Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?

He is in a locked unit and won’t come out of the door/hand them to someone else

What is a locked unit? (sorry for my ignorance)

either crazy people or babies

Op it’s maternity.

[Anonymous]

That's weird. Do his coworkers not know he's married?

[Anonymous]

I mean it's <2 hours. Is it a pain, sure, but it does'nt have to be. Go grab some food, do some shopping, catch up on a show on your phone, do mindless scrolling, go for a walk. For all oyu know people have been reprimanded for ducking out for just a sec, or he has a difficult patient, or any number of things.

[Anonymous]

If he’s fairly new at this job, gunning for a promotion or he’s made mistakes at work, I can see why he’d be reluctant to admit to a careless mistake in his personal life that requires him to leave his locked unit.

[Anonymous]

Does he have anxiety? I hate to admit this, but I could see myself doing something like this when I was anxious.

[Anonymous]

If he had time to text you the various options you can take because you are locked out then he has time to leave the keys.

[Anonymous]

It might be reasonable or it might not, but it's not worth getting mad about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he had time to text you the various options you can take because you are locked out then he has time to leave the keys.

He didn’t have to leave his locked unit to text her.

[Anonymous]

Why did he have both the house keys on him? Is that more his fault or yours?

Go out to dinner. Go to the gym. Go see a movie. Sit in the car and scroll your phone.

[Anonymous]

Is he taking an Uber home at 1 AM?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?

yeah that's weird...why doesn't he want her to come in except for a certain time/place?

Wouldn’t want wife and AP to meet.

[Anonymous]

How is he getting home?
I would have gone shopping and to dinner until his break.

[Anonymous]

He's being a bit of a jerk but you're being an inflexible diva. It's two hours, go grab a seat at the bar of a nice restauarant, jave a glass of wine and a nice app and scroll your phone. Not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unless he's in surgery, he's a jerk.

You think a nurse can just leave a shift?

It is not that hard to have her go to floor where DH is working and get the keys. Her DH is being a pain.

[Anonymous]

I get him not wanting to leave his keys with someone else but why can't you go to the door of the locked unit and he can hand them to you?

I don't know why you need a third party to be involved?