Is this gross or am I prude?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

They say that online. That’s not how they act on the dating apps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

They say that online. That’s not how they act on the dating apps.

They say on dating apps “dating old men is socially acceptable”?

[Anonymous]

Yous a prude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yous a prude.

Jar Jar Binks has spoken.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

32 year old dating a college student is gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

32 year old dating a college student is gross.

Good thing I’m 42.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

32 year old dating a college student is gross.

Oh it’s definitely gross but it’s not “grooming.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So many dcumers are worse than Utahns omg........

This!

So opinionated and super judgy.

You just defined all of DCUM, every day!

So what's the big deal? Yeah, I'm judging the perviness and ego stroking of any man who is drooling over a woman young enough to be his daughter. I own the judgement. Sorry you can't handle this opinionated, judgy site!

That's precisely why he doesn't date women closer to his age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

32 year old dating a college student is gross.

Oh it’s definitely gross but it’s not “grooming.”

It can be

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So many dcumers are worse than Utahns omg........

This!

So opinionated and super judgy.

You just defined all of DCUM, every day!

So what's the big deal? Yeah, I'm judging the perviness and ego stroking of any man who is drooling over a woman young enough to be his daughter. I own the judgement. Sorry you can't handle this opinionated, judgy site!

That's precisely why he doesn't date women closer to his age.

No, we know. Creeps do this because they can’t date women with the savvy and experience to see through them. I knew that when I was 19 and I know it now.

[Anonymous]

This is so silly, if it was a 50-year-old woman dating a 28 year old you’d all be gushing about how empowered she was and how incredible that she didn’t care about societal norms, then a number of you will talk about how you need a 28 year old to keep up with your raging libido.

Flip the genders and you’ve got predator, flip them back and you’re Susan B Anthony.

[Anonymous]

Are you possibly asexual?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so silly, if it was a 50-year-old woman dating a 28 year old you’d all be gushing about how empowered she was and how incredible that she didn’t care about societal norms, then a number of you will talk about how you need a 28 year old to keep up with your raging libido.

Flip the genders and you’ve got predator, flip them back and you’re Susan B Anthony.

Nice try but no. It's gross no matter the gender.

[Anonymous]

I vote totally gross. Sure, attraction is normal, but the way some people just salivate and make comments is yucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is my take. I am a guy BTW (and not dating). Socially accepted age gap: 10 years of age. Upper limit (can be uncomfortable to some): 15 years.
20 years and above: gross as age gap approaches to parent and child

The socially acceptable age gap is shrinking. Gen Z calls even a 32 yr old trying to hook up with a college student “grooming.” Obviously I think that’s silly but that’s the way things are moving.

They say that online. That’s not how they act on the dating apps.

They say on dating apps “dating old men is socially acceptable”?

They’re down for the sneaky link. Sometimes I’m introduced to friends but not always.