Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a bi male. I enjoy sex with men, but I don’t want to be in a relationship with one. I want to marry a woman.

Do you plan to marry a woman but continue to have sex with men because it's "just sex" and not a relationship?

Will you tell your wife you plan to do this?

[Anonymous]

Yes and WOW this thread is depressing

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here

NP. Every straight man you've dated, PP, is not a viable sampling representing every straight man, ever. Your experience is not usual.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.

Sorry I can't accept whites saying they only want to date whites. B.c that's what the Klan people from my hometown say.

PP here. Funny thing is, when I said I’m not interested in certain ethnicities…..I’m not attracted to white men. Like at all. MY H and almost all the men I’ve dated are BIPOC. I’m sure now you’ll say I’m fetishizing them, so I can’t really win.

Interesting how your mind went to “whites only dating whites” when it could have meant a wide variety of things.

B.c I've heard so many White Supremacists saying it for so many years and when they do its extremely upsetting.

[Anonymous]

Interesting that the hypothetical situation many (including myself) imagine here is that bi man is in a relationship with a woman and cheats with man. What about bi men in relationship with other men cheating with women? Does that happen?

[Anonymous]

Yes… So I can use my $trapon and peg him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that the hypothetical situation many (including myself) imagine here is that bi man is in a relationship with a woman and cheats with man. What about bi men in relationship with other men cheating with women? Does that happen?

I think in the case of men, "bi" is preferable to "gay", which is the most likely orientation.

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No I would not, but I think man on man is hot. Just don’t want it in my relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

So if a guy is into fem ts's (i.e chicks with dicks)... do they count as bi or straight?

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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.

https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia

New poster. I read that article. You might want to find a better-written, better-reasoned resource to convince people. The author talks about how men shouldn't be, his words, "grossed out" that he has sex with women because it's not like he didn't shower afterward. And women shouldn't consider him "less of a man" for having sex with men. He's trying to be cool and flip with that language, I know, but the result is he sounds entitled.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.

If you're a bi woman, you are completely missing the point.

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It only increases the chance I’ll have two to play with, why not?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.

If you're a bi woman, you are completely missing the point.

Got some hard data for your prejudices there, sweetie?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

So if a guy is into fem ts's (i.e chicks with dicks)... do they count as bi or straight?

Gay