher Jewelry Medium Molten Cuff ($475.00) For a slightly edgy but fashionable look, this piece is amazing. Jennifer Fisher is a big in-demand jewelry designer and celebs flock to her for her unique pieces and I've shared a customizable necklace below under birthday options.

- Jane Basch Jewelry Gold Small Script Nameplate Necklace ($437.50) Another highly coveted item and a piece that is just huge right now!

- Monica Vinader Pop Bracelet in 18ct Rose Gold Vermeil on Sterling Silver w/ Garnet (your DD's birthstone) ($350.00) Monica Vinader is a secret celeb fav and her pieces are all very unique and subtle, so I'm going to recommend a few.

- Monica Vinader Signature Petite Bangle in Sterling Silver ($425.00)

- Monica Vinader Fiji Toggle Petite Bracelet ($550.00)

- Robyn Rhodes Rachel Ring ($99.00) Another beloved designer who frankly does not get enough public credit but tons of influencers wear her rings.

- Cluse La Roche Black Marble Watch ($209.00) Unique watch that is becoming more and more popular over the past few weeks - going to be a holiday must-have for fashionistas everywhere.

- Nambé Wrap Ring ($130.00) Yes, the beloved tabletop and home décor company now makes jewelry and it's been a huge hit!

21st Birthday: (up to $1500)

So let me start by saying I *know* this first suggestion is crazy expensive and above your budget, BUT, when my sisters and I each turned 21, our parents gifted us a Van Cleef & Arpels Alhambra necklace. I've never loved a piece of jewelry more than I love this necklace and my sisters feel the same way. It's also the "it" classic necklace for every girl in LA, NY, London, and Paris. Forget Tiffany's. This is the piece to own. (Recently it was made more famous / popular by Roxy Sowlaty, star of RKOBH.) Now that I've gotten this suggestion out of the way, onto more budget appropriate ones...

- Cartier Love Bracelet ($1300.00) This isn't the flashy gold LOVE bracelet either, it's another subtle black silk cord one, and it's simple but beautiful. It's also available on a pink cord for $1210.00.

- Cartier Pink Gold Love Ring ($1070.00) Again, this isn't the flashy bangle that girls want multiple of because you have to "stack" them. It's the ring, which is very subtle, and gorgeous in rose gold.

- Jennifer Meyer Bar Charm Y-Chain Necklace ($825.00) Nicole Richie and Gwen Stefani wear a lot of her pieces so they're highly coveted pieces and this one is one of her more subtle ones that is still quite luxurious.

- Jennifer Fisher Necklace w/ a Small Link Chain ($330.00) and a Customizable Medium Tall Dog Tag ($800.00) ($1130.00) This set is one of my personal favs.

- Feathered Soul Diamond Moon Pendant Necklace ($895.00) I was introduced to this brand and this piece at a Barneys New York event and just fell in love with it. The simplicity of the chain allows the pendant to really shine and stand-out, and the necklace really makes a subtle outfit pop.

- Saint Laurent YSL Monogram Cuff ($795.00) Nope, there is absolutely nothing subtle about this cuff, but it's a great evening piece for a night out. It looks incredible on the arm, especially in the polished rose gold tone.

- Hoorsenbuhs Suede Wrap Bracelet in Grey ($700.00) Now this is a glam but subdued piece of jewelry and you can size it to fit any wrist perfectly (which helps because I have child-like wrists)

- Ippolita 18k Rock Candy Round Stud Earrings ($795.00) This is part of a trendy, more modern collection by Ippolita, and the pearl tone earrings are gorgeous on the ear - noticeable but in a soft and subtle way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Publicist pp: since you've been so helpful, I'll ask--do you have "essential" skin & hair care products that you swear by? I'm thinking expensive hairdryer, those motorized brushes for face, eye cream, etc. Similarly, what makeup or other products shouldn't be scrimped on and what is just as good from CVS? All, for the beautiful young 20-something's who want to look good.

