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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, the harpies will hate this but you need to assess the nature of the red pill comments/beliefs. If it’s that women should stay home, be subservient to men and have babies, and that does not fit with your worldview, you have every right to bow out.

However, if his red pill beliefs are along the lines of being wary of women at the early stages so he is not used for free meals and entertainment, that’s entirely different. That’s virtually every man’s lived experience. Now, you can still bail if you want, but that might be premature where he’s only seeking to protect himself.[/quote]

Ew no. If a boyfriend even tried to suggest his default was to view women as gold diggers, that is even worse than having some traditional beliefs about women and families. You can be a perfectly good person if your preference is to have a SAHM for your kids and you are seeking a woman who feels the same - not my thing but many couples agree on this. having a grudge against supposed “gold diggers” that you feel free to express to your new GF is totally different. and gross. [/quote]

Golddigger has entered the chat.[/quote]

ha you wish. In actual fact my xDH mooched off me for years paying zero joint expenses and now has not contributed a single cent to our kid’s expenses post divorce. Is that the kind of  gold digger you are referring to? [/quote]

Are you going on dates solely to get fed or entertained? Then yes.[/quote]

I always hear men complain about being used to get fed, but they all suggest dinner dates. There are dates beyond just going to dinner.

It’s just so weird to ask a woman to dinner, she decides you don’t click, then you complain about being used for food. You don’t have to provide food. I have a first date next weekend going to free music at a park. There are other options. [/quote]

You know why they arrange dinner dates? Because women expect it. If a guy suggests something simpler or cheaper, women judge it. Am I right? Too many women feel they are entitled to be treated like a princess and that that it what indicates a great guy. [/quote]

you have only yourself to blame if you are so unappealing that you cannot get a woman to go on a coffee date - either there is something really off with you, or you are deliberately looking for women who give express signs that they want to be “spoiled”.

Maybe it’s a class thing but the notion that a man I am interested in is constantly taken for rides by gold digging women is just funny. I think I would literally laugh if he said that. [/quote]

The fact that constantly resort to ad hominem attacks really says more about you than your posts.[/quote]
Dp, but seems you’ve been pretty liberal with your own attacks and name calling.[/quote]

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