Mom brings 11 yr. Old son in women's changing room at pool

[Anonymous]

Pervs specifically go to pools and changing rooms to do their pervy stuff so it makes sense to err on the side of caution.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, I do not care who is in the room when I change. We all have body parts… an 11 year old boy changing in the girls room with his mother is no big deal. Do I think he is going rape me? No. Do I think he will stare at me? Sure. And then life moves on.

ew.

I mean, why accept your privacy being violated like that? Why do women think so little of themselves?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old self would've loved scoping out all the old saggy baggies in the women's changing rooms

Eww, this doesn’t make anyone happy, dude.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What makes you think it’s a boy? And also, all they have to say is that they identify as a girl and then they can be in the women’s changing room.

Because the mother said he was a boy and called him "he". Do you think nobody knows what a boy is anymore?

We’re not supposed to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pervs specifically go to pools and changing rooms to do their pervy stuff so it makes sense to err on the side of caution.

Right but women are supposed to be okay with that now. The pervs just have to say they identify as women and they are allowed to do their pervy stuff.

So 11–year-old boys are nothing now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We've discussed this before and most agree that using a family changing room, if available, or bring boys already in swim trunks. An 11 yr old, who is not SN, should not be brought into women's changing room at pool or restroom in a public place. Personally, I do not even thing a SN 11 yr. old boy should be in women changing room or rest room.

https://nypost.com/2024/04/05/lifestyle/mom-divides-parents-after-bringing-her-11-year-old-son-into-a-womens-changing-room/

So what. My 11 year old would have gone w me or I would have stood at the door of the men’s room practically inside. One or the other. He would not have been alone.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old self would've loved scoping out all the old saggy baggies in the women's changing rooms

Eww, this doesn’t make anyone happy, dude.

No 11 year old boy is getting his jolly’s off in the women’s dressing room. He doesn’t want to be in there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old self would've loved scoping out all the old saggy baggies in the women's changing rooms

Eww, this doesn’t make anyone happy, dude.

No 11 year old boy is getting his jolly’s off in the women’s dressing room. He doesn’t want to be in there.

Eleven year old boys are obsessed with boobs, sir.

[Anonymous]

This whole thread is really nutso. You people are truly quixotic. 11 year olds at the pool with parents do not pose any threat to anyone. Nudity is not scandalous. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This whole thread is really nutso. You people are truly quixotic. 11 year olds at the pool with parents do not pose any threat to anyone. Nudity is not scandalous. Grow up.

Then why can’t the 11 yo go in the men’s changing room?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This whole thread is really nutso. You people are truly quixotic. 11 year olds at the pool with parents do not pose any threat to anyone. Nudity is not scandalous. Grow up.

Right, women have to get naked in front of any man who so desires. So progressive.

[Anonymous]

Why not do away with changing rooms? Everyone can just change in the pool deck. Better yet, everyone can just swim naked.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t think young kids should be in a locker room alone.

Just google locker room assaults.

https://wjla.com/news/local/woman-alleges-rape-assault-inside-wilson-aquatic-center-locker-room-97400

These are not young kids.

When your 11 yr old is raped in a locker room, lets so how old you think they are.

Well, I hope you’re fine with your 11 year old seeing bare breasts and crotches, then. Because I’m not covering up just because he’s there. You can’t have it both ways.

Not to mention the younger girls in the locker room who don’t want to be naked in front of a male peer. What about their comfort? And their right to not be ogled and not have to see a peer’s penis. Not much different from subway flashers.

It has been well established that girls are not allowed to complain about their feelings of privacy or unease about having males naked with them.

Yes, the feelings of the flasher who wants to force trapped women and girls to see his penis matter much more than the dumb feelings of any girls who might be scared of such a man. We have all been taught that lesson.

Actually nudity is not inherently threatening and so if anyone is “afraid” of a penis or breast they were taught to be so by their parents. If parents are so worried about scared kids then maybe they shouldn’t teach them to be scared of the human body.

Right, the millennia of men killing, raping, and torturing women is just imaginary or something. 🙄🙄

Seldom remembered fact is that men have spent millennia killing, raping, and torturing men too.

[Anonymous]

Actually changing butt ass naked in a pool bathroom is for weirdos anyway. Show up in your gear and don’t leave till you’re dry.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My 11 year old self would've loved scoping out all the old saggy baggies in the women's changing rooms

Eww, this doesn’t make anyone happy, dude.

No 11 year old boy is getting his jolly’s off in the women’s dressing room. He doesn’t want to be in there.

I don't care if he does or doesn't but he does not belong in women's changing room and if I saw this. I would go to front desk and immediately report this to manager on duty. The sign says no member of opposite sex over age five. READ!!