Publicist PP here. I absolutely do have "essential" skin & hair care products that I'll never stray from. I'm fortunate enough to have products sent my way pretty frequently so I've had an opportunity to test A LOT of what is available. I'm actually cleaning out my product drawers right now, so I'll take a break to share some of what I have and love, that I'd wholeheartedly recommend to others...

Hair Care:

- T3 PROi Hair Dryer (my hair is incredibly shiny and smooth when I blow dry it with this as my cuticles love the T3)
- Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer (lightweight, great for my carpal tunnel, but doesn't get my hair as sleek and shiny as I like so I use this for day to day drying)
- Ghd Platinum Styler Flat Iron (no flat iron works as well as this does, without damaging your hair - it's worth ever penny)
- NuMe Titan 3 Curling Iron Wand w/ 3 Barrels (gives me long lasting curls)
- Beachwaver Pro Rotating 1" Curling Iron (I was actually just gifted this and I'm obsessed - it's so easy to use and makes beachy waves so easy to perfect)
- WolffBehr Serum (the best serum known to man - made by the best team in hair, Philip Wolff and Chief Behr; gives you INCREDIBLE shine post-styling)
- Shu Uemera Ultimate Remedy Extreme Restoration Shampoo for Ultra-Damaged Hair (I've gone bleach blonde to dark to bleach blonde more often than Kim K has so my hair NEEDS this shampoo)
- Oribe Conditioner for Beautiful Color (keeps my color looking fresh and healthy)
- Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray (my secret key for volume and texture)
- The Ouai Wave Spray (for those on the go days when I went something quick and effortless)
- The Ouai Hair Oil (GREAT at protecting your hair from heat damage before drying + styling)
- The Ouai Treatment Masque (if your hair has any type of damage, you'll fall in love with this)
- Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub with Sea Salt (you never would've guessed your scalp needed it's own scrub, until you try this)

Oral Care: (SO SO important for anyone in my role - sometimes people forget how much a great, bright smile matters)

- Philips Sonicare DiamondClean (I've tried the Oral B, but for the whitest teeth, I swear by this toothbrush - I've noticed a distinct difference in pictures)
- Philips Sonicare AirFloss Ultra (this is a product I was gifted, thought it'd be worthless, but now I'm obsessed with it)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Toothpaste (tested them all, this wins hands down)
- Crest 3D White Brilliance Boost Polishing Treatment (use twice a day in conjunction w/ the toothpaste above for a bright white smile)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Mouthwash (I only use alcohol-free mouthwash, and this has been my favorite)
- Oral-B Glide 3D White Floss Picks(always, always, always keep floss in my purse)

Skin Care:

- Clarisonic Smart Profile Face and Body Cleansing Brush (I use this head to toe and my skin has never looked or felt better)
- GlamGlow SUPERCLEANSE Daily Clearing Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser below)
- GlamGlow YOUTHCLEANSE Daily Exfoliating Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser above)
- GlamGlow SUPERMUD Clearing Treatment (use as necessary)
- GlamGlow THIRSTYMUD Hydrating Treatment (I try to avoid DC during the winters, but when I am in town, this is a weekly must)
- GlamGlow FLASHMUD Brightening Treatment (use as needed when your skin is looking dull and uneven)
- The Eye Concentrate by La Mer (you can get by without using any other La Mer product, but this is a gift from the gods)
- Fresh Lotus Youth Preserve Face Cream with Super 7 Complex (this is my day to day moisturizer, it's very lightweight and absorbs quickly!)
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair Synchronized Recovery Complex II (this is what I use every night, it doesn't get any better than this product for anti-aging needs)
- Bite Beauty Agave Lip Mask (put this on at night, before bed, and wake up with soft, kissable lips)
- Glossier Balm Dotcom Universal Skin Salve (use this as your daytime lip balm, although you can use it anywhere on your body that is dry and needs some lovin')
- Acqua Di Parma Blu Mediterraneo Arancia Di Capri Shower Gel (you'll feel like you've been transported to the island of Capri every morning)
- Tracie Martyn Shakti Resculpting Body Cream (expensive as hell, but good lord does your skin feel amazing afterwards! can't give this product up)
- Fresh Sugar Acai Age-Delay Body Cream (I alternate my expensive body cream with this)

