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| Gross! Stop checking out kids! Teenage girls are children! |
Ewww! They are still kids though! They aren't doing it for adults! They aren't thinking that hard about it. and if YOU think it's sexy, then YOU are the problem. |
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Parents should also check what their kids are wearing to dances. You have girls trying to fit into mini-dresses that aren't made for every body type. The dresses show too much when they fit ‘right’ and even more when they don’t. Bring back age appropriate attire please.
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i think part of the point is that based on what they're wearing it's easy to misidentify their age. you see a half exposed butt wiggling down the street and as a man, your eyes are drawn to it... you look up and see from the t-shirt they're wearing that they are a rising senior at Sidwell and the proper reaction should be "oh no! gross!" but whether they're doing it for adults or not, whether they realize it or not adn whether they should be looked at isn't what draws the eye. it's what should keep the eye from going back. |
gross on all levels - yes stop checking out kids or anyone for that matter |
this seems unfair to people of legal age who would like to be checked out |
Haven't you heard about the magic button you can activate just by demanding on the Internet that everyone changes their behavior to suit your personal biases? It always works, of course. All social problems can be eradicated with a few keystrokes (especially if you add !!!!!!) This whole dialogue is meaningless letting stuff go into a whirlwind that doesn't care in the slightest what is said here. |
Then you have a child who is willingly defying you. Hardly earth shattering, but it's something you as a parent must deal with as you see fit. There are some parents who are fine letting their daughters wear tight-fitting, revealing clothing, and others who see it as typical adolescent behavior as these kids rebel and begin to claim their agency and autonomy. It also isn't dealing with the root issue of the problem: how our culture conditions us to almost always view women's bodies as sexual objects. |
You are working two different issues. You are simply being unrealistic if you think parents can control whether their girls roll their skirts. |
Yes I am a MOM at a school where my daughter’s skirt is the length acceptable per the handbook. Of course I’m trying to figure why everyone else skirts are shorter and of course my tween complains her’s are too long because of her peers. So yes I’m looking. With reason. 🕵🏻♀️🕵🏻♀️ |
you're going to stump them wiht this one, but they'll eventually come back with you being a sicko for trying to sexualize children by telling them that it's not appropriate to display ALL parts of their body in public. "IT'S ONLY INAPPROPRIATE FOR THEM TO SHOW THEIR ASSES TO STRANGE MEN ON WISCONSIN AVE BECAUSE *YOU* TOLD THEM IT WAS ABOUT SEX! STOP PERVING AND LET THEM ENJOY THEIR OWN BODIES, AND ALSO LET STRANGE MEN ON WISCONSIN AVE ENJOY THEIR BODIES!" |
| You seem to be fixated on schools girls on Wisconsin Ave. |
| This whole dynamic seems to work well in Japan.... I don't see what's the problem? |
Then raise your daughters not to roll their skirts. |
Tell us exactly how you do this and how you enforce it and check on your daughters during the school day. |