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Puberty blockers ARE irreversible. and thousands of kids under 18 get hormone treatments every year, and the rate increased sharply in the past 5-10 years. Lying doesn’t really help your cause. |
Jazz Jennings had penile inversion surgery on television at 17 years old. “Top surgeries” are often done on minors. Puberty blockers are not fully reversible. Bone density does not fully recover. They are used for precocious puberty for much shorter amounts of time, and those children often have serious problems down the road. https://www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/health/women-fear-drug-they-used-to-halt-puberty-led-to-health-problems |
Puberty blockers may also impact IQ. There’s just no way to believe that blocking natural hormonal development has no impact. My kid is going through puberty and the changes to his personality, cognitive abilities and social abilities are so obvious. |
Luckily, the process for accessing gender affirming care is long and complex, so even if your 12 year-old came out as trans today, it would be a long time before any medical interventions were suggested or even possible. Honestly, I'm appalled that folks are on this board blaming our current political situation on trans kids. The US public elected a bunch of fascists who have created multiple constitutional crises in their first week in power, and all folks can do is blame children for it? Why not blame the fascists? |
Oh now that you have a 12 year old you're an expert on trans issues. Got it. Just be grateful this is not something your child has struggled with since the first grade (like mine has). Just be thankful your family hasn't spent thousands of dollars on therapy and mental health treatment over many years to work through your child's gender issues. Just be glad you didn't have to go to the ER when your child attempted suicide after years of despair. And maybe try humility and a little less smugness. Very few of us trans parents want to be here. We're here because we know our kids and want them to make it to adulthood. A little grace goes a long way. |
my 12 year old actually is playing around with pronouns. So no, I don’t think the vast majority of 12 year olds who suddenly think it’s interesting to be they/them actually have any capacity to say they want to change their permanently. Your kid’s situation sounds different and frankly has mental health issues mixed in that are not clearly attributable to gender identity. |
huh? in order for puberty blockers to work they would have to be prescribed around my kid’s age - otherwise puberty would not be blocked. and it’s not true that it takes a year of therapy to get started on medical treatment. I despise Trump. I also think he got elected in part because of liberal own-goals in failing to be reasonable and truthful about this stuff. |
| Back to the OP, I know of 2 M-F and one F-M. None have had surgeries yet and all are in their 20s. Two are in the same family - cousins. |
Oh the unearned arrogance of the DCUm poster. You know nothing about which you speak. I hope for your sake that your kid who is "playing around with pronouns" is going through a phase and that you never have to deal with the harsh reality of raising and loving a trans kid. |
I’m not sure what you are trying to say. Mental illnesses are very hard to attribute to anything specific, and claiming that a child’s depression or suicidality is because of being trans - and therefore can be cured by transition- is far, far from proven. In fact one of the most despicable things done was to tell parents that their child might commit suicide if they don’t affirm to the greatest & most rapid extent. there are legions of kids who play around with pronouns and are not depressed or suicidal. |
I’m not sure that’s true. I know a sophomore in high school who has had a mastectomy. I do know that his family supports him so he had their consent. |
The high school student (kid is currently 17) I know who started questioning his identity in 6th grade ( or was it 7th?) was definitely put on puberty blockers within a year. They also started wearing binders within 2 years. They then started hormones when they were just shy of 16. This kid is also autistic. So yes, doctors are performing irreversible procedures on young teens younger than 18. |
| I know plenty of trans people. Only one who underwent surgery. |
Right. for all the rhetoric that “puberty blockers are reversible,” the data shows that almost all kids that take puberty blockers move on to hormones. and obviously for puberty blockers to work they have to be taken early in puberty so probably 12 at the latest and presumably often much earlier. For natal girls the effects of cross-sex hormones are physically irreversible (voice, hair, etc) and for both sexes if the child never goes through their natal sex puberty their sexual & reproductive function will be altered. |