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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello this is OP I just wanted to update.  I went home after the hotel. He was there.  I slowly and painstakingly carried dog down the stairs and outside. DH came outside and tried to defend his behavior....new fight in the works so I put on some clothes and left.  Later I texted him and said "I never want to hear you say "you don't know when to shut up" to me again. I never want to hear you say "Shut the fuck up to me again".  I never want to hear you accuse me of being lazy when it is hard for me to do something bc I am pregnant again."  After I texted this he called me and apologized. Maybe he'll do it again and it will be another night in a hotel for me. Maybe he won't.  I don't know. I'm glad I went to the hotel though.  That's my update, sorry there's not more closure or resolution.  Thank you for being there for me in the darkest part of the night.  One thing is for certain I am definitely going back to counseling so I can find my voice again. [/quote]

Good for you OP. I am so glad that you stood up for yourself and have been thinking of you all day.  You absolutely dont deserve to be treated that way and I think you should spend another night in the hotel.  Or better yet have him do it.  He sounds like a very weak man, bullying his pregnant wife over some minor cleaning.  
Definitely go to counseling, and I hope you will just really value yourself. If I were you I would get a hotel room, get some room service, buy a movie, and maybe take a soak in the tub.  Just pamper myself and try to make myself feel better.  [/quote]

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