Uh, what? If you are in a specialty where emergency surgery is common, it doesn't matter how well managed the team is, it's going to happen. Sometimes once they are very established they can make it so the team can minimize the time incursion during certain times, but for a specialist surgeon, "understaffed" can just mean that the one other surgeon on staff who does that specific procedure is out of town. With emergency medicine, I don't think mismanagement is often the culprit. It's just the nature of the job. |
It’s kind of bizarre to compare the urgency of someone with money being annoyed to the death or someone without money. Like, “oh, neurosurgeons have it bad on the weekends because little old ladies fall and get brain bleeds? Well, consultants have it worse because wealthy people will be mad if you don’t respond to their emails promptly!” I’m aware that these things carry similar weight in the real world. It’s just bizarre to see them compared so overtly. |
My friend could have written this. Her ex is an ER doctor. Actually got fired from one hospital for sleeping with a nurse on the job. |
I vented about my surgeon Dh on dcum a few weeks ago. I can’t stand the emergencies. Dh is very specialized and other people’s emergencies become Dh’s emergencies. It constantly throws a wrench in our plans. Other people at least seem understanding and most of our plans are catered around our kids so it doesn’t matter if he is there or comes late. |
This is not the norm of physicians we know. It takes so much time and discipline to make the journey to complete your medical training. I’m not saying cheating doesn’t happen and there are low performers in every profession. |
Women get fat |
Lack of executive functioning skills to live functionally |
+1 |
Doctors are just so cool. |
For the last couple of decades you have to be a coddled (tiger) momma's boy dork to become an MD or successful attorney. Dorky arrested development men who rarely if not never got laid in high school, college and grad school tend to turn weird as they age and get some status and money from their careers. My best friend from college divorced her MD husband in their 40s and she confessed he literally never gave her an orgasm. |
My ex-BIL is a surgeon. He thought he was God's gift. Great on paper but the entire family, even little kids, thought he was sketch; he had a weasel disposition. He was never fired from any jobs, but he turned out to be pathological liar and closeted bi-sexual - unbeknownst to my sister until a few years into their marriage. |
Being highly educated is no guarantee of mental health. |
I teach at a medical school (3rd year psychiatry clerkship director) and haven’t seen this. |
So true |
Secure the bag and make a break. This is the way. |