Would you date a bisexual man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

Nothing wrong with not being attracted to certain ethnicities.

[Anonymous]

What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.

Sorry I can't accept whites saying they only want to date whites. B.c that's what the Klan people from my hometown say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.

[Anonymous]

I am bi and happily married. She has no idea that I’ve been with men throughout our marriage. I practice safe sex and do not even worry about it. It’s who I am and she would never understand.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.

Sorry I can't accept whites saying they only want to date whites. B.c that's what the Klan people from my hometown say.

PP here. Funny thing is, when I said I’m not interested in certain ethnicities…..I’m not attracted to white men. Like at all. MY H and almost all the men I’ve dated are BIPOC. I’m sure now you’ll say I’m fetishizing them, so I can’t really win.

Interesting how your mind went to “whites only dating whites” when it could have meant a wide variety of things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am bi and happily married. She has no idea that I’ve been with men throughout our marriage. I practice safe sex and do not even worry about it. It’s who I am and she would never understand.

Is this a troll? Because this is exactly why women say they won’t date a bi man. No one wants a husband who is secretly screwing other men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am bi and happily married. She has no idea that I’ve been with men throughout our marriage. I practice safe sex and do not even worry about it. It’s who I am and she would never understand.

You're the worst of the worst. You don't even have a reason to cheat except for your own self gratification.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.

https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The answers on this thread are why your husband keeps it on the down low, like I do. I'll be having sex with your husband, while you're at the mall on Saturday.

So that's why half a jar of Vaseline disappeared while I was at the mall on Saturday!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am bi and happily married. She has no idea that I’ve been with men throughout our marriage. I practice safe sex and do not even worry about it. It’s who I am and she would never understand.

Is this a troll? Because this is exactly why women say they won’t date a bi man. No one wants a husband who is secretly screwing other men.

Np I feel like you could marry a straight guy who just as easily cheats on his wife with a woman!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just curious. Some women don't care at all, some care a lot. (And no, I'm not a bisexual man, I'm a heterosexual woman who would date a bisexual man in the right circumstances)

Dear reader, I married him.