She wants a very high-quality man—what are her chances?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What is her education?

-Has zero education, but will education perfectly for her future husband.

Zero?

Is she a real doll?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a person who could really benefit from therapy. she's hiding from life and hoping that a man will provide all her answers.

+1

[Anonymous]

She needs a matchmaker

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What is her education?

-Has zero education, but will education perfectly for her future husband.

If she wants to meet and marry a doctor, then she needs to go into a health profession or try to go to medical school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you asking for someone you know?

Yes, a cousin. Forgot to add that she’s never worked and doesn’t plan to ever work.

Hope she gets a lot from the future divorce.

[Anonymous]

Too lazy to do something with her life but not too entitled to have a laundry list of demands for a future spouse. I wish I could say I'm surprised

[Anonymous]

You do understand she's autistic, OP?

This is a trainwreck in the making.

My husband and I are on the spectrum, and we're a doctor-scientist couple. He didn't want someone with no education. Even though my career was severely mommy-tracked, I have several graduate diplomas. I was terrified of driving. I forced myself to learn anyway. We maintain a very small circle of friends, because we're very introverted.

Your girl needs to push herself, even if the goal is finding an autistic professional who is willing to tolerate some personality quirks. I am surrounded by doctors of various cultures and ethnicities (European, Middle East, Asia and East Asia). NONE OF THEM WANT VAPID WIVES.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

What is her education?

-Has zero education, but will education perfectly for her future husband.

Most intelligent men who are not just looking for eye candy and treat women like objects want intelligent partners. If you want smart kids, marry a smart/educated woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

What is her education?

-Has zero education, but will education perfectly for her future husband.

Most intelligent men who are not just looking for eye candy and treat women like objects want intelligent partners. If you want smart kids, marry a smart/educated woman.

That’s someone being sarcastic. OP replied and said the girl is in college studying Humanities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unemployed for life: strike one

Mental health issues: strike two

No life: strike three.

Honestly, she sounds kind of incel-ish. She needs a life outside of brushing her hair and looking in the mirror. For her own sake.

Interesting. It does sound like the entitled flipside of that, doesn’t it?

Yes. Very high expectations in a partner, while doing nothing to make herself worthy of such a partner. Incel, whether male or female.

She isn’t an incel. She’s apparently attractive so she will find men willing to shaboink her if she wants to put out. But they won’t marry it.

Being “shaboinkable” doesn’t exclude her from being a female incel. Men will shaboink anything from a goat to a literal hole in the wall.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a person who could really benefit from therapy. she's hiding from life and hoping that a man will provide all her answers.

+1

Agree. She doesn’t want a spouse, she wants someone to functionally be her parent in exchange for some cooking and cleaning and presumably some “shaboinking”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious to hear perspectives on this woman’s chances with high-quality men:

Profile of the Woman:
-Early 20s
-Highly attractive (8–9/10), natural “clean soft girl” aesthetic for her husband
-Well-groomed but minimal makeup / low-maintenance; always clean and polished for her husband
-Quiet, introverted, very shy; very quiet in public
-Homebody, small social circle (has one best friend)
-Polite, very nice, empathetic, caring, people-pleasing, loyal, not manipulative or mean
-Limited dating history, hasn’t dated seriously, but has tried talking to guys online
-Won’t be social with in-laws initially; quiet unless spoken to, warms up gradually if she likes them
-Hates cooking and cleaning, but learning specifically to cook and maintain household perfectly for her future husband
-Lazy with her chores now, but will run a perfect household for her husband
-Excellent at hosting and organizing events
-Always intends to look attractive and well-presented for her husband
-Doesn’t drive (dislikes being out alone)
-Wants marriage/kids, traditional setup
-No specific hobbies, but would enjoy traveling and being a wife and mom
-Lifestyle goals: not super high maintenance

Type of Man She Wants:
-Doctor (cardiologist, orthopedic surgeon, anesthesiologist, pediatrician, etc.), high-earning entrepreneur, or other high-paying professional
-Comes from a good/wealthy family
-Well-educated, went to a good school
-Put-together, stable, takes the lead but values wife equally
-Has friends but not overly social/popular
-Charismatic but not over-the-top
-Relatively attractive, tall, great personality
-Family-oriented, prioritizes wife and children
-Medium work hours; flexible doctor or business owner
-Wants kids as soon as possible
-Will take the lead on finances but values her input for household and family decisions

Questions:
What are her realistic chances of attracting a man like this?
How much do her introverted, very quiet personality and lack of hobbies affect her desirability?
Does her lack of driving or career ambition matter at this level?
How does her selective domestic commitment (hates chores/cooking but perfect for husband, always well-groomed, hosting, caring) play in long-term marriage?
Any other traits or behaviors she should adopt to increase her chances?

