Red Piller

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Anonymous wrote:OP, the harpies will hate this but you need to assess the nature of the red pill comments/beliefs. If it’s that women should stay home, be subservient to men and have babies, and that does not fit with your worldview, you have every right to bow out.

However, if his red pill beliefs are along the lines of being wary of women at the early stages so he is not used for free meals and entertainment, that’s entirely different. That’s virtually every man’s lived experience. Now, you can still bail if you want, but that might be premature where he’s only seeking to protect himself.

Ew no. If a boyfriend even tried to suggest his default was to view women as gold diggers, that is even worse than having some traditional beliefs about women and families. You can be a perfectly good person if your preference is to have a SAHM for your kids and you are seeking a woman who feels the same - not my thing but many couples agree on this. having a grudge against supposed “gold diggers” that you feel free to express to your new GF is totally different. and gross.

Golddigger has entered the chat.

ha you wish. In actual fact my xDH mooched off me for years paying zero joint expenses and now has not contributed a single cent to our kid’s expenses post divorce. Is that the kind of gold digger you are referring to?

Are you going on dates solely to get fed or entertained? Then yes.

I always hear men complain about being used to get fed, but they all suggest dinner dates. There are dates beyond just going to dinner.

It’s just so weird to ask a woman to dinner, she decides you don’t click, then you complain about being used for food. You don’t have to provide food. I have a first date next weekend going to free music at a park. There are other options.

You know why they arrange dinner dates? Because women expect it. If a guy suggests something simpler or cheaper, women judge it. Am I right? Too many women feel they are entitled to be treated like a princess and that that it what indicates a great guy.

you have only yourself to blame if you are so unappealing that you cannot get a woman to go on a coffee date - either there is something really off with you, or you are deliberately looking for women who give express signs that they want to be “spoiled”.

Maybe it’s a class thing but the notion that a man I am interested in is constantly taken for rides by gold digging women is just funny. I think I would literally laugh if he said that.

The fact that constantly resort to ad hominem attacks really says more about you than your posts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, the harpies will hate this but you need to assess the nature of the red pill comments/beliefs. If it’s that women should stay home, be subservient to men and have babies, and that does not fit with your worldview, you have every right to bow out.

However, if his red pill beliefs are along the lines of being wary of women at the early stages so he is not used for free meals and entertainment, that’s entirely different. That’s virtually every man’s lived experience. Now, you can still bail if you want, but that might be premature where he’s only seeking to protect himself.

Ew no. If a boyfriend even tried to suggest his default was to view women as gold diggers, that is even worse than having some traditional beliefs about women and families. You can be a perfectly good person if your preference is to have a SAHM for your kids and you are seeking a woman who feels the same - not my thing but many couples agree on this. having a grudge against supposed “gold diggers” that you feel free to express to your new GF is totally different. and gross.

Golddigger has entered the chat.

ha you wish. In actual fact my xDH mooched off me for years paying zero joint expenses and now has not contributed a single cent to our kid’s expenses post divorce. Is that the kind of gold digger you are referring to?

Are you going on dates solely to get fed or entertained? Then yes.

I always hear men complain about being used to get fed, but they all suggest dinner dates. There are dates beyond just going to dinner.

It’s just so weird to ask a woman to dinner, she decides you don’t click, then you complain about being used for food. You don’t have to provide food. I have a first date next weekend going to free music at a park. There are other options.

You know why they arrange dinner dates? Because women expect it. If a guy suggests something simpler or cheaper, women judge it. Am I right? Too many women feel they are entitled to be treated like a princess and that that it what indicates a great guy.

you have only yourself to blame if you are so unappealing that you cannot get a woman to go on a coffee date - either there is something really off with you, or you are deliberately looking for women who give express signs that they want to be “spoiled”.

Maybe it’s a class thing but the notion that a man I am interested in is constantly taken for rides by gold digging women is just funny. I think I would literally laugh if he said that.

The fact that constantly resort to ad hominem attacks really says more about you than your posts.

Dp, but seems you’ve been pretty liberal with your own attacks and name calling.

[Anonymous]

This whole thread reminds me of the guys whose exes were all "crazy." If this is your general experience with women, you are the common denominator and likely the main problem.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, the harpies will hate this but you need to assess the nature of the red pill comments/beliefs. If it’s that women should stay home, be subservient to men and have babies, and that does not fit with your worldview, you have every right to bow out.

However, if his red pill beliefs are along the lines of being wary of women at the early stages so he is not used for free meals and entertainment, that’s entirely different. That’s virtually every man’s lived experience. Now, you can still bail if you want, but that might be premature where he’s only seeking to protect himself.

Ew no. If a boyfriend even tried to suggest his default was to view women as gold diggers, that is even worse than having some traditional beliefs about women and families. You can be a perfectly good person if your preference is to have a SAHM for your kids and you are seeking a woman who feels the same - not my thing but many couples agree on this. having a grudge against supposed “gold diggers” that you feel free to express to your new GF is totally different. and gross.

Golddigger has entered the chat.

ha you wish. In actual fact my xDH mooched off me for years paying zero joint expenses and now has not contributed a single cent to our kid’s expenses post divorce. Is that the kind of gold digger you are referring to?

Are you going on dates solely to get fed or entertained? Then yes.

I always hear men complain about being used to get fed, but they all suggest dinner dates. There are dates beyond just going to dinner.

It’s just so weird to ask a woman to dinner, she decides you don’t click, then you complain about being used for food. You don’t have to provide food. I have a first date next weekend going to free music at a park. There are other options.

