Dealing with jealous sister who's still TTC

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was hoping to get at least 10 supportive email before the snarky ones started but looks like you have fast fingers today. lol

I have to see her because she is my sister and we both show up for family events such as holiday parties and birthday parties, family reunions, etc...

I have a good relationship with my mother so we naturally confide in one another. My mother had no qualms about denying my pg because she said it's not her place to tell my sister information about my life. My mother also scolded my sister when she learned my sister was checking out my belly all the time for fear that I might be pregnant again.

To give you the benefit of the doub,t it does sound as though your mother is also a bit unbalanced so you can claim your problems are heriditary.

[Anonymous]

if your mom was being completely neutral, she would not have even told you your sister asked if you were pregnant. She obviously came to you to "discuss" your sister talking to her. You are doing all of this behind her back-and involving HER mother. Shame on you- pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nutty OP's original post:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/206552.page

many, many people who responded to the first post suggested that OP take the high road, tell her sister to avoid further anguish. She just will keep posting tills he hears what she wants to hear i guess.

YES, that IS my post! I thought it lost or buried for lack of response. I'm pleasantly surprised to learn that not only did people reply, many, many people wrote supportive posts. PP, you are a certified idiot, possibly another graduate of Rinky Dink University. "Many, many people" did not suggest I take the high road; two did out of two pages of responses. And btw, I never saw my sister on "Xmas" day as it turns out she was in NY the whole day. I saw her the day before we left for home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rinky Dink degree... How clever OP!! Actually English isn't my first language, I speak five languages actually. Maybe if you weren't so busy obsessing about your sister and scheming, you'd have time for other hobbies like language studies. Oh and I have a masters degree, which wasn't paid off by a man. Your sister is paying off her own loans and I applaud her for that. You seem very entitled, so you wouldn't understand the feeling of accomplishment to pay your own way in life. I think you're jealous of HER. Competitive, much??

Keep posting, please!!!

Of all the posters, you amuse me the most because your poor writing and lack of intelligent replies makes you the easiest to pick on. And thank you, it must have been clever because it was enough to get you irritated enough to write me back, didn't it? Perhaps if English were your first language and you understood American culture well too you would understand that a "masters" degree is commonplace here in the DC metro area. I have a "masters" degree that I paid for too. But DH paid for the more costly degree I got after that. By the way, did Rinky Dink University fail to teach you when to capitalize too?

So let me also understand your other point -- I am jealous of my sister because I yearn to pay off my own loans rather than let my DH if he wants to? So that's why my sister is digging her fingernails into her skin over it? I didn't earn DH's gift to pay off my loan. I didn't even ask for it. He did it on his own. Maybe you're the one who is jealous because you're wondering why despite speaking five languages and having a "masters" degree from Rinky Dink University you still have bills you're struggling to pay for. What kind of a job can you possibly have given the way you write? Sorry PP, I'm actually a decent person who hates to communicate this way to others. But if you think you can take the frustration of your own miserable life out on anonymous DCUM posters seeking support without any consequence, you are mistaken. Let's see how you like a taste of your own snarky medicine. You won't win any war of words with me because it's easy to figure out from your poor writing and unintelligent rebuttals that you lack intelligence.

[Anonymous]

OP I understand why your sister doesn't like you. It has nothing to with jealousy. You are seriously disturbed. Please seek help.

[Anonymous]

OP, you need professional help.

[Anonymous]

NP here. OP, stop posting already. You are sounding life a serious whacko! Move on!

[Anonymous]

OP, I was on your side Initially, but now I think you need help. You lack empathy for your sister and others and are mean! If you ask for advice you have to take the good with the bad. Take the high road, be grateful for all of your blessings, stop rubbing your sister's face in her challenges.

[Anonymous]

OP, having just read through this thread, I can honestly say with every subsequent post, you paint yourself to be a pathetic jerk. Your sister is better off without you in her life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rinky Dink degree... How clever OP!! Actually English isn't my first language, I speak five languages actually. Maybe if you weren't so busy obsessing about your sister and scheming, you'd have time for other hobbies like language studies. Oh and I have a masters degree, which wasn't paid off by a man. Your sister is paying off her own loans and I applaud her for that. You seem very entitled, so you wouldn't understand the feeling of accomplishment to pay your own way in life. I think you're jealous of HER. Competitive, much??

Keep posting, please!!!

