Friends find my husband undesirable

[Anonymous]

This is so odd. You are married to this man, who cares if your friends don't find him attractive. It's actually much better than if they were chasing him

[Anonymous]

Did OP ever answer the poster who asked how old she was? I'm thinking young---who posts crap like that on social media?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so odd. You are married to this man, who cares if your friends don't find him attractive. It's actually much better than if they were chasing him

But it sounds like she wants to imagine her husband is in any way desirable instead of essentially the last thing left on the 99cents discount shelf that she grabbed because no one else wanted him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seriously OP, WHY DON'T YOU DRIVE??!

I think OP is a mail-order-bride who doesn't have her license or a troll b/c I'm having a hard time picturing someone who is so blatantly insipid.

I don't think OP is necessarily either of these things, I think she may just be lacking social skills, and the ability to read social cues.

I agree with you somewhat - reading OPs posts I thought she was an immigrant who married for citizenship. Oddly specific, but I have met a few of these ladies through acquaintances and have found them to be a bit awkward and insecure like OP.

OP, stop telling them about all of the romantic shit DH does - seriously no one cares. I never mention that stuff to even my best friends. It sounds like they are sick of your overcompensating bragging and try to get you to shut-up. Honestly, I would be a bit miffed a friend kept going on and on about how amazing her DH is.

[Anonymous]

It would be so perfect if someday she discovered that he's fucking all her friends.

[Anonymous]

1. Your friends are being rude and weird.

2. You are being weird constantly gushing about your husband. It may be getting annoying.

3. Who cares what your friends think?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm kind of sick of having to hear unflattering comments about my husband. He is sweet and gentle and erudite with boyish good looks. He's also a little dorky and not the most smooth person in the room in social situations. I absolutely adore him and gush about him to my friends. They always respond with, " oh yeah he's your dream guy but I would never date him!"

They also like to sort of make fun of him for his quirks. He has poor visibility driving in rain for example and cancels social obligations due to the weather. My friends make comments like " oh John! He's so funny!"

I don't like that condescending attitude and am beginning to resent it. Am I wrong to be upset?

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[Anonymous]

OP: You are in DC. The only thing that people are enamoured with is themselves. They are not used to people being enamoured with anyone else. Its weird. No wonder they are reacting that way.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I act this way to one of my friends because she always dates the most huge fucking losers I've ever met in my life. People I would NEVER want to hang out with, I am forced to because my friend dates them. After dealing with their awkwardness I quickly lose my patience.

Also, not to be a bitch but there is generally a social hierarchy. When I am a 10 and I date 10s (which I do) I hate when my friend (who is a 7) brings around 3s for me to deal with. Total disruption of the natural social order.

I'm embarrassed for you.

I'm an 11, and even I'm embarrassed for this particular 10. I think maybe she's using the 1 to prop up her big fat zero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did OP ever answer the poster who asked how old she was? I'm thinking young---who posts crap like that on social media?

I have one friend who regularly gushes like OP about her husband on social media. There's more than one acquaintance of hers who suspects her husband of cheating right and left. OP, maybe your friends are trying to warn you.

[Anonymous]

When I first read the title of the thread, I wondered how in the world someone even knows whether their friends find their husband desirable or not. Sure, I've sought friend's opinions when I ion people I was seeing early in the dating process, but those opinions were always what they thought of his character, whether they could see us compatible long-term, etc. Never once have I asked whether a friend found my boyfriend 'desirable.' And if you're already married to the guy? Who the eff cares what your friends, or anyone else thinks about his 'desirability?' I certainly don't offer my friends my feelings about their husband's 'desirability.' And if your friends are offering theirs, get rid of your friends.

Then I read your thread, and here's what I have to say.

1) Stop 'gushing' about him to your friends. That shit's annoying. They are just trying to get you to stop doing it.

[Anonymous]

No you are not wrong to be upset OP.

These "friends" of yours are totally out of line for making rude comments about your love.

Let them know how you feel and ask them to please stop saying this immature stuff. If they continue, then it is time to make new friends.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't date or marry your husband either. You both sound like a match made in heaven though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I am a 10

I laffed. Post a photo and let the rest of us judge. Everyone thinks they're a 10.

and I date 10s

I laffed again.

[Anonymous]

Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.