Re-entering the dating scene. Are brazilian waxes an expectation now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would say yes - went to Korean spa the other weekend and most women are hairless. Age didn’t matter. Surprised me.

Ugh.

[Anonymous]

Dont care what anyone else does with their body, but I get a Brazilian every 4 weeks. Because I want to and not because my husband asked me to. To suggest he likes prepubescent girls because I wax is just showing how insecure you are about your choices. Rock that bush girl and don’t worry about us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another reason why I will never re-enter the dating scene. I feel sorry for my daughters if this is what is now expected for dating.

Don’t know the age of your daughters. Mine are teens and they seem much more accepting of natural bodies than my 90s peers.

[Anonymous]

You need a perfect cooch with tiny labia for a Brazilian otherwise trim patch

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another reason why I will never re-enter the dating scene. I feel sorry for my daughters if this is what is now expected for dating.

Don’t know the age of your daughters. Mine are teens and they seem much more accepting of natural bodies than my 90s peers.

Yes, I have HSers and this is my experience as well.

[Anonymous]

Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

[Anonymous]

Thank God I’m over 60 and don’t have to care because the over 50 guys don’t seem to. Neat and tidy are fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

That is so not true.
-Mom of 3 teen/college daughters

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

That is so not true.
-Mom of 3 teen/college daughters

Ewwww don't want to even know how or why you brought your daughters into this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never did a wax and don’t think I ever will. I know the younger generation is into this. I’m not a really hairy woman and keep the area trimmed because I swim a lot. Waxing - I don’t think so. No tattoos or fake nails either. No false eyelashes.
If a man rejects me in the basis of any of these things - he’s totally not the guy for me.
I like a guy who is groomed and clean. Waxed? I have never encountered a waxed man. Ever.
Now facial hair on men - I hate it. They don’t have to wax their genitals but I prefer a clean shaven face. Radical?

Exactly. This would probably be a good litmus test or selective factor for guys with specific expectations around femininity that I'm not especially excited about. I wouldn't be into someone who wasn't into me because of hair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

That is so not true.
-Mom of 3 teen/college daughters

Ewwww don't want to even know how or why you brought your daughters into this.

DP. Girls today are much more open and not full of shame for natural things like body hair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

That is so not true.
-Mom of 3 teen/college daughters

My 22 year old does not even shave her legs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

That is so not true.
-Mom of 3 teen/college daughters

My 22 year old does not even shave her legs.

Yeah, today’s teen girls and women under 30 are pretty accepting of their own body hair.

[Anonymous]

Three words: Laser hair removal. I just started and wonder why I waited so long. If I could go back in time I’d get it done at 20. Brazilians over time are more costly, more painful, and more time consuming.

[Anonymous]

Would be a red flag turn off for me