Of all the posters, you amuse me the most because your poor writing and lack of intelligent replies makes you the easiest to pick on. And thank you, it must have been clever because it was enough to get you irritated enough to write me back, didn't it? Perhaps if English were your first language and you understood American culture well too you would understand that a "masters" degree is commonplace here in the DC metro area. I have a "masters" degree that I paid for too. But DH paid for the more costly degree I got after that. By the way, did Rinky Dink University fail to teach you when to capitalize too?

So let me also understand your other point -- I am jealous of my sister because I yearn to pay off my own loans rather than let my DH if he wants to? So that's why my sister is digging her fingernails into her skin over it? I didn't earn DH's gift to pay off my loan. I didn't even ask for it. He did it on his own. Maybe you're the one who is jealous because you're wondering why despite speaking five languages and having a "masters" degree from Rinky Dink University you still have bills you're struggling to pay for. What kind of a job can you possibly have given the way you write? Sorry PP, I'm actually a decent person who hates to communicate this way to others. But if you think you can take the frustration of your own miserable life out on anonymous DCUM posters seeking support without any consequence, you are mistaken. Let's see how you like a taste of your own snarky medicine. You won't win any war of words with me because it's easy to figure out from your poor writing and unintelligent rebuttals that you lack intelligence.

Op, you are too funny. Calling somebody else's rebuttals unintelligent! And claiming that you are a decent person! This only gets more ridiculous with every post.

[Anonymous]

Whatever happened with your bouquet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP here. OP, stop posting already. You are sounding life a serious whacko! Move on!

Hey you unintelligent snarky posters, your beloved OP here. It seems the more I irritate you guys with snarky posts the more you write back! I guess you're enjoying the taste of your own medicine. So let's keep it going. Remember what one poster said, it's more entertaining than TV. And lets skip the one liner attacks and argue more substantively....stupid rebuttals make for boring arguments, don't you think? Calling me pathetic is a stupid person's argument. Explaining why in a well written way makes things more interesting and lively. But the graduate from Rinky Dink University with the gymnastics scholarship, you may have to step out for this one because it would require thinking and writing well. You can just sit on your Costco couch in Springfield, eat your frozen, processed food from Giant for dinner, and watch Housewives of Atlanta.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NP here. OP, stop posting already. You are sounding life a serious whacko! Move on!

Hey you unintelligent snarky posters, your beloved OP here. It seems the more I irritate you guys with snarky posts the more you write back! I guess you're enjoying the taste of your own medicine. So let's keep it going. Remember what one poster said, it's more entertaining than TV. And lets skip the one liner attacks and argue more substantively....stupid rebuttals make for boring arguments, don't you think? Calling me pathetic is a stupid person's argument. Explaining why in a well written way makes things more interesting and lively. But the graduate from Rinky Dink University with the gymnastics scholarship, you may have to step out for this one because it would require thinking and writing well. You can just sit on your Costco couch in Springfield, eat your frozen, processed food from Giant for dinner, and watch Housewives of Atlanta.

True Bitch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NP here. OP, stop posting already. You are sounding life a serious whacko! Move on!

Hey you unintelligent snarky posters, your beloved OP here. It seems the more I irritate you guys with snarky posts the more you write back! I guess you're enjoying the taste of your own medicine. So let's keep it going. Remember what one poster said, it's more entertaining than TV. And lets skip the one liner attacks and argue more substantively....stupid rebuttals make for boring arguments, don't you think? Calling me pathetic is a stupid person's argument. Explaining why in a well written way makes things more interesting and lively. But the graduate from Rinky Dink University with the gymnastics scholarship, you may have to step out for this one because it would require thinking and writing well. You can just sit on your Costco couch in Springfield, eat your frozen, processed food from Giant for dinner, and watch Housewives of Atlanta.

OP just revealed to all her secret fantasy for herself. Personally, I think she'll have to lose some extra weight and tone up first -go easy on the Giant frozen dinners, OP! -before she tries for that gymnastics scholarship.

[Anonymous]

OP, the mere fact that you keep coming shows a lack of maturity. Some posters have made valid criticisms/observations based on what you've written. Others have just snarked. In any event, if you had any dignity, you would just stop posting here. Instead, you write long posts with vicious attacks against other posters. You claim that other posters are writing unsubstantiated post, yet in your last post you go on ad nauseum about someone going to Rinky Dinky U. or whateve, yet if you are so intelligent, how can you possibly think that is a smart, articulate use of the English language? Please, show some maturity, and just stop this. You are sounding truly deranged and looking quite the fool.