Would you date a bisexual man?

Anonymous
Nope. No interest in a bi man.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Interesting that the hypothetical situation many (including myself) imagine here is that bi man is in a relationship with a woman and cheats with man. What about bi men in relationship with other men cheating with women? Does that happen?

This is what I'm saying. If you're with a cheater...who cheats on you with either gender...you already have a problem.

To answer the question at hand, I know one really hot/nice bisexual guy and would date him, but otherwise no, probably not.
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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.


Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?


Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.


If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.


Sure, but these are fair assumptions.


Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.


If you're a bi woman, you are completely missing the point.


Got some hard data for your prejudices there, sweetie?


You need data about the difference in sex drives between men and women??
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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.


Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?


I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.



I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.


Sorry I can't accept whites saying they only want to date whites. B.c that's what the Klan people from my hometown say.


PP here. Funny thing is, when I said I’m not interested in certain ethnicities…..I’m not attracted to white men. Like at all. MY H and almost all the men I’ve dated are BIPOC. I’m sure now you’ll say I’m fetishizing them, so I can’t really win.

Interesting how your mind went to “whites only dating whites” when it could have meant a wide variety of things.


B.c I've heard so many White Supremacists saying it for so many years and when they do its extremely upsetting.


Do you think people should date people they’re not attracted to? Because I can’t think of anything worse than being led on by someone who isn’t really attracted to me, but is using me to check a box and appear a certain way. I’d rather they just date who they want to date.
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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.


So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.


https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia


That article is not convincing. Written by an oversensitive person who feels victimized everywhere they go. My advice to you is stop worrying about other people's sexual preferences. Your woke politics are not going to change evolution and how people choose their partners.
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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.


Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?


Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.


If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.


Sure, but these are fair assumptions.


Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.


If you're a bi woman, you are completely missing the point.


Got some hard data for your prejudices there, sweetie?


You need data about the difference in sex drives between men and women??


What in the world does sex drive have to do with cheating? Cheating is about being underhanded and dishonest , darling.
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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.


So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.


https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia


That article is not convincing. Written by an oversensitive person who feels victimized everywhere they go. My advice to you is stop worrying about other people's sexual preferences. Your woke politics are not going to change evolution and how people choose their partners.


*laughs in Ancient Greek*
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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.


So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.


https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia


That article is not convincing. Written by an oversensitive person who feels victimized everywhere they go. My advice to you is stop worrying about other people's sexual preferences. Your woke politics are not going to change evolution and how people choose their partners.


*laughs in Ancient Greek*


And Chinese. And many other cultures.

https://daily.jstor.org/in-han-dynasty-china-bisexuality-was-the-norm/
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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.


Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here


Just because they ask doesn't mean you have to do it...
Do you do anything someone asks for? Odd.
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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.


So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.


https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia


That article is not convincing. Written by an oversensitive person who feels victimized everywhere they go. My advice to you is stop worrying about other people's sexual preferences. Your woke politics are not going to change evolution and how people choose their partners.


Ok cool. Awesome. So I can tell all my friends and my children not to date Republicans because they are more likely to be child molesters. Be right back gonna take to Twitter and TikTok with .y prejudices.
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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.


Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here


Just because they ask doesn't mean you have to do it...
Do you do anything someone asks for? Odd.


Can you read? Not PP but she didn't say she complied.
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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.


Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here


Just because they ask doesn't mean you have to do it...
Do you do anything someone asks for? Odd.


Can you read? Not PP but she didn't say she complied.


Yes, can you? She clearly implied she thought she couldn't be with them if she didn't, when she said "limiting your choices." Don't be dumb.
Anonymous
If you’re bisexual, it doubles your chances for a date.
Anonymous
No thanks.
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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.


Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here


Just because they ask doesn't mean you have to do it...
Do you do anything someone asks for? Odd.


Can you read? Not PP but she didn't say she complied.


Yes, can you? She clearly implied she thought she couldn't be with them if she didn't, when she said "limiting your choices." Don't be dumb.


She grabbed the biggest carrot in the drawer and let him have it!
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