Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Overall I’ve found men like that aren’t really interested in me, they’ll put in the bare minimum effort in hopes of getting laid. Like I remember one guy offered to meet where I lived for a first date, and when I mentioned I was in my period, he literally said “no sex then? I’ll let you come to me”. Gross.

My current BF drove over an hour to see me for our first date. Don’t waste your time on this guy.

Ummm, are you a troll? Why are telling someone you’ve never even met that you’re on your period???

Seriously. How gross is that?

[Anonymous]

Thi sis not going to work.

[Anonymous]

That’s a lot of effort for some suburban Applebees

[Anonymous]

At the beginning hes like this, oh honey hard pass on this one!

[Anonymous]

Honestly I lived in DC when I was single and didn’t date outside of the city because I knew it would be difficult if things went anywhere. He should just be honest about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He lives in DuPont, I live in Fairfax. He first suggested meeting in Logan Circle. I said that was too far and suggested Arlington. He comes back and recommends meeting at Foggy Bottom.

I don’t love that he won’t make the trek over to Arlington and expects me to go to DC. What would you do?

If he really wanted to meet, he would drag his D through broken glass and barbed wire to come to you. He’s not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Greeting from Dupont. We are a little weird here for you suburban types but we are worth it, I promise.

[Anonymous]

You aren't right for e/o. He's smart and cool enough to live in Dupont and you live in sucky Fairfax. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He lives in DuPont, I live in Fairfax. He first suggested meeting in Logan Circle. I said that was too far and suggested Arlington. He comes back and recommends meeting at Foggy Bottom.

I don’t love that he won’t make the trek over to Arlington and expects me to go to DC. What would you do?

If he really wanted to meet, he would drag his D through broken glass and barbed wire to come to you. He’s not worth it.

That would be a big red flag for that kind of sentiment to arise on a first internet date.