Can someone please tell me what to do

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe this is real. OP, you need to get rid of the dog or the husband. If you get rid of the husband you'll be doing him a favor - you're choosing an incontinent animal over a human being.

He didn't check on his pregnant wife as of NOON the next day. Doesnt sound too human to me.

He texted an apology before OP checked in to the hotel.

Actually OP texted, husband was already asleep, not knowing where she was, then she called to talk to him and then he gave a prompted apology. Nothing makes it okay that he didn't call her this morning after a blowout like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

[Anonymous]

OP, please update. I hope you are doing okay now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, please update. I hope you are doing okay now.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe this is real. OP, you need to get rid of the dog or the husband. If you get rid of the husband you'll be doing him a favor - you're choosing an incontinent animal over a human being.

He didn't check on his pregnant wife as of NOON the next day. Doesnt sound too human to me.

He texted an apology before OP checked in to the hotel.

Actually OP texted, husband was already asleep, not knowing where she was, then she called to talk to him and then he gave a prompted apology. Nothing makes it okay that he didn't call her this morning after a blowout like that.

Actually, maybe the husband realized that this was a precarious situation and had done a really smart thing and backed away until things calmed down; unfortunately, situations like this do lead to raging tempers.

Chances are this thing is going to blow over or be put on the back burner, especially with relatives coming to stay for 40 days after the baby's birth and moving to another home, all lifestyle changes which will likely create added stress.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

No it isn't. All my years on this Earth I have never read such marriage tales in my life. There has to be a reason. And stick that ignorant up your ass. Kay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe this is real. OP, you need to get rid of the dog

or the husband. If you get rid of the husband you'll be doing him a favor - you're choosing an incontinent animal over a human being.

He didn't check on his pregnant wife as of NOON the next day. Doesnt sound too human to me.

He texted an apology before OP checked in to the hotel.

Actually OP texted, husband was already asleep, not knowing where she was, then she called to talk to him and then he gave a prompted apology. Nothing makes it okay that he didn't call her this morning after a blowout like that.

Actually, maybe the husband realized that this was a precarious situation and had done a really smart thing and backed away until things calmed down; unfortunately, situations like this do lead to raging tempers.

Chances are this thing is going to blow over or be put on the back burner, especially with relatives coming to stay for 40 days after the baby's birth and moving to another home, all lifestyle changes which will likely create added stress.

No, thats not a rational or compassionate approach to the situation, especially considering she texted him, indicating she wanted to talk. And of course- this incident happened last night. By this morning, all parties would have been calm.

If seeing your dog go to the bathroom really puts you in a "raging temper", then you have some very serious issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

No it isn't. All my years on this Earth I have never read such marriage tales in my life. There has to be a reason. And stick that ignorant up your ass. Kay.

Is English not your first language?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot believe this is real. OP, you need to get rid of the dog or the husband. If you get rid of the husband you'll be doing him a favor - you're choosing an incontinent animal over a human being.

He didn't check on his pregnant wife as of NOON the next day. Doesnt sound too human to me.

He texted an apology before OP checked in to the hotel.

Actually OP texted, husband was already asleep, not knowing where she was, then she called to talk to him and then he gave a prompted apology. Nothing makes it okay that he didn't call her this morning after a blowout like that.

Actually, maybe the husband realized that this was a precarious situation and had done a really smart thing and backed away until things calmed down; unfortunately, situations like this do lead to raging tempers.

Chances are this thing is going to blow over or be put on the back burner, especially with relatives coming to stay for 40 days after the baby's birth and moving to another home, all lifestyle changes which will likely create added stress.

Possible, but the more likely reason is he just doesn't give a fuck, as evidenced by his going to bed without trying to reach his very pregnant wife left the house in a robe and flip flops, not knowing where she was going.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

No it isn't. All my years on this Earth I have never read such marriage tales in my life. There has to be a reason. And stick that ignorant up your ass. Kay.

Is English not your first language?

Why yes it is. R U BROWN ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

No it isn't. All my years on this Earth I have never read such marriage tales in my life. There has to be a reason. And stick that ignorant up your ass. Kay.

Is English not your first language?

Why yes it is. R U BROWN ?

In that case, it might be time for a brush up English course. Maybe you should look into classes at your local community college?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Put the husband down. Hey.

If he's like this with the dog, you can kiss any help with the baby. He's a straight up dick.

I have to ask this. Are you ladies married to foreign born men or are you a foreign born woman or are both of you foreign born living here ?

I'm asking because some of the stories posted here about your marriages, kids, family life is quite frankly, bizarre.

That is such an ignorant statement to make.

No it isn't. All my years on this Earth I have never read such marriage tales in my life. There has to be a reason. And stick that ignorant up your ass. Kay.

You must not get out much

[Anonymous]

Hello this is OP I just wanted to update. I went home after the hotel. He was there. I slowly and painstakingly carried dog down the stairs and outside. DH came outside and tried to defend his behavior....new fight in the works so I put on some clothes and left. Later I texted him and said "I never want to hear you say "you don't know when to shut up" to me again. I never want to hear you say "Shut the fuck up to me again". I never want to hear you accuse me of being lazy when it is hard for me to do something bc I am pregnant again." After I texted this he called me and apologized. Maybe he'll do it again and it will be another night in a hotel for me. Maybe he won't. I don't know. I'm glad I went to the hotel though. That's my update, sorry there's not more closure or resolution. Thank you for being there for me in the darkest part of the night. One thing is for certain I am definitely going back to counseling so I can find my voice again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hello this is OP I just wanted to update. I went home after the hotel. He was there. I slowly and painstakingly carried dog down the stairs and outside. DH came outside and tried to defend his behavior....new fight in the works so I put on some clothes and left. Later I texted him and said "I never want to hear you say "you don't know when to shut up" to me again. I never want to hear you say "Shut the fuck up to me again". I never want to hear you accuse me of being lazy when it is hard for me to do something bc I am pregnant again." After I texted this he called me and apologized. Maybe he'll do it again and it will be another night in a hotel for me. Maybe he won't. I don't know. I'm glad I went to the hotel though. That's my update, sorry there's not more closure or resolution. Thank you for being there for me in the darkest part of the night. One thing is for certain I am definitely going back to counseling so I can find my voice again.

Good for you OP. I am so glad that you stood up for yourself and have been thinking of you all day. You absolutely dont deserve to be treated that way and I think you should spend another night in the hotel. Or better yet have him do it. He sounds like a very weak man, bullying his pregnant wife over some minor cleaning.
Definitely go to counseling, and I hope you will just really value yourself. If I were you I would get a hotel room, get some room service, buy a movie, and maybe take a soak in the tub. Just pamper myself and try to make myself feel better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hello this is OP I just wanted to update. I went home after the hotel. He was there. I slowly and painstakingly carried dog down the stairs and outside. DH came outside and tried to defend his behavior....new fight in the works so I put on some clothes and left. Later I texted him and said "I never want to hear you say "you don't know when to shut up" to me again. I never want to hear you say "Shut the fuck up to me again". I never want to hear you accuse me of being lazy when it is hard for me to do something bc I am pregnant again." After I texted this he called me and apologized. Maybe he'll do it again and it will be another night in a hotel for me. Maybe he won't. I don't know. I'm glad I went to the hotel though. That's my update, sorry there's not more closure or resolution. Thank you for being there for me in the darkest part of the night. One thing is for certain I am definitely going back to counseling so I can find my voice again.

Thank you for updating OP. Counseling is the right thing to do for you. Best wishes!