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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have not had an affair nor has my husband, but I'm a little fascinated by he super long term affairs. A year doesn't seem THAT long. WhenI was headed to college my BFFs father was outed (FAFSA?) As having an entirely separate family of the same makeup. 3 daughters with wife one and 3 with mistress, all the same age. The mistress lived in a house that was nearly identical down to the furniture of the wife's home. UMC vs more MC area but otherwise pretty much the same. I'd love to know the psychology behind that kind of setup, it makes NO sense to me why that would be desirable or how it was hidden so long. [/quote]
I knew of a situation like this while I was growing up. Ironically the wife had all daughters and the mistress had all sons, so the family business was passed on to other relatives children who were born in wedlock.[/quote]

Could someone explain how this works logistically?  Like at least one of them has to know the whole story.  Otherwise, how do you explain being away so much?[/quote]

I'd also like to know. If only so I can duplicate it. I'd love to have a double life.[/quote]

You just bang them in the middle of the work day when their husbands are at work and you are supposed to be there too. Or bang a co-worker.

No missing dinners, evenings or weekends. They are hard to get discovered since no time is missing on the home front. [/quote]

You didn't read the older post. This was about having a whole second family, not banging a fellow married or a coworker. Multi year affair that produces multiple kids.[/quote]

That sounds absolutely miserable.  Two spouses, two sets of kids….one set is enough.  Imagine raising two families. Sounds very costly too.  [/quote]

That was the resounding sentiment. Non cheaters can kind of "get it " from a new and exciting thing but a 20+ year 3 kids and a house thing is super expansive and not hot?[/quote]

Shockingly sometimes people genuinely care about their affair partners.[/quote]

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