Girls being physically aggressive with boys in school - "you can't hit me back bc I'm a girl!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, most people aren't seeing what you're seeing. Either your kids are exaggerating or you have a discipline issue at your particular school.

It happens. I was on another mom forum on the west coast and one woman's son wanted to play won three girls.
Two girls started playing with him and the last girl was so enraged she dragged him across the ground leaving a huge bruise on his butt. She posted the photo of his butt and looked pretty gnarly. The girl was not punished and the different moms were giving her advice what to do. Children can be nasty regardless of gender.'

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, most people aren't seeing what you're seeing. Either your kids are exaggerating or you have a discipline issue at your particular school.

I am not sure where you live but girls are out of control and rarely disciplined. The are physically aggressively elementary school, total bitches and bullies in middle school, sexually aggressive in high school and drunks in college. Nobody is disciplining girls. If a girl send a topless picture to a boy, the boy is suspended.

Girls gone wild! Feminists have not envisioned this.

[Anonymous]

Moms of daughters - please stop with your BS that girls aren't aggressive or misbehaved. I have two boys (and a girl) and in every class there has been at least one girl who has been physically aggressive towards both boys and girls. The playground aides overlook the punches/kicks to the boys because they aren't told to intervene when a girl hits a boy. I'm not saying this is rampant at our school but some of you are saying this doesn't happen. Of course it happens. They're kids. It's never right to put your hands on someone else. Both parents of boys AND girls should be teaching this lesson.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Moms of daughters - please stop with your BS that girls aren't aggressive or misbehaved. I have two boys (and a girl) and in every class there has been at least one girl who has been physically aggressive towards both boys and girls. The playground aides overlook the punches/kicks to the boys because they aren't told to intervene when a girl hits a boy. I'm not saying this is rampant at our school but some of you are saying this doesn't happen. Of course it happens. They're kids. It's never right to put your hands on someone else. Both parents of boys AND girls should be teaching this lesson.

+1 no child should be hitting another child.'period.

[Anonymous]

Your sons needs to go after the biggest most agressive girl first. He needs to beat her until she surrenders. Then the rest will leave him alone.

This is the advice I was always told. Fight the biggest bully infront of everyone and don't be afraid to die or kill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your sons needs to go after the biggest most agressive girl first. He needs to beat her until she surrenders. Then the rest will leave him alone.

This is the advice I was always told. Fight the biggest bully infront of everyone and don't be afraid to die or kill.

Bad advice. In this current social climate son will be severely punished even though the girl was bullying him first and she would get off Scott free.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your sons needs to go after the biggest most agressive girl first. He needs to beat her until she surrenders. Then the rest will leave him alone.

This is the advice I was always told. Fight the biggest bully infront of everyone and don't be afraid to die or kill.

LOL Is that how your survived long enough to escape and swim across the ocean under moonlight, to drag your exhausted naked body out of the water and crawl up the beach onto American soil? Welcome. We don't behave that way, though, just FYI. Unless you get a job as a county dog catcher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your sons needs to go after the biggest most agressive girl first. He needs to beat her until she surrenders. Then the rest will leave him alone.

This is the advice I was always told. Fight the biggest bully infront of everyone and don't be afraid to die or kill.

LOL Is that how your survived long enough to escape and swim across the ocean under moonlight, to drag your exhausted naked body out of the water and crawl up the beach onto American soil? Welcome. We don't behave that way, though, just FYI. Unless you get a job as a county dog catcher.

I've been in many fights. I haven't lost yet ! Never been in trouble but I am a girl. Killing someone in self defense with your bare hands in this country can get you off. I was never even charged .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Moms of daughters - please stop with your BS that girls aren't aggressive or misbehaved. I have two boys (and a girl) and in every class there has been at least one girl who has been physically aggressive towards both boys and girls. The playground aides overlook the punches/kicks to the boys because they aren't told to intervene when a girl hits a boy. I'm not saying this is rampant at our school but some of you are saying this doesn't happen. Of course it happens. They're kids. It's never right to put your hands on someone else. Both parents of boys AND girls should be teaching this lesson.

+1 no child should be hitting another child.'period.

This. Violence is always wrong. It's used by someone who doesn't have the intellectual or social skills to problem solve and resolve conflict. Teach your kids, regardless of sex, these critical skills.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your sons needs to go after the biggest most agressive girl first. He needs to beat her until she surrenders. Then the rest will leave him alone.

This is the advice I was always told. Fight the biggest bully infront of everyone and don't be afraid to die or kill.

Like Ender's game?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, most people aren't seeing what you're seeing. Either your kids are exaggerating or you have a discipline issue at your particular school.

I am not sure where you live but girls are out of control and rarely disciplined. The are physically aggressively elementary school, total bitches and bullies in middle school, sexually aggressive in high school and drunks in college. Nobody is disciplining girls. If a girl send a topless picture to a boy, the boy is suspended.

Girls gone wild! Feminists have not envisioned this.

You sound insane. Elementary school kids are "bitches"? Really? I don't know where your kids go to school but thank god it's nowhere near mine!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Moms of daughters - please stop with your BS that girls aren't aggressive or misbehaved. I have two boys (and a girl) and in every class there has been at least one girl who has been physically aggressive towards both boys and girls. The playground aides overlook the punches/kicks to the boys because they aren't told to intervene when a girl hits a boy. I'm not saying this is rampant at our school but some of you are saying this doesn't happen. Of course it happens. They're kids. It's never right to put your hands on someone else. Both parents of boys AND girls should be teaching this lesson.

I have boys and girls. Yes, girls can be aggressive. So can boys. There are usually misbehaved kids of each gender in a class. However, I have never, ever seen a rampant problem of girls (or boys) beating the crap out of other kids while taunting them about their gender, and the school does nothing. Sure, it happens. It is not the incredible problem OP is making it out to be, and it is a kid issue, not a gender issue.

[Anonymous]

As the father of girls, this is one area I am completely ok with having a double standard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As the father of girls, this is one area I am completely ok with having a double standard.

Complete bs. When you teach girls (and boys!) that they can be violent without impunity they keep doing it until one day one out of control person beats the shit out of them because they have no compulsions and don't care about repercussions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, most people aren't seeing what you're seeing. Either your kids are exaggerating or you have a discipline issue at your particular school.

I am not sure where you live but girls are out of control and rarely disciplined. The are physically aggressively elementary school, total bitches and bullies in middle school, sexually aggressive in high school and drunks in college. Nobody is disciplining girls. If a girl send a topless picture to a boy, the boy is suspended.

Girls gone wild! Feminists have not envisioned this.

You sound insane. Elementary school kids are "bitches"? Really? I don't know where your kids go to school but thank god it's nowhere near mine!

You need to read closer. The pp said elementary school kids can be physically aggressive.


Yes girls can be total bitches in middle school.