Re-entering the dating scene. Are brazilian waxes an expectation now?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Never did a wax and don’t think I ever will. I know the younger generation is into this. I’m not a really hairy woman and keep the area trimmed because I swim a lot. Waxing - I don’t think so. No tattoos or fake nails either. No false eyelashes.
If a man rejects me in the basis of any of these things - he’s totally not the guy for me.
I like a guy who is groomed and clean. Waxed? I have never encountered a waxed man. Ever.
Now facial hair on men - I hate it. They don’t have to wax their genitals but I prefer a clean shaven face. Radical?

Thanks but we don’t need your strawman equating waxing to “tattoos…fake nails…[and] fake eyelashes.”

We all know these are dog whistles.

Many women like to wax because they prefer it; it’s not because they are trashy (your implication) or because they’re trying to fulfill some F-ed up creepy fantasy.

I don’t want bedsheets full of pubic hair. That’s disgusting. And when I have my period and/or have a BM, I like to be able to fully clean the area.

Sorry you’re gross.

bedsheets full of pubic hair? Not being able to clean yourself? Unlike many of the reporting of the people who post here, I am a very hairy person and I am baffled by these statements.

[Anonymous]

I've never understood why a man would prefer a woman to be hairless like a child. Trimmed, groomed, and clean are all realistic expectations, but it's just weird to want a woman to look like a child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never understood why a man would prefer a woman to be hairless like a child. Trimmed, groomed, and clean are all realistic expectations, but it's just weird to want a woman to look like a child.

Bc most men are actually gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

I am 43 and do, a lot of it. DH loves it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need a perfect cooch with tiny labia for a Brazilian otherwise trim patch

This kind of attitude is more a problem than whatever kind of hair you have. The idea that you have to look perfect otherwise you can’t do something. Do what you want. I like to be hairless or close to it because I swim regularly. I’m not posing for playboy so I don’t need perfect labia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never understood why a man would prefer a woman to be hairless like a child. Trimmed, groomed, and clean are all realistic expectations, but it's just weird to want a woman to look like a child.

I prefer the look of a landing strip or small triangle.

I prefer the taste of no hair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Never did a wax and don’t think I ever will. I know the younger generation is into this. I’m not a really hairy woman and keep the area trimmed because I swim a lot. Waxing - I don’t think so. No tattoos or fake nails either. No false eyelashes.
If a man rejects me in the basis of any of these things - he’s totally not the guy for me.
I like a guy who is groomed and clean. Waxed? I have never encountered a waxed man. Ever.
Now facial hair on men - I hate it. They don’t have to wax their genitals but I prefer a clean shaven face. Radical?

Thanks but we don’t need your strawman equating waxing to “tattoos…fake nails…[and] fake eyelashes.”

We all know these are dog whistles.

Many women like to wax because they prefer it; it’s not because they are trashy (your implication) or because they’re trying to fulfill some F-ed up creepy fantasy.

I don’t want bedsheets full of pubic hair. That’s disgusting. And when I have my period and/or have a BM, I like to be able to fully clean the area.

Sorry you’re gross.

bedsheets full of pubic hair? Not being able to clean yourself? Unlike many of the reporting of the people who post here, I am a very hairy person and I am baffled by these statements.

Oh stop.

It’s easier to clean when there isn’t hair. Don’t tell me a hairy anus gets as clean as a hairless one. Same as with heavy periods.

Sorry to be graphic!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Never did a wax and don’t think I ever will. I know the younger generation is into this. I’m not a really hairy woman and keep the area trimmed because I swim a lot. Waxing - I don’t think so. No tattoos or fake nails either. No false eyelashes.
If a man rejects me in the basis of any of these things - he’s totally not the guy for me.
I like a guy who is groomed and clean. Waxed? I have never encountered a waxed man. Ever.
Now facial hair on men - I hate it. They don’t have to wax their genitals but I prefer a clean shaven face. Radical?

Thanks but we don’t need your strawman equating waxing to “tattoos…fake nails…[and] fake eyelashes.”

We all know these are dog whistles.

Many women like to wax because they prefer it; it’s not because they are trashy (your implication) or because they’re trying to fulfill some F-ed up creepy fantasy.

I don’t want bedsheets full of pubic hair. That’s disgusting. And when I have my period and/or have a BM, I like to be able to fully clean the area.

Sorry you’re gross.

Just how hairy are you? Holy cow, you must look like a gorilla. Talk about gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've never understood why a man would prefer a woman to be hairless like a child. Trimmed, groomed, and clean are all realistic expectations, but it's just weird to want a woman to look like a child.

I prefer the look of a landing strip or small triangle.

I prefer the taste of no hair.

^ This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody under 60 has hair down there. Talking female of course.
Men need a little shrubbery trimmed up.

In my line of work I see naked bodies of all ages and the above is absolutely false.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never understood why a man would prefer a woman to be hairless like a child. Trimmed, groomed, and clean are all realistic expectations, but it's just weird to want a woman to look like a child.

It’s really not something you need to worry about. Just be confident in your own choices and leave the rest of us to do what we prefer. To be judgy about this just screams insecurity.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another reason why I will never re-enter the dating scene. I feel sorry for my daughters if this is what is now expected for dating.

+1000c

What also bothers me is that it's a trend that came from porn. Porn stars were always looking for a new kink and it made them look like children.

Porn stars were not the impetus behind this. It's men who wanted to see them more clearly.

You are wrong. Porn stars did in fact start the trend - just like acrylic nails.

They did not do it because they wanted to do. It was demand from men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another reason why I will never re-enter the dating scene. I feel sorry for my daughters if this is what is now expected for dating.

+1000c

What also bothers me is that it's a trend that came from porn. Porn stars were always looking for a new kink and it made them look like children.

Porn stars were not the impetus behind this. It's men who wanted to see them more clearly.

You are wrong. Porn stars did in fact start the trend - just like acrylic nails.

They did not do it because they wanted to do. It was demand from men.

Were you in the business and know many porn starts? How else would you know?

[Anonymous]

Agree with those who say Gen Z is less into this obsession with hairlessness. It’s really a young Gen X/millennial thing. My daughter and her friends (young’s 20s) think the hairless thing is creepy. Waxing is fine, shaving/trimming is fine, but not a Brazilian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree with those who say Gen Z is less into this obsession with hairlessness. It’s really a young Gen X/millennial thing. My daughter and her friends (young’s 20s) think the hairless thing is creepy. Waxing is fine, shaving/trimming is fine, but not a Brazilian.

It's all fine. Perhaps a Brazilian is not fine for YOU. But it most certainly is fine for anyone who wants one.