Because you are a fkd-up compartmentalizer. Your wife on the other have will definitely feel like she was in another universe when she learns the truth. It is so disorienting and messes with your head for life. You don’t know up from down for a long time afterwards. You question everything and trust no one. It’s very traumatic. |
Not a victim, I just had an extended brush with a person with faulty wiring who is fast becoming a tangential character in the story of my life. |
+1 every vacation, holiday, family event, kid’s birthday is ruined for me during that time. You search pictures, emails, voice mails and can’t believe the double face lies. It ruined memories for me completely. Very happy memories got washed out when I found out spouse was cheating during those times. It’s just awful. |
Who are you to judge others? |
What is AP? |
I can judge a morally wrong behavior and ascribe characteristics to a person that lies. I’m not alone. Americans place cheating on a spouse dead last on a list of acceptable behaviors, behind abortion, cohabitation, pornography, out-of-wedlock births and divorce, among others. A puny 6 percent say adultery is acceptable, according to polls. |
Way more hos on this forum that think it’s great. |
+1,000 |
Where do you place those other behaviors? Are they unacceptable but less so or more so than cheating? |
Cheating is absolutely abhorrent. Having said that, you probably have a major flaw(s) for him to behave like this |
How did it start? How did it end? |
LOL, which is funny because something like 50% of people commit adultery. Actions speak louder than words. |
You are no judge. I will be judged by one and I’ll meet him some day. 🖕 |
Cardinal sin. You will meet the one with horns. Have fun in hell. |
NP. It’s a nice thought that people you are angry with will go to hell. But hell doesn’t exist. It’s a childish fantasy. Channel your energy into living a good life and don’t be so fearful and rigid. Good luck to you. |