Who pays for the date?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

This.

+2

And nothing of consequence was lost...

[Anonymous]

If you date traditionally, you will end up that way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look at all these independent feminists here! Pay or hit the road jack.

LOL

I am a perfectly capable woman with 300k annual income. A man who doesn’t know rules of courtship and asks to split movie tickets is not my man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mom taught me this: 1. Never order expensive food in restaurants for first few dates 2. Always offer to split the bill at a first date but if he allows you, he’s not that into you and don’t have long term intentions. Make sure the first date was the last one- don’t go out with him for further dates 3. Make yourself a good income and split serious purchases like travel, joint home, presents for friends. But don’t date a man who’s not able to pay for a restaurant or a movie

Women spend way more on cosmetics, dressing nice for men when they go out, so yes, restaurants and entertainment on dates is always covered by men

Are we still peddling this bull? I thought women dressed for themselves and not for no man!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look at all these independent feminists here! Pay or hit the road jack.

LOL

I am a perfectly capable woman with 300k annual income. A man who doesn’t know rules of courtship and asks to split movie tickets is not my man.

Are you cooking for him? Letting him lead everything? Otherwise preserving your "value"? There was a flip side with those "rules" of courtship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Not all, but enough. Hence the proliferation of "coffee dates" and "walks in the park"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Gold digging is asking you to assign me your house deed without making a downpayment. By allowing you to pay for dates a woman shows you her respect of your masculinity. There is a huge difference

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look at all these independent feminists here! Pay or hit the road jack.

LOL

I am a perfectly capable woman with 300k annual income. A man who doesn’t know rules of courtship and asks to split movie tickets is not my man.

Are you cooking for him? Letting him lead everything? Otherwise preserving your "value"? There was a flip side with those "rules" of courtship.

Of course I am cooking for my now husband and equally split household duties while making a substantial income myself. Everything is joint.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Gold digging is asking you to assign me your house deed without making a downpayment. By allowing you to pay for dates a woman shows you her respect of your masculinity. There is a huge difference

I think my great grandmother has risen from the dead, hallelujah!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Not all, but enough. Hence the proliferation of "coffee dates" and "walks in the park"

Maybe you should just pick one woman to date, so you won’t need to be cheap. Or make more money to afford more women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Gold digging is asking you to assign me your house deed without making a downpayment. By allowing you to pay for dates a woman shows you her respect of your masculinity. There is a huge difference

I think my great grandmother has risen from the dead, hallelujah!

Good luck with finding a woman who makes good money. A woman with substantial income won’t even poop next to a man who splits concert tickets. My grand grandmother fought at WW2 and didn’t know about “dates”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He pays of course! I would offer to buy snacks or incidentals on dates and be ok with that. That is more about helping logistically if you can go up and buy snacks or get something you need when out. But if he wanted to split the check at dinner or split the entire date cost, I would happily agree but then phase him out.

are ALL women like this - cheap, manipulative gold diggers?

Not all, but enough. Hence the proliferation of "coffee dates" and "walks in the park"

Maybe you should just pick one woman to date, so you won’t need to be cheap. Or make more money to afford more women

I do fine for myself, thanks. No one likes wasting money on users.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look at all these independent feminists here! Pay or hit the road jack.

LOL

I am a perfectly capable woman with 300k annual income. A man who doesn’t know rules of courtship and asks to split movie tickets is not my man.

Hooking is your side-hustle?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Look at all these independent feminists here! Pay or hit the road jack.

LOL

I am a perfectly capable woman with 300k annual income. A man who doesn’t know rules of courtship and asks to split movie tickets is not my man.

I prefer women who are rule breakers, not rule followers.