Re-entering the dating scene. Are brazilian waxes an expectation now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have not dated in years. I am just getting back out there and a friend told me that men expect women to have no pubic hair these days. I have had a bikini line wax before for vacations, but never the full treatment. Is it super painful?

I think that’s only the men who want to be with little girls

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most men prefer hair: but tamed. Wax the bikini line and maybe a trim if needed, but don’t wax it all off.

IMO men that want totally bare are usually the ones that watch way way too much porn. Not great boyfriend material.

Nope.

Most men will take what they can get. Plenty are happy with neat and trim.

Brazilians = more pleasure (more sensitivity), easier to keep clean. Most men are fine with whatever, but once they start dating someone with a Brazilian, they enjoy the positives. And they perform plenty of *ral.

Not true that men who grow to like them are bad boyfriends. Grow up, PP.

NP. Poster said “want.” You said “like.” Quite a difference. I agree with the posters that men who want hairless are likely too demanding and prissy to be attractive.

[Anonymous]

A full grown woman with breast, hips and a Brazilian does not look prepubescent. I don’t know why people keep saying that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A full grown woman with breast, hips and a Brazilian does not look prepubescent. I don’t know why people keep saying that.

I suspect there is a lot you don’t know

[Anonymous]

This is a generation thing, if you are trying to attract old people like late Genx or boomer then Brazilian is optional

[Anonymous]

Mid 40’s male - when I started dating (women) I got dropped like a bad habit from first intimate parlor not being well groomed down there.

Lesson learned. I was behind the times on what was expected.

[Anonymous]

Like 20 years ago? Not now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A full grown woman with breast, hips and a Brazilian does not look prepubescent. I don’t know why people keep saying that.

I suspect there is a lot you don’t know

That may be but remember that hair removal has been a standard of personal grooming in some societies centuries before the emergence of porn with hairless actors.

[Anonymous]

Pubic hair is there for a biologic reason so I suspect if you remove it all you will be more prone to infections but I’m just supposing.

I keep mine neat and trim via “traditional” waxing. I even hate the feeling of that but I don’t like the appearance otherwise. I’m 55 and probably half-grey and thinning down there - ugh. But I still don’t want to wax it all off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:UTIs and hair removal down there
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10624866/

Thanks, this is super interesting!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have not dated in years. I am just getting back out there and a friend told me that men expect women to have no pubic hair these days. I have had a bikini line wax before for vacations, but never the full treatment. Is it super painful?

I think that’s only the men who want to be with little girls

The only people who make that connection are the ones with those tendencies. Check yourself.

[Anonymous]

Never did a wax and don’t think I ever will. I know the younger generation is into this. I’m not a really hairy woman and keep the area trimmed because I swim a lot. Waxing - I don’t think so. No tattoos or fake nails either. No false eyelashes.
If a man rejects me in the basis of any of these things - he’s totally not the guy for me.
I like a guy who is groomed and clean. Waxed? I have never encountered a waxed man. Ever.
Now facial hair on men - I hate it. They don’t have to wax their genitals but I prefer a clean shaven face. Radical?

[Anonymous]

Love a trimmed bikini line and a full bu$h.

[Anonymous]

How would you feel about your guy actually wanting to perform the hair removal job of your choice? (Cue sound of a wax strip being expertly snatched off your snatch.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How would you feel about your guy actually wanting to perform the hair removal job of your choice? (Cue sound of a wax strip being expertly snatched off your snatch.)

Sounds like good way to lose your clit.