I personally don't skimp on any of the items I've listed above with drugstore products because looking healthy and young is so important when you're in entertainment and fashion. I make sure I'm using the best available products that actually give me the results I want. With things like body lotion, when you're not being photographed and scrutinized by clients, brands, and everyone else, you can certainly get away with using Jergens, so by all means, save money on things like body lotion, but don't skimp when it comes to your face. It's what everyone sees every day, no matter what industry you work in, and it's what you see in the mirror every day. Buy the best items you can within your budget for your skincare needs and you won't regret it.

Makeup: (there are only a handful of things you need to splurge on, which are listed below - for everything else, go to your favorite DRUGSTORE!)
- Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation (always, always, always buy the BEST foundation you can afford - and this one is my gold standard)
- Real Techniques Brushes (not as expensive as others and you don't need them to be - buy each brush in this set, take care of them, and you'll never need another brush again)
- beautyblender original (I've tried the dupes, but I prefer the OG)
- Christian Dior Diorskin Nude Skin Perfecting Hydrating Concealer (I've tried them all, but this is the one that looks best on most everyone)
- Koh Gen Do Maifanshi Makeup Color Base Yellow (a tiny bit goes a long way to diffuse redness, brighten the face, control unevenness, and reduce shine)

I know all of this seems like a lot, but for me, it comes with the territory of my professional life. My girlfriends, sisters, aunts, and mom love coming over to raid my product drawers and over the past 5 years or so that I've had my own PR firm, they've been able to see the value in using better products to get better results. And they've also to that when it comes to things like makeup, if you have the best of the best when it comes to certain items, you can stick to drugstore brands for everything else, and you'll still look like a million dollars. I hope this list helps you out!

Helpless DH here who would like to get DW some brushes as a stocking stuffer, and I see you recommended the Real Techniques brushes. You link to the Bold Metals collection. Are these for eyes? You say buy al the brushes in the set, but the set itself (Spotlight Essential Set) includes 3 brushes while it appears there are a total of 9 brushes available in this collection? How does this differ from the Starter Set, which also appears to be for eyes? And finally any thoughts on the Core Collection? Thank you from a clueless guy.

Hi Helpless DH! Publicist PP here. I do recommend the Real Techniques brushes because they are the best you can buy - every makeup artist I have used has these in their makeup tool bag and they swear by them, so I have no hesitation in recommending them. I use them myself and give them to all my cousins as they get old enough to start wearing makeup because a great brush makes a world of difference. The Bold Metals collection I linked to has brushes for everything - from foundation to eyes to blush to liner. I'd get one of each of those brushes in the collection, giving your DW a full set. The Spotlight Set gives you 3 brushes - 1 is for blush, 1 is for eyeshadow, 1 is for concealer. If it's more cost effective, you can get that set, then supplement by buying the other brushes not included. I couldn't find a Starter Set one that you mention but I did find the Core Collection one. The Core Collection is for the makeup user who does a full contour - you use those brushes when you're highlighting and shading - so think what Kim Kardashian's makeup looks like. If your wife doesn't do that heavy contour look, the Core Collection isn't really for her. Hope this helps!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I couldn't get the link to work, so searched "REAL TECHNIQUES BRUSHES" and came up with super inexpensive brushes with thousands of rave reviews (but not the bold metals). These would be perfect stocking stuffers.

Publicist pp: if you have any patent law questions, I'm your girl.

Publicist PP here. You will LOVE the brushes! The first time I had a makeup artist use them on me, I fell in love because they were so soft, and I was plain dumbfounded when he shared the price. I've found them in the tool bag of every top makeup artist and they are so affordable that nobody should be without them! Def the perfect stocking stuffer.