You know why they arrange dinner dates? Because women expect it. If a guy suggests something simpler or cheaper, women judge it. Am I right? Too many women feel they are entitled to be treated like a princess and that that it what indicates a great guy.

you have only yourself to blame if you are so unappealing that you cannot get a woman to go on a coffee date - either there is something really off with you, or you are deliberately looking for women who give express signs that they want to be “spoiled”.

Maybe it’s a class thing but the notion that a man I am interested in is constantly taken for rides by gold digging women is just funny. I think I would literally laugh if he said that.

The fact that constantly resort to ad hominem attacks really says more about you than your posts.

Dp, but seems you’ve been pretty liberal with your own attacks and name calling.

Okay, “dp”, I think you’re mixing up posters.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m realizing that the man I’ve been dating for the past 4 months is a red piller. He has crappy views about women. he frequently finds a way to say negative things about women compared to men. he feels oppressed by women. I’m over it. Normally I would have a talk with someone I’ve been seeing this long and explain why I’m no longer interested.

For the first time ever I’m so repulsed, I just want to block him. Is ghosting wrong in this situation?

There are many things that women do and many of their views that I disagree with. Having said then I love women. I need them in my life. And hopefully women need us as well. Together we enjoy life, create memories, raise kids, have great sex etc.

Red pillers are a breed of their own. There are women who are red pillers as well. This is all about $$$$. The people pushing these extreme views about genders are looking for clicks and likes which they hope can turn into dollars.

So yes dump him fast. It's okay if he has issues with some of the views that women have. But hating them for it is too extreme.

Dude you lost me at your characterization of the views that “women have.” Any man who talks like that is an immediate no way from me. Women are individuals.

If you agree that men are individuals as well then yes you are correct. Be fair and honest. Do you think the women on this forum view men as individuals?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

I think it's bots talking.
Noticed the disconnect with reality, and ignoring corrections, on other topics on here also.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

[Anonymous]

Just because red pill started out from an old movie doesn’t mean the meaning, concept and philosophy hasn’t changed in 25+ years. We are plenty familiar with its current day meaning and the gatekeeping for such a basic concept is bizarre.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just because red pill started out from an old movie doesn’t mean the meaning, concept and philosophy hasn’t changed in 25+ years. We are plenty familiar with its current day meaning and the gatekeeping for such a basic concept is bizarre.

Your disconnect with reality, and denying the modern usage, is very very odd. You sound "programmed" rather than humanish.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m realizing that the man I’ve been dating for the past 4 months is a red piller. He has crappy views about women. he frequently finds a way to say negative things about women compared to men. he feels oppressed by women. I’m over it. Normally I would have a talk with someone I’ve been seeing this long and explain why I’m no longer interested.

For the first time ever I’m so repulsed, I just want to block him. Is ghosting wrong in this situation?

There are many things that women do and many of their views that I disagree with. Having said then I love women. I need them in my life. And hopefully women need us as well. Together we enjoy life, create memories, raise kids, have great sex etc.

Red pillers are a breed of their own. There are women who are red pillers as well. This is all about $$$$. The people pushing these extreme views about genders are looking for clicks and likes which they hope can turn into dollars.

So yes dump him fast. It's okay if he has issues with some of the views that women have. But hating them for it is too extreme.

Dude you lost me at your characterization of the views that “women have.” Any man who talks like that is an immediate no way from me. Women are individuals.

If you agree that men are individuals as well then yes you are correct. Be fair and honest. Do you think the women on this forum view men as individuals?

Am I “women on this forum”? No I am not. I am A woman. Feel free to say stupid red pill sh*t and I will feel free to dump you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

wtf way to miss the point dude. Red pill, black pill - we know exactly what OP is talking about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

wtf way to miss the point dude. Red pill, black pill - we know exactly what OP is talking about.

But you don't since you are using incorrect definitions and topics, causing you to further go the wrong direction.

It's why you are confused. It's why you are angry at the world. Misinformation is destroying you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

wtf way to miss the point dude. Red pill, black pill - we know exactly what OP is talking about.

But you don't since you are using incorrect definitions and topics, causing you to further go the wrong direction.

It's why you are confused. It's why you are angry at the world. Misinformation is destroying you.

“Red pill” is used frequently to refer to incel like beliefs. In the Matrix it was the pill Neo took to opt into “reality.” In incel land the “reality” is that women are gold diggers etc

why don’t you work on your personality - that may improve your dating life.

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

wtf way to miss the point dude. Red pill, black pill - we know exactly what OP is talking about.

But you don't since you are using incorrect definitions and topics, causing you to further go the wrong direction.

It's why you are confused. It's why you are angry at the world. Misinformation is destroying you.

“Red pill” is used frequently to refer to incel like beliefs.

No, it is not. That's incorrect use. You have been told this by enough posters. That you keep arguing against the truth says you are not stable or open to new ideas, but a narcissist. YDY.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Almost nobody on this thread actually knows what red pilled means.

Nobody cares about your fine grained distinction. We all know what we are talking about.

DP, but no you don't. You are WAY OFF, which is somewhat amusing, but also really odd.

wtf way to miss the point dude. Red pill, black pill - we know exactly what OP is talking about.

But you don't since you are using incorrect definitions and topics, causing you to further go the wrong direction.

It's why you are confused. It's why you are angry at the world. Misinformation is destroying you.

You’re the only one confused, the rest of us are fine. But don’t worry, no matter what pill colour you identify as, no woman will want you anyway.