Girls being physically aggressive with boys in school - "you can't hit me back bc I'm a girl!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have never heard a girl say this or a boy complain of this, even a single time. Are you an MRA nutter?

It happens.

30 years ago, in my very middle class, Midwestern Catholic school, the 4th grade girls thought it was really funny to kick the boys in the balls. I did it to my brother. My parents were furious. It was explained to me very carefully that I would never do that to my brother or another boy again or I would suffer the most severe consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have three sons and they have told me often that girls LOVE to use the "You can't hit me, I'm a girl" card.

My sons have come home with bruises on their shins from girls kicking them, on their arms from girls grabbing them and squeezing. They've seen girls throw balls at boys' faces, smack them in their faces, punch them in the stomach. We're talking about upper elementary school.

There are girls who go way overboard provoking boys verbally and physically to tempt them to retaliate. I don't know if the boys ever do, I know that mine never have, but I do know it's some bullshit.

Discuss.

OP, I was friends for a while with a crazy girl who came after my best friend with a knife at a birthday party and would frequently assault people, friends, family, strangers. She put her brother in the hospital, in high school.

Your boys do not need to get involved with crazy people, boys or girls. If the school cannot help, then they should just keep their distance. Nothing good comes from getting involved with people like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

No. Just stay far away from her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

No. Just stay far away from her.

Sorry, but that is BS. If anyone hits you, you do not have to run away from her or him. You have the right to protect yourself. I will not teach my boys to be victims, just because the abuser or bully is a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a huge problem.. it is how the cycle of violence begins. Eventually a man will hit her and she will believe she deserves it for hitting him first. She needs to learn to control her urge to hit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

No. Just stay far away from her.

Sorry, but that is BS. If anyone hits you, you do not have to run away from her or him. You have the right to protect yourself. I will not teach my boys to be victims, just because the abuser or bully is a woman.

Exactly. Protect yourself. Stay far away from her.

Your boys will grow up to be men. They should not hit a woman back, even if she hits them. Just stay away from her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never heard a girl say this or a boy complain of this, even a single time. Are you an MRA nutter?

It happens.

30 years ago, in my very middle class, Midwestern Catholic school, the 4th grade girls thought it was really funny to kick the boys in the balls. I did it to my brother. My parents were furious. It was explained to me very carefully that I would never do that to my brother or another boy again or I would suffer the most severe consequences.

I have no doubt that this has been known to happen. I just think it's strange it's reached epidemic proportions for not only op's sons but also his friends. school apparently unable to stop the relentless onslaught of little girl violence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a huge problem.. it is how the cycle of violence begins. Eventually a man will hit her and she will believe she deserves it for hitting him first. She needs to learn to control her urge to hit.

If she hit first, she deserved it.

[Anonymous]

I have boys and girls. I have never seen this behavior not heard of it complained about. The rule in our house is you don't hit anybody. Tell them to tell a teacher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

No. Just stay far away from her.

Sorry, but that is BS. If anyone hits you, you do not have to run away from her or him. You have the right to protect yourself. I will not teach my boys to be victims, just because the abuser or bully is a woman.

Wah wah MRA Trump whine whine whine. Are you kids in the wilderness alone? Two wrongs don't make a right. Get a teacher involved regardless of gender.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

No. Just stay far away from her.

Sorry, but that is BS. If anyone hits you, you do not have to run away from her or him. You have the right to protect yourself. I will not teach my boys to be victims, just because the abuser or bully is a woman.

Exactly. Protect yourself. Stay far away from her.

Your boys will grow up to be men. They should not hit a woman back, even if she hits them. Just stay away from her.

If a woman hits a man, she deserves to be hit back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

Way to teach your child to end up in prison some day. You sound like a nut job, and just the kind of poster OP has been tirelessly searching for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never heard a girl say this or a boy complain of this, even a single time. Are you an MRA nutter?

It happens.

30 years ago, in my very middle class, Midwestern Catholic school, the 4th grade girls thought it was really funny to kick the boys in the balls. I did it to my brother. My parents were furious. It was explained to me very carefully that I would never do that to my brother or another boy again or I would suffer the most severe consequences.

I have no doubt that this has been known to happen. I just think it's strange it's reached epidemic proportions for not only op's sons but also his friends. school apparently unable to stop the relentless onslaught of little girl violence.

It sounds exactly like my class. A group of girls running rampant and acting out violently. My school didn't do much about it, either. They frequently don't see the problem when the violence is coming from girls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't actually a problem, OP.

Violence against women? Now, there's a problem.

Your boys will survive this.

It is a problem when ANYONE, boy or girl, is subject to being hit, kicked, poked, or pinched at school. Everyone has a right to be free from violence and to protect their own body.

I have told my sons very clearly that they should NEVER hit a girl or woman first, but if she hits you, put her on the floor and then get away from her. Do what you have to do to protect your body.

Way to teach your child to end up in prison some day. You sound like a nut job, and just the kind of poster OP has been tirelessly searching for.

A man isn't going to go to prison for defending himself. At most, he is going to get a misdemeanor charge. If he pushes self-defense as an affirmative defenses to the charges, he probably isn't even going to take a conviction on it.

Teach your girls not to hit and there is no problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If someone dares you to jump of a cliff, will you do it/ If someone tells you to smoke a joint, will you do it? Etc. Just because some idiot provokes your DS doesn't meant he is not responsible for his own reaction. He is. He's responsible for hitting or not hitting, women or men.

Listen. I said upfront that they DO NOT hit them back and they WOULD NOT. What's your point?

I think my point is obvious. I wonder what your point is. You posted on the other thread adnauseam but that wasn't enough so you had to start an entire new thread. You have issues. Please don't shout.