And I will keep you in mind for future patent law needs! Thanks

[Anonymous]

Publicist PP, you're awesome!!! Love your jewelry suggestions. I'm shopping for myself, however, not a 20 something and I wear classic, not trendy. I typically just wear diamond studs and my engagement and wedding rings. I want a necklace for every day and have been looking at the VC&A but wondering if that is too young for me. Also want something nicer to wear to events. I'm 48. Thanks so much!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Publicist PP, you're awesome!!! Love your jewelry suggestions. I'm shopping for myself, however, not a 20 something and I wear classic, not trendy. I typically just wear diamond studs and my engagement and wedding rings. I want a necklace for every day and have been looking at the VC&A but wondering if that is too young for me. Also want something nicer to wear to events. I'm 48. Thanks so much!

Publicist PP here. I definitely don't think the Van Cleef & Arpels necklace is too young for you. My mom wears hers every day and she's 60, and my grandmother who is in her 80's does as well. The Alhambra necklace is a classic and timeless piece - one that I don't think will ever go out of style. I see women in their 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's and up wearing the Alhambra pendant as their day to day necklace throughout the world, too. I spot it more often in London than anywhere else, where it's dressed up and down with ease.

In terms of what you're looking for when you say something nicer to wear to events, what type of events are these? What do you usually wear to these events? Who attends the events? And what is your budget? If you can give me as much information as possible, I will do my best to make a few suggestions over the weekend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Publicist pp: since you've been so helpful, I'll ask--do you have "essential" skin & hair care products that you swear by? I'm thinking expensive hairdryer, those motorized brushes for face, eye cream, etc. Similarly, what makeup or other products shouldn't be scrimped on and what is just as good from CVS? All, for the beautiful young 20-something's who want to look good.

Publicist PP here. I absolutely do have "essential" skin & hair care products that I'll never stray from. I'm fortunate enough to have products sent my way pretty frequently so I've had an opportunity to test A LOT of what is available. I'm actually cleaning out my product drawers right now, so I'll take a break to share some of what I have and love, that I'd wholeheartedly recommend to others...

Hair Care:

- T3 PROi Hair Dryer (my hair is incredibly shiny and smooth when I blow dry it with this as my cuticles love the T3)
- Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer (lightweight, great for my carpal tunnel, but doesn't get my hair as sleek and shiny as I like so I use this for day to day drying)
- Ghd Platinum Styler Flat Iron (no flat iron works as well as this does, without damaging your hair - it's worth ever penny)
- NuMe Titan 3 Curling Iron Wand w/ 3 Barrels (gives me long lasting curls)
- Beachwaver Pro Rotating 1" Curling Iron (I was actually just gifted this and I'm obsessed - it's so easy to use and makes beachy waves so easy to perfect)
- WolffBehr Serum (the best serum known to man - made by the best team in hair, Philip Wolff and Chief Behr; gives you INCREDIBLE shine post-styling)
- Shu Uemera Ultimate Remedy Extreme Restoration Shampoo for Ultra-Damaged Hair (I've gone bleach blonde to dark to bleach blonde more often than Kim K has so my hair NEEDS this shampoo)
- Oribe Conditioner for Beautiful Color (keeps my color looking fresh and healthy)
- Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray (my secret key for volume and texture)
- The Ouai Wave Spray (for those on the go days when I went something quick and effortless)
- The Ouai Hair Oil (GREAT at protecting your hair from heat damage before drying + styling)
- The Ouai Treatment Masque (if your hair has any type of damage, you'll fall in love with this)
- Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub with Sea Salt (you never would've guessed your scalp needed it's own scrub, until you try this)

Oral Care: (SO SO important for anyone in my role - sometimes people forget how much a great, bright smile matters)

- Philips Sonicare DiamondClean (I've tried the Oral B, but for the whitest teeth, I swear by this toothbrush - I've noticed a distinct difference in pictures)
- Philips Sonicare AirFloss Ultra (this is a product I was gifted, thought it'd be worthless, but now I'm obsessed with it)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Toothpaste (tested them all, this wins hands down)
- Crest 3D White Brilliance Boost Polishing Treatment (use twice a day in conjunction w/ the toothpaste above for a bright white smile)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Mouthwash (I only use alcohol-free mouthwash, and this has been my favorite)
- Oral-B Glide 3D White Floss Picks(always, always, always keep floss in my purse)

