How many ended by you ghosting? |
What happened? |
That was the resounding sentiment. Non cheaters can kind of "get it " from a new and exciting thing but a 20+ year 3 kids and a house thing is super expansive and not hot? |
Shockingly sometimes people genuinely care about their affair partners. |
I do not think caring about your AP is shocking. My question is more about a DW (or DH) who is having an affair feels about their spouse potentially doing the same. I have seen it where a DW is jealous of her DH's attention toward other women even when she is having an affair. |
I don’t think I would care as long as it’s private, safe and makes spouse happier. Maybe I’ve been married too long but it’s just unrealistic to expect one person to meet your emotional/ physical needs forever. That being said a serial cheater isn’t good but if they had a real connection with someone I would understand that. |
She’s jealous of the AP with any women and will get batsh@t crazy and go through his phone to see if he’s seeing other women….but somehow not care he’s banging his wife, sleeping in the sane bed. They are a real piece of work. |
Willing to blow up marriages, ruin kids, and scar spouses all to just test drive a new person that ultimately means nothing to them. |
I would too but it would make me feel very sad. |
Let’s see if you find out if you still feel that way…. You have no idea the pain unless you have experienced it firsthand. No idea. It’s like the concept of being a parent without actually having any children. |
I have seen a number of affairs, mostly long term. The commonality is that the people engaging in them are very selfish people. Like a 100% hit rate. |
The women all love posting on Insta, exercise routines, selfies, etc. it is a certain narc type. And if they do charity—it’s all designed to make them look benevolent when they have a rotten, black core and don’t care about hurting others. False empathy- they don’t feel it and no guilt. Broken people. |
Describes my serial cheating ex-wife. Loved to portray herself as happy homemaker, selfless, when she was anything but. Looked like your typical mom She created every opportunity to be alone without the kids and me to go out banging. |
That is an interesting question. Perhaps, followed due to her lack of commitment while we were together. She was never sure. |
If women were getting the attention they craved at home, they wouldn’t have stepped out in the first place. That’s easy to understand. But I’m sure men feel the same way. It’s tragic how we let our relationships atrophy. |