Mom brings 11 yr. Old son in women's changing room at pool

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seeing a bunch of typical women naked could scar an 11 yr old for life and turn them off of heterosexual sex forever. I'd avoid that if I were the parent of an adolescent boy.

Likely but wouldn't seeing a bunch of typical men naked would have some effect?

Yes, it might cause the boy to feel inadequate although it also might give him some high hopes for his future anatomy.

[Anonymous]

I don't trust a bunch of naked men around my son. Perfect place for some perv or pedo to do something. That's the age they target too

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will always have to bring my SN son in with me. You don't want make the mistake of trying to confront me about it, either.

I wouldn’t confront you. I’d go to management.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: What’s the scenario where your middle school son needs to pee with you? One of you needs help wiping?

In your scenario, the parent with the SN son has had strength training that your spin class hasn’t prepared you for, so count your blessings.

Give me a break. The answer for everything isn’t “the kid has special needs!!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

You ok when he pulls out his phone and makes a video for his Snapchat?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't trust a bunch of naked men around my son. Perfect place for some perv or pedo to do something. That's the age they target too

The answer isn't to drag your teen boys into the women's locker room. Change in the bathroom or car.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

You don't get to decide what everyone else is comfortable with. There are already locker rooms with rules for this. The people who don't want to follow the rules need to come up with an alternate plan.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

Then you should advocate for all-gender changing spaces. Men, women, little girls, little boys. All nude together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

Then you should advocate for all-gender changing spaces. Men, women, little girls, little boys. All nude together.

Just go in the bathroom stall. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

I think this is showing what should be obvious, that it’s inappropriate to be naked around pretty much anyone other than your immediate family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is showing what should be obvious, that it’s inappropriate to be naked around pretty much anyone other than your immediate family.

I don't prance around naked in front of my 3 kids, so no, this isn't obvious. What kind of clothing optional house do you run?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is showing what should be obvious, that it’s inappropriate to be naked around pretty much anyone other than your immediate family.

I don't prance around naked in front of my 3 kids, so no, this isn't obvious. What kind of clothing optional house do you run?

You make a good point. Who are these teen boys who like changing next to their naked mom?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I will always have to bring my SN son in with me. You don't want make the mistake of trying to confront me about it, either.

I wouldn’t confront you. I’d go to management.

And management would say “we freely allow adult men in the women’s room now to harass the women and you expect us to object to a child hahahahahaha.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

ew.