Skin Care:

- Clarisonic Smart Profile Face and Body Cleansing Brush (I use this head to toe and my skin has never looked or felt better)
- GlamGlow SUPERCLEANSE Daily Clearing Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser below)
- GlamGlow YOUTHCLEANSE Daily Exfoliating Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser above)
- GlamGlow SUPERMUD Clearing Treatment (use as necessary)
- GlamGlow THIRSTYMUD Hydrating Treatment (I try to avoid DC during the winters, but when I am in town, this is a weekly must)
- GlamGlow FLASHMUD Brightening Treatment (use as needed when your skin is looking dull and uneven)
- The Eye Concentrate by La Mer (you can get by without using any other La Mer product, but this is a gift from the gods)
- Fresh Lotus Youth Preserve Face Cream with Super 7 Complex (this is my day to day moisturizer, it's very lightweight and absorbs quickly!)
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair Synchronized Recovery Complex II (this is what I use every night, it doesn't get any better than this product for anti-aging needs)
- Bite Beauty Agave Lip Mask (put this on at night, before bed, and wake up with soft, kissable lips)
- Glossier Balm Dotcom Universal Skin Salve (use this as your daytime lip balm, although you can use it anywhere on your body that is dry and needs some lovin')
- Acqua Di Parma Blu Mediterraneo Arancia Di Capri Shower Gel (you'll feel like you've been transported to the island of Capri every morning)
- Tracie Martyn Shakti Resculpting Body Cream (expensive as hell, but good lord does your skin feel amazing afterwards! can't give this product up)
- Fresh Sugar Acai Age-Delay Body Cream (I alternate my expensive body cream with this)

I personally don't skimp on any of the items I've listed above with drugstore products because looking healthy and young is so important when you're in entertainment and fashion. I make sure I'm using the best available products that actually give me the results I want. With things like body lotion, when you're not being photographed and scrutinized by clients, brands, and everyone else, you can certainly get away with using Jergens, so by all means, save money on things like body lotion, but don't skimp when it comes to your face. It's what everyone sees every day, no matter what industry you work in, and it's what you see in the mirror every day. Buy the best items you can within your budget for your skincare needs and you won't regret it.

Makeup: (there are only a handful of things you need to splurge on, which are listed below - for everything else, go to your favorite DRUGSTORE!)
- Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation (always, always, always buy the BEST foundation you can afford - and this one is my gold standard)
- Real Techniques Brushes (not as expensive as others and you don't need them to be - buy each brush in this set, take care of them, and you'll never need another brush again)
- beautyblender original (I've tried the dupes, but I prefer the OG)
- Christian Dior Diorskin Nude Skin Perfecting Hydrating Concealer (I've tried them all, but this is the one that looks best on most everyone)
- Koh Gen Do Maifanshi Makeup Color Base Yellow (a tiny bit goes a long way to diffuse redness, brighten the face, control unevenness, and reduce shine)

I know all of this seems like a lot, but for me, it comes with the territory of my professional life. My girlfriends, sisters, aunts, and mom love coming over to raid my product drawers and over the past 5 years or so that I've had my own PR firm, they've been able to see the value in using better products to get better results. And they've also to that when it comes to things like makeup, if you have the best of the best when it comes to certain items, you can stick to drugstore brands for everything else, and you'll still look like a million dollars. I hope this list helps you out!

Helpless DH here who would like to get DW some brushes as a stocking stuffer, and I see you recommended the Real Techniques brushes. You link to the Bold Metals collection. Are these for eyes? You say buy al the brushes in the set, but the set itself (Spotlight Essential Set) includes 3 brushes while it appears there are a total of 9 brushes available in this collection? How does this differ from the Starter Set, which also appears to be for eyes? And finally any thoughts on the Core Collection? Thank you from a clueless guy.

