Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he allowed to unlock the unit himself? How big a deal is it for him to leave to deposit keys? I could actually imagine my husband being a bit like this as he's a total work perfectionist and would never want to have to ask his boss for a favor/tell him that he messed something up in a situation like this unless it actually mattered. He'd probably tell me to chill for 2 hours if I had a warm car/place to wait.

Yeah HELL no…

I would be kicking the door down, burning the house down, burning the hospital down, and suffocating first responders with the dryer sheets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I got the keys and I am finally home. I got ramen and spent $25 that I didn’t need to. He can’t walk out of the ward but what he could have done was give the keys to security to hand to me. Apparently this is a personal issue for him because it makes him look forgetful and he doesn’t want to look like he’s on his phone. My keys have always been separate because the car keys stay at the bottom of my bag as my car is touch start/open and makes my house keys lighter.

Keys aside, it’s not your husband’s fault that you CHOSE to spend $25 on ramen. I’m confident you wouldn’t have starved to death.

I have no way to get into my house to make food. Next time I’ll go spear hunting and make a fire.

And your only option was $25 on ramen. No way you could have picked up a sandwich or grilled nuggets from chick-fil-a? Nope, you chose the expensive option. Keep track of your keys next time, girl.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Maybe he doesn't trust anyone at work.
I wouldn't give my key to anyone at work. A bad actor would have enough time to duplicate it before the wife come pick it up.

[Anonymous]

This thread is so extra. I can't.

[Anonymous]

Dear Mrs. Smith

We are truly sorry for the passing of you beloved husband. The Hospital will take full responsibility for this misfortune and will make complete restitution for your loss.

Your husband was assigned to John Jones as his nurse. John is a caring and competent caregiver only wanting to give the best to his patients.
Unfortunately, his wife Sally Jones is forgetful and can't keep track of her key, can't be inconvenienced by having to wait for a couple hours and has a rather sophisticated palate that requires the most expensive Ramen meals available at $25 per serving.

Demanding that John satisfy her every need, Sally demanded that John bring her the key ASAP or "there will be hell to pay on DCUM".

This accident could and should have been avoided, but rest easy knowing that Sally Jones is now in her house and eating her Ramen.

Your husband gave his life for the good cause, so that other may flourish and avoid minor inconveniences that they themselves created.

[Anonymous]

OP clarified her husband is a nurse in a maternity ward. He was not scrubbed into surgery or stuck in a viral containment unit. He 100 percent could have found a way to get her those keys. Red flag OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP clarified her husband is a nurse in a maternity ward. He was not scrubbed into surgery or stuck in a viral containment unit. He 100 percent could have found a way to get her those keys. Red flag OP.

Pregnant women and childbirth are more important than what op experienced.

If OP had nothing else do to but wait in a car, should could have volunteered a few hours of her time in some capacity in the maternity area rather than crying tears into her $25 bowl of pity soup.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Maybe he doesn't trust anyone at work.
I wouldn't give my key to anyone at work. A bad actor would have enough time to duplicate it before the wife come pick it up.

Security may also have shift changes and/or may not want to handle personal matters for hospital staff.

[Anonymous]

OP: please don’t have children. You can’t handle it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Maybe he doesn't trust anyone at work.
I wouldn't give my key to anyone at work. A bad actor would have enough time to duplicate it before the wife come pick it up.

This is some next-level paranoia.

[Anonymous]

Go in through the garage.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Unless he's in surgery, he's a jerk.

+1

He can recover from this by taking the initiative to install a smartlock, pronto.

And my 15 year old could walk right into your house with no key and not have to pause at your door.

You’re ridiculous.

Why? Smart-locks are a joke. Smart-locks are a lot easier to get past than traditional lock set, and you don't have to touch anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he allowed to unlock the unit himself? How big a deal is it for him to leave to deposit keys? I could actually imagine my husband being a bit like this as he's a total work perfectionist and would never want to have to ask his boss for a favor/tell him that he messed something up in a situation like this unless it actually mattered. He'd probably tell me to chill for 2 hours if I had a warm car/place to wait.

Yeah HELL no…

I would be kicking the door down, burning the house down, burning the hospital down, and suffocating first responders with the dryer sheets.

You are an unhinged person. Totally bonkerdoodles. Get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I got the keys and I am finally home. I got ramen and spent $25 that I didn’t need to. He can’t walk out of the ward but what he could have done was give the keys to security to hand to me. Apparently this is a personal issue for him because it makes him look forgetful and he doesn’t want to look like he’s on his phone. My keys have always been separate because the car keys stay at the bottom of my bag as my car is touch start/open and makes my house keys lighter.

You sound ungrateful and way too high strung. I wouldn't want to ask security to pass my spouse keys so they didn't have a wait a couple of hours either. Why ask a relative stranger for a favor when you can ask your life partner to just chill for a couple of hours? Save your favors for true emergencies, and trust that your adult partner can handle themselves like an adult through a couple of hours of minor inconvenience.

You have $25 for ramen. Did you even bother to taste it? Maybe you should've used this opportunity to practice being present and grateful for what you have instead of such an insufferable tw@ about what you don't.

You'd really leave your family member locked out for hours rather than just hand security the keys? I wouldn't hesitate to give security a key for a family member eve if it was entirely their fault.

Do you guys just not like your families?

Do YOU like your family? What sort of princess demands that their so-called love ones drop everything and rescue her from a mess she created, all so she doesn't have to be inconvenienced for 2 paltry hours? It's not like OP was standing out in the cold, naked and soaking wet, in some kind of danger. OP had her wallet, and a car, and a nasty attitude. Yes, I'd 100% tell you to wait because you're acting like a child, Veruca. You may want it all and want it now, but that's not how the real world works. Go watch Wonka with your 2 hours of leisure time and calm your ass tf down. Mental...

[Anonymous]

I'm an RN. I bet no one knows he's married. It's disgustingly common. I've met quite a few male nurses who have slept with other nurses and then months later it somehow comes out that they are actually married.