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Op, youve already wasted 4 months with this loser. Dont make it 4m1d. Dumb him, tell him why, and block him.
Looking back, were there any red flags you may have missed? Review the relationship and see if you can pinpoint anything you can use in the future to avoid these men. They use things like “negging” and try to exert control inappropriately. Hopefully your next man is better. Good luck! |
This is what Google says: The terms "red pill" and "black pill" are used within the incel (involuntary celibate) community to describe different, and often opposing, worldviews. The "red pill" generally refers to a belief that men are oppressed by women, with concepts like "female hypergamy" (women seeking partners of higher social status) being central. "Black pill" is a more nihilistic perspective, suggesting that a man's looks and social status are immutable and that there is little he can do to improve his chances with women, leading to a sense of hopelessness. So yep, you’re right. |
Google. lmao Boomers are so clueless. |
Yes it is, but thanks so much for mansplaining incels to us. So apropos. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Controversial_Reddit_communities#TheRedPill I hope you get the help you need |
At least they aren’t making up definitions to words? Back tracking now since you apparently don’t understand how words work? Red pill is used within the incel community and refers to the belief that men are oppressed by women with concepts like hypergamy. These men often refer to women as gold diggers, bc they are seen by these (weak fragile insignificant) men as only using them for their money. If you have more to bring to the table you’ll do just fine. Unfortunately your personality will drive any woman away, so need to worry, you’ll be safe from those pesky hypergamists! |
Pick-up artistry taught rules for desperate young men to stop repelling women with unmerited flattery and overinvestment. It is like the Seinfeld episode "Opposite Day" where hapless George Costanza succeeds romantically by doing the opposite of his instincts. When my nerdy friend got locked out of his house, he walked to a date unshaved in athletic shorts and a t-shirt. She paid for drinks and was relieved to meet a polite and athletic guy. They have been married for a decades. Younger women felt I was trying to buy their affection by spending $50-$100 for cocktails. These same women would sleep with me after cheap, relaxed dive bars near my house. My success paradoxically improved by spending less money. Negging was a pick-up artist rule when for conceited women. When a woman complimented baseball player Yogi Berra on his cool linen suit, he replied inadvertently ambiguous compliment "Thanks, you don't look so hot yourself." The Red Pill explains these pick-up rules work because women are tired of desperate and phony nice guys; they want an authentic, selective man. Women have their own rules - don't sleep with men on the first date and don't answer texts after midnight. Dating is a game, and setting healthy boundaries is part of the strategy. |
Nobody likes you dude. |
I do. |
Sure you do, sockpuppet. |
| OP here with update. I texted him and said I was concerned about our comparability due to differences in gender views. He never responded. Oh well. |
You assume my gender? LMAO You assumed wrong. See how you do? That's an area you should work on. |
Comparability? |
| *compatability |
| I have found that only the men with the least resources (ie have nothing a gold digger would want) are focused on/complain about "gold diggers." |
100% |