Hi Helpless DH! Publicist PP here. I do recommend the Real Techniques brushes because they are the best you can buy - every makeup artist I have used has these in their makeup tool bag and they swear by them, so I have no hesitation in recommending them. I use them myself and give them to all my cousins as they get old enough to start wearing makeup because a great brush makes a world of difference. The Bold Metals collection I linked to has brushes for everything - from foundation to eyes to blush to liner. I'd get one of each of those brushes in the collection, giving your DW a full set. The Spotlight Set gives you 3 brushes - 1 is for blush, 1 is for eyeshadow, 1 is for concealer. If it's more cost effective, you can get that set, then supplement by buying the other brushes not included. I couldn't find a Starter Set one that you mention but I did find the Core Collection one. The Core Collection is for the makeup user who does a full contour - you use those brushes when you're highlighting and shading - so think what Kim Kardashian's makeup looks like. If your wife doesn't do that heavy contour look, the Core Collection isn't really for her. Hope this helps!

Clueless DH again. Here's the starter set: https://realtechniques.com/en/starter-set/p/1406 Any just to clarify, the Core Collection is for eyes but for "full contour", correct. Thanks again.

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The Starter Set linked above is for eyes, not the Core Collection.

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Anonymous wrote:Publicist pp: since you've been so helpful, I'll ask--do you have "essential" skin & hair care products that you swear by? I'm thinking expensive hairdryer, those motorized brushes for face, eye cream, etc. Similarly, what makeup or other products shouldn't be scrimped on and what is just as good from CVS? All, for the beautiful young 20-something's who want to look good.

Publicist PP here. I absolutely do have "essential" skin & hair care products that I'll never stray from. I'm fortunate enough to have products sent my way pretty frequently so I've had an opportunity to test A LOT of what is available. I'm actually cleaning out my product drawers right now, so I'll take a break to share some of what I have and love, that I'd wholeheartedly recommend to others...

Hair Care:

- T3 PROi Hair Dryer (my hair is incredibly shiny and smooth when I blow dry it with this as my cuticles love the T3)
- Dyson Supersonic Hair Dryer (lightweight, great for my carpal tunnel, but doesn't get my hair as sleek and shiny as I like so I use this for day to day drying)
- Ghd Platinum Styler Flat Iron (no flat iron works as well as this does, without damaging your hair - it's worth ever penny)
- NuMe Titan 3 Curling Iron Wand w/ 3 Barrels (gives me long lasting curls)
- Beachwaver Pro Rotating 1" Curling Iron (I was actually just gifted this and I'm obsessed - it's so easy to use and makes beachy waves so easy to perfect)
- WolffBehr Serum (the best serum known to man - made by the best team in hair, Philip Wolff and Chief Behr; gives you INCREDIBLE shine post-styling)
- Shu Uemera Ultimate Remedy Extreme Restoration Shampoo for Ultra-Damaged Hair (I've gone bleach blonde to dark to bleach blonde more often than Kim K has so my hair NEEDS this shampoo)
- Oribe Conditioner for Beautiful Color (keeps my color looking fresh and healthy)
- Oribe Dry Texturizing Spray (my secret key for volume and texture)
- The Ouai Wave Spray (for those on the go days when I went something quick and effortless)
- The Ouai Hair Oil (GREAT at protecting your hair from heat damage before drying + styling)
- The Ouai Treatment Masque (if your hair has any type of damage, you'll fall in love with this)
- Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub with Sea Salt (you never would've guessed your scalp needed it's own scrub, until you try this)

Oral Care: (SO SO important for anyone in my role - sometimes people forget how much a great, bright smile matters)

