Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There really isn’t any such thing. Bisexual men are gat men in denial.

So bisexual Women are gay Women in denial, or is that somehow different?

Bi women are just experimenting but will most likely marry a man. Bi men are usually closeted because a woman can't offer the peen they want.

[Anonymous]

I think there is such a thing as a bisexual man who is not closet gay. But relationships are difficult enough. Why add this to the list of problems that can develop?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP - do you mean “date” as part of a thruple or “strange love triangle?”

OP No! I mean like a normal monogamous relationship with a guy who is attracted to men and women! A throuple is a hard no for me lol.

[Anonymous]

Date as in go out a few times? Sure.
Date as prelude to marriage or seriously date? No. Will turn out badly in the end, I've seen it happen.

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Never.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think there is such a thing as a bisexual man who is not closet gay. But relationships are difficult enough. Why add this to the list of problems that can develop?[/quote]

You can use this as a justification not to date anyone who is not perfect. Which is fine, but it could severely limit your dating pool, which may not be good for long term goals, depending on what they are. I refused to date men with kids because that made things so much harder. In hindsight it seems silly to rule out anyone with a child simply because of that; plenty of great single people have children and go on to have happy marriages.

[Anonymous]

It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

[Anonymous]

I think it would depend on the man and whether we were both interested in monogamy regardless of sexual identity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

Women can do this too? Perhaps they don't do it as often or as socially visibly, but they most certainly can.

If your male partner is going to cheat on you, they're going to do it regardless of whether it's with a female or male partner.

To the original question, I'd be more concerned if the man in question was right at the beginning of his bisexuality and had not had much sexual experience exploring that.

[Anonymous]

Just NO

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's hard enough to keep a straight man sexually satisfied and hope he doesn't cheat. At least men have to put up a good effort to get a woman to sleep with them.

Bi and gay men can get on an app and have many sex partners in moments. I can't imagine a bi man being faithful

If this is one’s reason to not date man then by definition it’s bi-phobic. You are afraid a bi man can’t be faithful due to his sexuality. It’s fine to feel this way. I just think it odd one would deny they are bi-phobic in this situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Not ever. Dealing with a possible wondering eye for women is quite enough.

Dealing with bad spelling is worse.

[Anonymous]

The answers on this thread are why your husband keeps it on the down low, like I do. I'll be having sex with your husband, while you're at the mall on Saturday.