Not judging—just genuinely curious what people have actually observed in real life.

High quality men can be difficult to live with. Find a kind and hardworking man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
High quality men can be difficult to live with. Find a kind and hardworking man.

Isn't a hardworking man a bit out of her league?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious to hear perspectives on this woman’s chances with high-quality men:

Profile of the Woman:
-Early 20s
-Highly attractive (8–9/10), natural “clean soft girl” aesthetic for her husband
-Well-groomed but minimal makeup / low-maintenance; always clean and polished for her husband
-Quiet, introverted, very shy; very quiet in public
-Homebody, small social circle (has one best friend)
-Polite, very nice, empathetic, caring, people-pleasing, loyal, not manipulative or mean
-Limited dating history, hasn’t dated seriously, but has tried talking to guys online
-Won’t be social with in-laws initially; quiet unless spoken to, warms up gradually if she likes them
-Hates cooking and cleaning, but learning specifically to cook and maintain household perfectly for her future husband
-Lazy with her chores now, but will run a perfect household for her husband
-Excellent at hosting and organizing events
-Always intends to look attractive and well-presented for her husband
-Doesn’t drive (dislikes being out alone)
-Wants marriage/kids, traditional setup
-No specific hobbies, but would enjoy traveling and being a wife and mom
-Lifestyle goals: not super high maintenance

Type of Man She Wants:
-Doctor (cardiologist, orthopedic surgeon, anesthesiologist, pediatrician, etc.), high-earning entrepreneur, or other high-paying professional
-Comes from a good/wealthy family
-Well-educated, went to a good school
-Put-together, stable, takes the lead but values wife equally
-Has friends but not overly social/popular
-Charismatic but not over-the-top
-Relatively attractive, tall, great personality
-Family-oriented, prioritizes wife and children
-Medium work hours; flexible doctor or business owner
-Wants kids as soon as possible
-Will take the lead on finances but values her input for household and family decisions

Questions:
What are her realistic chances of attracting a man like this?
How much do her introverted, very quiet personality and lack of hobbies affect her desirability?
Does her lack of driving or career ambition matter at this level?
How does her selective domestic commitment (hates chores/cooking but perfect for husband, always well-groomed, hosting, caring) play in long-term marriage?
Any other traits or behaviors she should adopt to increase her chances?

Not judging—just genuinely curious what people have actually observed in real life.

lol sure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curious to hear perspectives on this woman’s chances with high-quality men:

Profile of the Woman:
-Early 20s
-Highly attractive (8–9/10), natural “clean soft girl” aesthetic for her husband
-Well-groomed but minimal makeup / low-maintenance; always clean and polished for her husband
-Quiet, introverted, very shy; very quiet in public
-Homebody, small social circle (has one best friend)
-Polite, very nice, empathetic, caring, people-pleasing, loyal, not manipulative or mean
-Limited dating history, hasn’t dated seriously, but has tried talking to guys online
-Won’t be social with in-laws initially; quiet unless spoken to, warms up gradually if she likes them
-Hates cooking and cleaning, but learning specifically to cook and maintain household perfectly for her future husband
-Lazy with her chores now, but will run a perfect household for her husband
-Excellent at hosting and organizing events
-Always intends to look attractive and well-presented for her husband
-Doesn’t drive (dislikes being out alone)
-Wants marriage/kids, traditional setup
-No specific hobbies, but would enjoy traveling and being a wife and mom
-Lifestyle goals: not super high maintenance

Type of Man She Wants:
-Doctor (cardiologist, orthopedic surgeon, anesthesiologist, pediatrician, etc.), high-earning entrepreneur, or other high-paying professional
-Comes from a good/wealthy family
-Well-educated, went to a good school
-Put-together, stable, takes the lead but values wife equally
-Has friends but not overly social/popular
-Charismatic but not over-the-top
-Relatively attractive, tall, great personality
-Family-oriented, prioritizes wife and children
-Medium work hours; flexible doctor or business owner
-Wants kids as soon as possible
-Will take the lead on finances but values her input for household and family decisions

Questions:
What are her realistic chances of attracting a man like this?
How much do her introverted, very quiet personality and lack of hobbies affect her desirability?
Does her lack of driving or career ambition matter at this level?
How does her selective domestic commitment (hates chores/cooking but perfect for husband, always well-groomed, hosting, caring) play in long-term marriage?
Any other traits or behaviors she should adopt to increase her chances?

Not judging—just genuinely curious what people have actually observed in real life.

High quality men can be difficult to live with. Find a kind and hardworking man.

Some women are fine with living with difficult men if it means having a lot of money and the outward appearance of having a great life. Look at Melania.