- Philips Sonicare DiamondClean (I've tried the Oral B, but for the whitest teeth, I swear by this toothbrush - I've noticed a distinct difference in pictures)
- Philips Sonicare AirFloss Ultra (this is a product I was gifted, thought it'd be worthless, but now I'm obsessed with it)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Toothpaste (tested them all, this wins hands down)
- Crest 3D White Brilliance Boost Polishing Treatment (use twice a day in conjunction w/ the toothpaste above for a bright white smile)
- Crest 3D White Luxe Glamorous White Mouthwash (I only use alcohol-free mouthwash, and this has been my favorite)
- Oral-B Glide 3D White Floss Picks(always, always, always keep floss in my purse)

Skin Care:

- Clarisonic Smart Profile Face and Body Cleansing Brush (I use this head to toe and my skin has never looked or felt better)
- GlamGlow SUPERCLEANSE Daily Clearing Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser below)
- GlamGlow YOUTHCLEANSE Daily Exfoliating Cleanser (I alternate this every other day w/ the cleanser above)
- GlamGlow SUPERMUD Clearing Treatment (use as necessary)
- GlamGlow THIRSTYMUD Hydrating Treatment (I try to avoid DC during the winters, but when I am in town, this is a weekly must)
- GlamGlow FLASHMUD Brightening Treatment (use as needed when your skin is looking dull and uneven)
- The Eye Concentrate by La Mer (you can get by without using any other La Mer product, but this is a gift from the gods)
- Fresh Lotus Youth Preserve Face Cream with Super 7 Complex (this is my day to day moisturizer, it's very lightweight and absorbs quickly!)
- Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair Synchronized Recovery Complex II (this is what I use every night, it doesn't get any better than this product for anti-aging needs)
- Bite Beauty Agave Lip Mask (put this on at night, before bed, and wake up with soft, kissable lips)
- Glossier Balm Dotcom Universal Skin Salve (use this as your daytime lip balm, although you can use it anywhere on your body that is dry and needs some lovin')
- Acqua Di Parma Blu Mediterraneo Arancia Di Capri Shower Gel (you'll feel like you've been transported to the island of Capri every morning)
- Tracie Martyn Shakti Resculpting Body Cream (expensive as hell, but good lord does your skin feel amazing afterwards! can't give this product up)
- Fresh Sugar Acai Age-Delay Body Cream (I alternate my expensive body cream with this)

I personally don't skimp on any of the items I've listed above with drugstore products because looking healthy and young is so important when you're in entertainment and fashion. I make sure I'm using the best available products that actually give me the results I want. With things like body lotion, when you're not being photographed and scrutinized by clients, brands, and everyone else, you can certainly get away with using Jergens, so by all means, save money on things like body lotion, but don't skimp when it comes to your face. It's what everyone sees every day, no matter what industry you work in, and it's what you see in the mirror every day. Buy the best items you can within your budget for your skincare needs and you won't regret it.

Makeup: (there are only a handful of things you need to splurge on, which are listed below - for everything else, go to your favorite DRUGSTORE!)
- Giorgio Armani Luminous Silk Foundation (always, always, always buy the BEST foundation you can afford - and this one is my gold standard)
- Real Techniques Brushes (not as expensive as others and you don't need them to be - buy each brush in this set, take care of them, and you'll never need another brush again)
- beautyblender original (I've tried the dupes, but I prefer the OG)
- Christian Dior Diorskin Nude Skin Perfecting Hydrating Concealer (I've tried them all, but this is the one that looks best on most everyone)
- Koh Gen Do Maifanshi Makeup Color Base Yellow (a tiny bit goes a long way to diffuse redness, brighten the face, control unevenness, and reduce shine)

I know all of this seems like a lot, but for me, it comes with the territory of my professional life. My girlfriends, sisters, aunts, and mom love coming over to raid my product drawers and over the past 5 years or so that I've had my own PR firm, they've been able to see the value in using better products to get better results. And they've also to that when it comes to things like makeup, if you have the best of the best when it comes to certain items, you can stick to drugstore brands for everything else, and you'll still look like a million dollars. I hope this list helps you out!

