Friends find my husband undesirable

[Anonymous]

Says the woman concerned about if her friends desire her husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.

I very much doubt you're OP.

IF you are, let me say to you: at least these "soccer moms" are secure in themselves and secure in their marriages. They don't need approval from others, just look at what they have, and know it is enough.

If you need validation from others, well, then you don't have much at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Says the woman concerned about if her friends desire her husband.

You are ridiculous. Asking your friends to respect your husband does not mean asking them to want to have sex with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.

I very much doubt you're OP.

IF you are, let me say to you: at least these "soccer moms" are secure in themselves and secure in their marriages. They don't need approval from others, just look at what they have, and know it is enough.

If you need validation from others, well, then you don't have much at all.

Wanting your friends to not be condescending to someone you love is not " seeking validation".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.

My husband does all of those things. But I don't feel the need to rub it in my friend's faces, let alone get offended when they don't say they wish they were married to him instead.

Here's the thing, you've managed to alienate those friends, and then alienate a whole bunch of people here. The common denominator in these situations is you, which means that odds are you are the problem. Fix yourself and then maybe you won't have so much difficulty getting along with other people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Here's the thing, you've managed to alienate those friends, and then alienate a whole bunch of people here. The common denominator in these situations is you, which means that odds are you are the problem. Fix yourself and then maybe you won't have so much difficulty getting along with other people.

But this is DCUM, where women are always victims and never responsible for their behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Here's the thing, you've managed to alienate those friends, and then alienate a whole bunch of people here. The common denominator in these situations is you, which means that odds are you are the problem. Fix yourself and then maybe you won't have so much difficulty getting along with other people.

But this is DCUM, where women are always victims and never responsible for their behavior.

Oh shut it. There's almost unanimous agreement that OP is nuts. Take the giant boulder off your shoulder and go snark where it might actually make sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.

I don't care if your DH looks like Hugh Jackman and has the sexual power of Christian Grey, I simply could not be attracted to a socially awkward man who is afraid of the rain.

Oh...and I'm a Lacrosse mom. We're hotter than soccer moms.

[Anonymous]

Op the only thing I can figure is that your friends are 1) complete jerks or 2) highly annoyed by your gushing
Or 3) engaging in some good spirited teasing that is striking a raw nerve with you.

[Anonymous]

op I understand how you feel--I had a friend like that-bitch-moved on. but what's worse my mother does this. Just the other day I was saying how it is nice to have someone go in with you when you're at an IEP meeting, just for moral support and that DH had done that. So she said:"Yes, and S does have a loud voice for a little man." My DH is 5'11". My father-deceased- was 6'3" so all men are small in her estimation. She always says vaguely insulting things about my dh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

Wow you guys are all a bunch of jealous bitter old trolls! I'm sorry your husbands are fat and ugly. I'm sorry they don't please you in bed and do not randomly bring you flowers and presents and make you dinners and take you on impromptu getaways.

If the did, I assure you, you'd feel the need to talk about them too.

Haters gonna hate!

No wonder no one likes bitter angry American soccer moms.

I don't care if your DH looks like Hugh Jackman and has the sexual power of Christian Grey, I simply could not be attracted to a socially awkward man who is afraid of the rain.

Oh...and I'm a Lacrosse mom. We're hotter than soccer moms.

Not as hot as hockey moms, tho

[Anonymous]

Here's my take re: the driving, which OP refuses to address. She knows this is an avenue of her friends to make fun of her husband, I mean, find him less than desirable. And yet, on those dreaded rainy nights, she would won't drive and throws her husband under the bus, knowing full well the snide remarks would follow. Nice wife.

[jsteele]

I have no idea what is going on with this thread and people are posting too fast for me to find out. So, locking, maybe temporarily, maybe permanently.