Who pays for the date?

[Anonymous]

Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

[Anonymous]

The gentleman pays for the date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

Wow!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

Wow!

My husband pays for dates even though I make way more than him and it kind of makes no sense. All accounts are joint anyways. But he LOVES taking out his wallet and “pay” for me in public We even have an intimate game with some cash thrown on bed afterwards

[Anonymous]

I know one woman who always insisted on paying for her own dinner, etc. She was very successful, but had a hard time to find the right guy. She finally got married in her late thirties. Her husband works some low paying job while she works full time with no breaks. She always complains about him being lazy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

Wow!

My husband pays for dates even though I make way more than him and it kind of makes no sense. All accounts are joint anyways. But he LOVES taking out his wallet and “pay” for me in public We even have an intimate game with some cash thrown on bed afterwards

Cause that's the masculine/feminine energy. That's how it goes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

I hate that I agree with this, but I do. Men want it more, especially now that women don't need to rely on men to put a roof over our heads.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:after all the $$$ i spend on grooming and primping etc etc, yeah he should pay in the beginning. maybe I am old fashioned.

This is so stupid. All of your primping is optional, so a man has no obligation to “reimburse” you for it. Grow up.

Please. And you'd be outraged if a woman showed up to the date with zero makeup on, unkempt hair, sweatpants, etc. Anyway, I'm sure no woman wants to appeal to you anyway, so your opinion is irrelevant. Next!

I am a woman, you moron. But I know that my grooming decisions are entirely my responsibility. If I don’t feel like getting my brows threaded, I don’t. But if I do, I don’t expect to recoup the cost through an expense dinner. That’s a transactional relationship, and those are for sex workers.

[Anonymous]

I feel so sad for all of these women who clearly never grew up. They will always need a daddy for approval and financial support.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:after all the $$$ i spend on grooming and primping etc etc, yeah he should pay in the beginning. maybe I am old fashioned.

This is so stupid. All of your primping is optional, so a man has no obligation to “reimburse” you for it. Grow up.

Please. And you'd be outraged if a woman showed up to the date with zero makeup on, unkempt hair, sweatpants, etc. Anyway, I'm sure no woman wants to appeal to you anyway, so your opinion is irrelevant. Next!

Well I'm sure your man got exactly what he paid for

I'm not sure what this means, I dont speak incel

Sure you do, but I'll spell it for you. You are bought and paid for. Seems like he went to Ross for marriage material though.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:after all the $$$ i spend on grooming and primping etc etc, yeah he should pay in the beginning. maybe I am old fashioned.

This is so stupid. All of your primping is optional, so a man has no obligation to “reimburse” you for it. Grow up.

Please. And you'd be outraged if a woman showed up to the date with zero makeup on, unkempt hair, sweatpants, etc. Anyway, I'm sure no woman wants to appeal to you anyway, so your opinion is irrelevant. Next!

Well I'm sure your man got exactly what he paid for

I'm not sure what this means, I dont speak incel

Sure you do, but I'll spell it for you. You are bought and paid for. Seems like he went to Ross for marriage material though.

Oops. Another rage tantrum. I can only imagine how very popular with the ladies your whining and misogynistic outbursts are. Clearly mama made a winner. Accept that you're last place and move on, loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:after all the $$$ i spend on grooming and primping etc etc, yeah he should pay in the beginning. maybe I am old fashioned.

This is so stupid. All of your primping is optional, so a man has no obligation to “reimburse” you for it. Grow up.

Please. And you'd be outraged if a woman showed up to the date with zero makeup on, unkempt hair, sweatpants, etc. Anyway, I'm sure no woman wants to appeal to you anyway, so your opinion is irrelevant. Next!

I am a woman, you moron. But I know that my grooming decisions are entirely my responsibility. If I don’t feel like getting my brows threaded, I don’t. But if I do, I don’t expect to recoup the cost through an expense dinner. That’s a transactional relationship, and those are for sex workers.

You sound unattractive and unhinged and actually a lot like the LARPing incel guy.

Anyway... enjoy your sad life. Not everyone gets to win

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The whole idea of courtship comes from a time when men had to exchange resources for sex, and this was a good deal for women because they could not get resources without sex due to the patriarchy.

Now that’s no longer the case but it may be ingrained in men socially that if they don’t have to work for it it’s not really valuable. YMMV but it’s good to think about all the different dynamics in play for you and what you want in your relationship.

This is nonsense. You were not trading sex for dinner in the 1950s. It is not about that at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Boomers arguing about this on here, meanwhile Gen Z: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayandnia/video/7030134085678812421

You cant fight the basic nature of men and women, nor should you try. Women wont put up with men unless theyre bringing financials to the table. Men want women way more than vice versa. That's just how it goes, period. Young men know this.

I hate that I agree with this, but I do. Men want it more, especially now that women don't need to rely on men to put a roof over our heads.

Yep, this. And young men and women know it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:after all the $$$ i spend on grooming and primping etc etc, yeah he should pay in the beginning. maybe I am old fashioned.

This is so stupid. All of your primping is optional, so a man has no obligation to “reimburse” you for it. Grow up.

Please. And you'd be outraged if a woman showed up to the date with zero makeup on, unkempt hair, sweatpants, etc. Anyway, I'm sure no woman wants to appeal to you anyway, so your opinion is irrelevant. Next!

Well I'm sure your man got exactly what he paid for

I'm not sure what this means, I dont speak incel

Sure you do, but I'll spell it for you. You are bought and paid for. Seems like he went to Ross for marriage material though.

Oops. Another rage tantrum. I can only imagine how very popular with the ladies your whining and misogynistic outbursts are. Clearly mama made a winner. Accept that you're last place and move on, loser.

I'm a woman sweetheart. But my mom raised me to respect myself, have my own money, pay for the things I want/need and not be an entitled princess. See. Not so smart, again.