Helpless DH here who would like to get DW some brushes as a stocking stuffer, and I see you recommended the Real Techniques brushes. You link to the Bold Metals collection. Are these for eyes? You say buy al the brushes in the set, but the set itself (Spotlight Essential Set) includes 3 brushes while it appears there are a total of 9 brushes available in this collection? How does this differ from the Starter Set, which also appears to be for eyes? And finally any thoughts on the Core Collection? Thank you from a clueless guy.

Hi Helpless DH! Publicist PP here. I do recommend the Real Techniques brushes because they are the best you can buy - every makeup artist I have used has these in their makeup tool bag and they swear by them, so I have no hesitation in recommending them. I use them myself and give them to all my cousins as they get old enough to start wearing makeup because a great brush makes a world of difference. The Bold Metals collection I linked to has brushes for everything - from foundation to eyes to blush to liner. I'd get one of each of those brushes in the collection, giving your DW a full set. The Spotlight Set gives you 3 brushes - 1 is for blush, 1 is for eyeshadow, 1 is for concealer. If it's more cost effective, you can get that set, then supplement by buying the other brushes not included. I couldn't find a Starter Set one that you mention but I did find the Core Collection one. The Core Collection is for the makeup user who does a full contour - you use those brushes when you're highlighting and shading - so think what Kim Kardashian's makeup looks like. If your wife doesn't do that heavy contour look, the Core Collection isn't really for her. Hope this helps!

Clueless DH again. Here's the starter set: https://realtechniques.com/en/starter-set/p/1406 Any just to clarify, the Core Collection is for eyes but for "full contour", correct. Thanks again.

Hey Clueless DH. Publicist PP again. The starter set you linked to IS for eyes. The Core Collection is NOT for eyes - it's for full contour of the face. So if she does her eyes more, go with that starter set. This is what contour of the face looks like so if you've seen your wife looking like this at any point in her makeup process, get her the Core Collection too...

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Maybe the least trendy jewelry pp linked, but I'm getting the J Meyer Y Chain for myself (DH asks me to pick out something he can give me Christmas morning and DD can borrow it periodically.) I just love looking through these links. Thanks ppp!

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Anonymous wrote:This is now the most helpful thread in this forum ever.

Anonymous wrote:OMG, you are so amazing for posting such a helpful, detailed port. Best thread of 2016 hands down!

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like we have an expert among us. Thank you pp!

You're so welcome! Glad the posts are helping

Anonymous wrote:Publicist lady I love you but before we get married and run off together I need to know one thing: pantyhose. Yay or nay?

This will probably get me crucified on here, but no hose. Ever. My mom preached the whole slip / hose thing since I was a child, but I just can't get behind the hose part. I hate pantyhose with every ounce of my being, but I will also not be the girl who is prancing around in 15 degree weather wearing skirt - I'll stick to pants.

Thank you and let this be the last word on it pantyhose people.

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I want the black marble watch and it's sold out. PPP really does know the hot items!

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Amazing thread!!! Thank you.

Question about watches - I like the Chanel J12 or the Bvlgari Serpenti. What's your take??? Thank you!

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Anonymous wrote:Amazing thread!!! Thank you.

Question about watches - I like the Chanel J12 or the Bvlgari Serpenti. What's your take??? Thank you!

Publicist PP here. So, you can't really compare those 2 watches as they are entirely different from each other. The J12 is a sporty luxury watch - very modern and trendy. The Bvlgari Serpenti isn't. So what is your overall look? Which watch matches that better? I will tell you that I've had my J12 for several years now and get a lot of use out of it because my entire look is sporty. I pretty much wear some sort of athleisure outfit every day and use my accessories to dress it up. The J12 is great for this purpose so it works for my general look. The Bvlgari Serpenti isn't totally sporty, although it *can* be dressed down. But it also isn't high fashion - you won't be wearing it for a fancy night out. Kourtney Kardashian is probably the most well-known for her love of the watch, and she pairs it with casual looks and fun party looks, but it isn't always easy to do. So in a nutshell, it depends on what your overall style is and which watch will give you the most bang for the buck in terms of use.