Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dude sounds like a dork

Nothing would make my vag dry up quicker then some soy boy inserting 'anti-car' lifestyle choices into a hook up.

[Anonymous]

OP is the loser. What single young woman lives in Fairfax? Dullsville.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is the loser. What single young woman lives in Fairfax? Dullsville.

A pediatric oncologist at INOVA, in my sister's case. Yep, she is a class A loser!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. This is what I texted back.

“So Foggy Bottom is still too far for from Fairfax for me. Arlington would work better as it’s the mid point for both of us distance wise. If Arlington works for you I’m happy to meet, if not we can always connect another time.”

it's literally a 3< minutes 1 stop ride on metro. why wouldn't either of you compromise?

Um Foggy Bottom, where the dude lives, is a 10min drive from Dupont, and walkable on a nice day. From Fairfax, Foggy Bottom is a 45 minute drive or an hour and a half by Metro. This is way more than “compromise” on OPs part.

But also OP, ditch him. He thinks he’s too cool for the ‘burbs, so he probably also thinks he’s too cool for you (as evidenced by his reluctance to add ten minutes of effort)

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP is the loser. What single young woman lives in Fairfax? Dullsville.

A pediatric oncologist at INOVA, in my sister's case. Yep, she is a class A loser!

I'd commute.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He said he wanted to meet in dc as he was trying to select a nice place that he knows to meet at and he is not familiar with Arlington. Now he says he will meet me there.

Stop being so desperate. Desperate to go on this date despite the red flags. Desperate for attention on here despite not taking anyone's advice.

Op here. I am meeting him. Will report back how it goes.

At least you own being desperate.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP he also may assume the restaurants on his side of the river are better. When we lived in dc, I hated trekking to VA suburbs for not great places

Op here. This is true! But I do want to drive and I was happy to drive to Arlington for a first meet. After that if we click I’d be okay going into the city for a nicer experience. But I was put off by his insistence to meet for the first time in DC on a rainy day.

Where in Arlington did you propose meeting? Insisting on planning the date around your refusal to take public transit is pretty selfish on your part.

You’re still not doing the math. Dupont Circle Metro to Clarendon Metro is 22 min. Vienna “Fairfax” Metro is a 20min Metro ride from Clarendon. At any rate this guy probably does not share OP’s values

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He said he wanted to meet in dc as he was trying to select a nice place that he knows to meet at and he is not familiar with Arlington. Now he says he will meet me there.

Stop being so desperate. Desperate to go on this date despite the red flags. Desperate for attention on here despite not taking anyone's advice.

Op here. I am meeting him. Will report back how it goes.

Noo are you serious!? In Foggy Bottom? This is a terrible foundation for a relationship. Before even meeting him, you’ve already taught him that you are willing to be a doormat and he doesn’t need to compromise anything for you. How can you possibly be expecting a respectful, equal relationship to come out of this!?!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He said he wanted to meet in dc as he was trying to select a nice place that he knows to meet at and he is not familiar with Arlington. Now he says he will meet me there.

Stop being so desperate. Desperate to go on this date despite the red flags. Desperate for attention on here despite not taking anyone's advice.

Op here. I am meeting him. Will report back how it goes.

Noo are you serious!? In Foggy Bottom? This is a terrible foundation for a relationship. Before even meeting him, you’ve already taught him that you are willing to be a doormat and he doesn’t need to compromise anything for you. How can you possibly be expecting a respectful, equal relationship to come out of this!?!?

It's pretty obvious OP is the type that has zero self respect and will take any crumb of attention a man throws at her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP is the loser. What single young woman lives in Fairfax? Dullsville.

A pediatric oncologist at INOVA, in my sister's case. Yep, she is a class A loser!

If she isn’t a resident, she’s not young

If she is a resident, dating a resident absolutely is terrible besides meeting for sex

[Anonymous]

OP is gonna put out obviously

[Anonymous]

Op here. We met in Arlington and had some drinks. He tried to make a move and kiss me and I rejected him. He looked so dejected!

I don’t kiss on first dates!

[Anonymous]

This can't be real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. We met in Arlington and had some drinks. He tried to make a move and kiss me and I rejected him. He looked so dejected!

I don’t kiss on first dates!

Don't you have friends you can talk to about this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. We met in Arlington and had some drinks. He tried to make a move and kiss me and I rejected him. He looked so dejected!

I don’t kiss on first dates!

If you are over 30, then the guy is going to move on most likely.