What’s the longest you’ve dated/stayed with someone just because the sex was good?
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Anonymous
| Just curious. I think I dated someone over a year before I realized it was just the oxytocin. |
Anonymous
| My 20 year anniversary is tomorrow! |
Anonymous
| On and off for about 15 years |
Anonymous
| Single mom here - I’ve had a FWB for almost two years and it’s all about the sex. He works from home so it’s very convenient for me to see him every week or so. If my ex could have satisfied me the same way I might never have gotten a divorce. He’s definitely not a LTR candidate but he’s good. |
Anonymous
Wow! That’s way longer than my worst. They must’ve been magical in bed! Lol. |
Anonymous
| Four years, 10 months |
Anonymous
Still going? |
Anonymous
And you husband is reading it now! 
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Anonymous
| About a year - FWB situation. Would have stayed for as long as I was single or returned when I became single again; only moved on because I found a relationship I wanted to pursue that ended up in marriage. |
Anonymous
| Just because the sex was good? I’ve only had one guy where it was just about the sex and it only lasted 2-3 months. He was very well endowed and I still remember the first time I saw it and he really knew how to use it. But he was about as interesting as a bag of rocks and not much brighter and his sex skills were just not enough for it to last longer. |
Anonymous
| Two and a half years, until I couldn't take his personality any more. |
Anonymous
| I kept a FWB around for awhile (couple years?) even though I knew an actual relationship was a non-starter. We got along outside of bed though, too - I just knew I had no desire to marry him. (he was very flaky with his money, and he seemed to be itching to get his hands on mine. no thanks.) |
Anonymous
That must have been an impressive endowment! |
Anonymous
Wow, that's a long time to stay with someone just for sex. |
Anonymous
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Guy here, 2 years. Unreal oral skills. We didn't otherwise click.
In hindsight, I should have married her. From a man's perspective, almost everything else can be smoothed over if the sex is plentiful and good. |