What’s the longest you’ve dated/stayed with someone just because the sex was good?

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Anonymous wrote:Guy here, 2 years. Unreal oral skills. We didn't otherwise click.

In hindsight, I should have married her. From a man's perspective, almost everything else can be smoothed over if the sex is plentiful and good.

Rest easy, she would not have remained the same woman in bed if you married her. Then you'd still be stuck with her crazy.

SO true. My wife was a fun and adventurous in bed before marriage, and a cold prude now. But she is sane so there's that. Now if only I could find the ex for an AP, I would have it all!

np what are you doing to make it fun? stop blaming the woman!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Guy here, 2 years. Unreal oral skills. We didn't otherwise click.

In hindsight, I should have married her. From a man's perspective, almost everything else can be smoothed over if the sex is plentiful and good.

LOL I wish I were a man and life was so simple.

Yes, sexually satisfied and fed and a man is happy and ready to worship his wife. It's simple, really.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here, 2 years. Unreal oral skills. We didn't otherwise click.

In hindsight, I should have married her. From a man's perspective, almost everything else can be smoothed over if the sex is plentiful and good.

Rest easy, she would not have remained the same woman in bed if you married her. Then you'd still be stuck with her crazy.

SO true. My wife was a fun and adventurous in bed before marriage, and a cold prude now. But she is sane so there's that. Now if only I could find the ex for an AP, I would have it all!

np what are you doing to make it fun? stop blaming the woman!

You have no idea how many fun suggestions I have made, bought toys, taken on vacations, met with yawns or "if you want to, I will but don't do it for me."

I know its hard to believe but sometimes it really is just one-sided and someone loses interest in sex. Men too, there are lonely women on here that would be worshipped in any other relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've never stayed in a relationship just because the sex was good but then again I've never been in a relationship where the sex was mind blowing which may be my fault, not just his. I've been married 24 years and we have a very good sex life and I adore my husband so I'm very happy but I'm sure he wishes I was wilder in bed (I do give BJ's and other fun things!) but I'm not a moaner or a sexual acrobat. I do wonder if women are like that or if that is just a guys dream.

Yes, there are women out there and they are sexual gold. Its not about acrobatics, or flexibility. It's about enthusiasm, initiating sometimes, dirty talk, being open minded and giving BJs because they enjoy it, not as some favor to you.

Still, your DH is doing better than most, many men aren't getting much after a decade, let alone 24 years.

[Anonymous]

He was absolute nuts. From our first meeting...until the end.

The sex was that good. Never a keeper. Multiple orgasms. Hard to walk away. Damn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He was absolute nuts. From our first meeting...until the end.

The sex was that good. Never a keeper. Multiple orgasms. Hard to walk away. Damn.

What made him good in bed? Must’ve been seriously gifted! Lol.

[Anonymous]

Two years. He had untreated ADHD. After the honeymoon phased wore off (abt 6 months in), sex was the only good thing about the relationship. We had insane chemistry and very compatible sexual preferences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t gotten a BJ in over 10 years. I go down on her and make her have the big O. Then I finish up my part.

If you go down on her but let her get away with not giving you oral, the problem is you and you should know what to do. Why are you the only one going down?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here, 2 years. Unreal oral skills. We didn't otherwise click.

In hindsight, I should have married her. From a man's perspective, almost everything else can be smoothed over if the sex is plentiful and good.

LOL I wish I were a man and life was so simple.

Yes, sexually satisfied and fed and a man is happy and ready to worship his wife. It's simple, really.

Yes

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I haven’t gotten a BJ in over 10 years. I go down on her and make her have the big O. Then I finish up my part.

If you go down on her but let her get away with not giving you oral, the problem is you and you should know what to do. Why are you the only one going down?

A gay man once told me, when a woman gives a man a BJ, she is doing you a favor, when a gay man gives you a BJ, you are doing him a favor. Same thing here, many men, myself included, love going south on women, and do it for our own benefit as well as hers. I have only met one, maybe two women who shared the love of giving, and yes, I should have married them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I haven’t gotten a BJ in over 10 years. I go down on her and make her have the big O. Then I finish up my part.

If you go down on her but let her get away with not giving you oral, the problem is you and you should know what to do. Why are you the only one going down?

A gay man once told me, when a woman gives a man a BJ, she is doing you a favor, when a gay man gives you a BJ, you are doing him a favor. Same thing here, many men, myself included, love going south on women, and do it for our own benefit as well as hers. I have only met one, maybe two women who shared the love of giving, and yes, I should have married them.

I like going down on my husband but I don’t like him going down on me. I know I must be weird and he offers to do it but I rarely say yes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just because the sex was good? I’ve only had one guy where it was just about the sex and it only lasted 2-3 months. He was very well endowed and I still remember the first time I saw it and he really knew how to use it. But he was about as interesting as a bag of rocks and not much brighter and his sex skills were just not enough for it to last longer.

That must have been an impressive endowment!

It was at least 8”+ and a big girth and pretty scary the first time.

That could be great or terribly painful depending on his skillset. Was he good at using it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just because the sex was good? I’ve only had one guy where it was just about the sex and it only lasted 2-3 months. He was very well endowed and I still remember the first time I saw it and he really knew how to use it. But he was about as interesting as a bag of rocks and not much brighter and his sex skills were just not enough for it to last longer.

That must have been an impressive endowment!

It was at least 8”+ and a big girth and pretty scary the first time.

That could be great or terribly painful depending on his skillset. Was he good at using it?

I’m not the PP but I dated a guy like this for a few months. The first couple of times I was with him I was on top and I was able to completely control the sex along with some extra lubrication so it wasn’t painful but a very different feel. Over time I got very use to it and he was very skillful. But his other shortcomings did not make up for it so I moved on. Honestly, a guy with an average size but skillful is just as satisfying.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just because the sex was good? I’ve only had one guy where it was just about the sex and it only lasted 2-3 months. He was very well endowed and I still remember the first time I saw it and he really knew how to use it. But he was about as interesting as a bag of rocks and not much brighter and his sex skills were just not enough for it to last longer.

That must have been an impressive endowment!

It was at least 8”+ and a big girth and pretty scary the first time.

That could be great or terribly painful depending on his skillset. Was he good at using it?

I’m not the PP but I dated a guy like this for a few months. The first couple of times I was with him I was on top and I was able to completely control the sex along with some extra lubrication so it wasn’t painful but a very different feel. Over time I got very use to it and he was very skillful. But his other shortcomings did not make up for it so I moved on. Honestly, a guy with an average size but skillful is just as satisfying.

This sounds just like some I dated years ago. Does his first name begin with an R and his last name end with an N?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just because the sex was good? I’ve only had one guy where it was just about the sex and it only lasted 2-3 months. He was very well endowed and I still remember the first time I saw it and he really knew how to use it. But he was about as interesting as a bag of rocks and not much brighter and his sex skills were just not enough for it to last longer.

That must have been an impressive endowment!

It was at least 8”+ and a big girth and pretty scary the first time.

That could be great or terribly painful depending on his skillset. Was he good at using it?

I’m not the PP but I dated a guy like this for a few months. The first couple of times I was with him I was on top and I was able to completely control the sex along with some extra lubrication so it wasn’t painful but a very different feel. Over time I got very use to it and he was very skillful. But his other shortcomings did not make up for it so I moved on. Honestly, a guy with an average size but skillful is just as satisfying.

This sounds just like some I dated years ago. Does his first name begin with an R and his last name end with an N?

Richard NixoN - well he was known as Tricky Dick!