What are your rules about smoking pot at home?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

If only that were true that no one does this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

Sorry if you were triggered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

Sorry if you were triggered.

Sorry you're a shit parent and can't understand nuances in life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

If only that were true that no one does this.

No one in this thread said they would do this. No one. Stop making stuff up.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

This post is not really for OP as kid doesn’t sound an addict, but if someone clicks here bc their kid did come home an addict, here’s a link that gives general info when can and how to evict if gets to that and paths for help:

https://americanaddictioncenters.org/rehab-guide/remove-addict

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have one rule: No smoking inside the house.

This.

[Anonymous]

OP do you have a spouse ? What are their thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Nope. It stinks. Use it in a way such that I don’t have to smell it in my home.

[Anonymous]

No smoking in the house but they would never want to do that anyway.

Outside in on the back yard or back porch is fine. I dont have an issue with over 21 adults doing something that is legal. I would have an issue if they were high on a regular basis but that's not the case.

I personally have never tried it (maybe I'll have a gummy someday when I retire) but try not to judge. It's probably no worse than the wine habit that a lot of DCUMers seem to have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No smoking in the house but they would never want to do that anyway.

Outside in on the back yard or back porch is fine. I dont have an issue with over 21 adults doing something that is legal. I would have an issue if they were high on a regular basis but that's not the case.

I personally have never tried it (maybe I'll have a gummy someday when I retire) but try not to judge. It's probably no worse than the wine habit that a lot of DCUMers seem to have.

Finally someone with common sense!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

This is how it goes with my stepkids coming home from college, and now, when they visit post-college. DH does their laundry, Venmoes to reimburse them when they go out to eat during their stay, picks up after their dirty dishes that they leave out, once lent out my car for them to take to a party where they were drinking (his car is too nice afterall), ignored a vape and pot brought into the house (blamed it on our nanny, even though this only ever happend when they were here), and didn't protest them coming in loudly at 2 in the morning even though we had very young kids at home. I know, because I'm a stepmom, I'm evil for even feeling anger and resentment over how it went down. Now, when they visit over the holidays, my kids and I leave for my family's vacation home. Out of sight, out of mind. Therapy helped me realize that all of my anger goes to DH for being an absolute s*** spouse whenever they are here, so I leave now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

This is how it goes with my stepkids coming home from college, and now, when they visit post-college. DH does their laundry, Venmoes to reimburse them when they go out to eat during their stay, picks up after their dirty dishes that they leave out, once lent out my car for them to take to a party where they were drinking (his car is too nice afterall), ignored a vape and pot brought into the house (blamed it on our nanny, even though this only ever happend when they were here), and didn't protest them coming in loudly at 2 in the morning even though we had very young kids at home. I know, because I'm a stepmom, I'm evil for even feeling anger and resentment over how it went down. Now, when they visit over the holidays, my kids and I leave for my family's vacation home. Out of sight, out of mind. Therapy helped me realize that all of my anger goes to DH for being an absolute s*** spouse whenever they are here, so I leave now.

Take it up with him. We don't care or need to know about your shitty marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless.

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college!
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]

You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts.

This is how it goes with my stepkids coming home from college, and now, when they visit post-college. DH does their laundry, Venmoes to reimburse them when they go out to eat during their stay, picks up after their dirty dishes that they leave out, once lent out my car for them to take to a party where they were drinking (his car is too nice afterall), ignored a vape and pot brought into the house (blamed it on our nanny, even though this only ever happend when they were here), and didn't protest them coming in loudly at 2 in the morning even though we had very young kids at home. I know, because I'm a stepmom, I'm evil for even feeling anger and resentment over how it went down. Now, when they visit over the holidays, my kids and I leave for my family's vacation home. Out of sight, out of mind. Therapy helped me realize that all of my anger goes to DH for being an absolute s*** spouse whenever they are here, so I leave now.

Take it up with him. We don't care or need to know about your shitty marriage.

PP directly refuted the statement, "You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts" by sharing how her DH is saying precisely that.