Soon to be 18 Senior refuses to practice driving

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of “macho men” posting here who think driving a muscle car makes you more “manly” and attractive. Usually the same people are obsessed with having kids drive on their 16th birthday and have no concept of public transit, the cost of gas/car insurance/cars/parking and environmental issues.

In 2023 driving is for proles

It means you don’t have an unlimited Uber account and/or live in the city

[Anonymous]

Driving is a life skill. Like swimming. Non negotiable. HOWEVER, a huge time commitment has to come from you. And you have to do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heck, I would go so far as to tell my son that he gets a ton of “manliness points” for being able to drive!

Wow. You’re pathetic. You don’t sound mature enough to raise children.

You sound much less so.

[Anonymous]

It’s plain stupid to force anyone to get behind a wheel, considering the risk. Some of you are deranged.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He needs a form of ID.

You can get a non driving ID. Let him be

[Anonymous]

Oldest son got his license at 21 or 22. We made him get an ID at 16, but while he did get his learner’s permit at 16, and he just never wanted to practice. He won’t admit it, but I think he was pretty freaked out about driving and scared of it. Honestly, he didn’t actually own a car until he moved out west (from large cities) at age 27, and he is a very good driver.

Middle child (daughter) couldn’t wait to drive and got her permit the first day she could, then got her license as soon as she could take the test. She had hobbies that she needed a car for.

Youngest is 20, and has no interest in a learners permit. We don’t push.

[Anonymous]

I've intentionally discouraged my 18yo from getting the official license. He is a great driver but he goes to a college where few people drive. The minute he gets his license my insurance rates will go up by about 1/3 even though he is in another state. When hes home in the DC area he uses public transportation snd Uber to get around. It woukd be silly to drive into downtown and pay for parking. Even i take Metro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heck, I would go so far as to tell my son that he gets a ton of “manliness points” for being able to drive!

Wow. You’re pathetic. You don’t sound mature enough to raise children.

People nowadays are afraid of the simple truths. Now that’s what I call pathetic!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heck, I would go so far as to tell my son that he gets a ton of “manliness points” for being able to drive!

So women become manly when they learn to drive?

Women get badass points

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of “macho men” posting here who think driving a muscle car makes you more “manly” and attractive. Usually the same people are obsessed with having kids drive on their 16th birthday and have no concept of public transit, the cost of gas/car insurance/cars/parking and environmental issues.

I am one of such posters and I am a woman. Someone’s wife replied to my post or so I assumed as she (?) posted about her (?) DH
Definitely not a macho man in any case

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of “macho men” posting here who think driving a muscle car makes you more “manly” and attractive. Usually the same people are obsessed with having kids drive on their 16th birthday and have no concept of public transit, the cost of gas/car insurance/cars/parking and environmental issues.

In 2023 driving is for proles

It means you don’t have an unlimited Uber account and/or live in the city

Says an eloi…

[Anonymous]

Not learning how to drive = failure to thrive. Whether you're a man or woman, it's absurd to not think this skill is important. Unless you've grown up and lives your entire life in a city, which is clearly not the case for OP and her son.

Stop enabling your kid OP. Stop driving him anywhere or getting things for him. He needs to learn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not learning how to drive = failure to thrive. Whether you're a man or woman, it's absurd to not think this skill is important. Unless you've grown up and lives your entire life in a city, which is clearly not the case for OP and her son.

Stop enabling your kid OP. Stop driving him anywhere or getting things for him. He needs to learn.

I’d rather have people with anxiety NOT be driving. Since, ya know, they don’t make good drivers.

[Anonymous]

Wow. These posts astound me. I made my kids take the learner's permit test when they turned 15.5, had them drive me everywhere to get in their practice hours, and booked their BTW (includes final test for license) when they turned 16.

With that said, we live out in the Fairfax suburbs, and I am from Texas where cars (and lots and lots of pavement) reign supreme.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's making excuses. He needs an ID. Do NOT just let him bum rides off of others!

Stop driving him completely until he begins to learn. Driving is also a way of helping others - running errands, etc.

You can get a ID without driving.