Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

[Anonymous]

He lives in DuPont, I live in Fairfax. He first suggested meeting in Logan Circle. I said that was too far and suggested Arlington. He comes back and recommends meeting at Foggy Bottom.

I don’t love that he won’t make the trek over to Arlington and expects me to go to DC. What would you do?

[Anonymous]

Don’t go out with him if he won’t meet you in at least the middle.

[Anonymous]

Arlington or Tyson’s or don’t go. I live in Fairfax Station. I work in DC.

You guys are not that far apart and he can meet you halfway.

[Anonymous]

Your lives are too busy for the commute distance. Next. Or save it for when you have an important reason to be near each other, and make the date an add on

[Anonymous]

Halloween is over, but never too late to ghost.

[Anonymous]

Op here. This is what I texted back.

“So Foggy Bottom is still too far for from Fairfax for me. Arlington would work better as it’s the mid point for both of us distance wise. If Arlington works for you I’m happy to meet, if not we can always connect another time.”

[Anonymous]

BYE dude. He's already a pain in the butt.

[Anonymous]

He’s just looking for a booty call.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't sound very promising if he won't make the effort for the first date.

[Anonymous]

It seems that you are not compatible. You don't want to leave Virginia. He doesn't want to come to Virginia. How y'all plan on dating and building a relationship?
Instead of getting into a useless tit for tat and you trying to bred flag him as a bad guy. Just accept it as a compatibility thing it is. And say it's not going to work out for you and move on

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. This is what I texted back.

“So Foggy Bottom is still too far for from Fairfax for me. Arlington would work better as it’s the mid point for both of us distance wise. If Arlington works for you I’m happy to meet, if not we can always connect another time.”

it's literally a 3< minutes 1 stop ride on metro. why wouldn't either of you compromise?

[Anonymous]

Foggy Bottom is one stop past Arlington.

[Anonymous]

Too much work. Ghost

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s just looking for a booty call.

Agreed. He wants to be able to invite you back to his place easily.

[Anonymous]

he sounds gay