Why have a baby when your 40?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We were too busy learning our reading writing and arithmetic.

*YOU'RE*

Thank you. The grammar in the op was atrocious. Do you even have a college degree?

Are incel trolls able to go to college now?

Judging by the grammar and the lack of reading comprehension... I think you have your answer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 41 and I just found out I was pregnant two weeks ago. It wasn't intentional. But I have no good reason not to go ahead with it, and will enjoy another baby. I am not telling anyone (even dh) for another month or so because I know chances are good the pregnancy will not last. But I've been thinking a lot about the future implications, and overall I'm happy about this.

My own mother died when I was 18, and she had me when she was 28, so you really can't predict. If my current pregnancy goes to term, there's every reason to expect that he/she will have a mother longer than I did.

Congratulations! Will keep you in my thoughts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Several good reasons - so my kid has a mom who knows the difference between your and you're, so that my kid has a mom who knows that 40 is not "biologically . . . menopause age [sic]," and last but certainly not least, so that I can "grosses out" [sic] teen moms.

Thanks for asking!

😅😅

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We were too busy learning our reading writing and arithmetic.

*YOU'RE*

Thank you. The grammar in the op was atrocious. Do you even have a college degree?

Are incel trolls able to go to college now?

Judging by the grammar and the lack of reading comprehension... I think you have your answer.

Aw, shucks...but they’re so intelligent, and have so much to offer the world!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wtf is the “15 yo having a temper tantrum while you wait to get your senior discount” thing about? So incredibly weird and random.

Perhaps OP has recently had a stroke?

Yup, COVID is doing a number on the young people who are anti mask
Trumpers!! SMH.

[Anonymous]

A teen Karen from Sturgis discovered DCUM...and is starting such threads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“Why not adopt” says the person who has no idea how expensive and difficult adoption is.

+1000. This comment alone shows how immature and uninformed this poster is. My jaw almost dropped when I read the entire message. This has got to be 18-22ish year old. If the OP is reading this I say to you, PLEASE wait awhile longer to have your kids. You really need to grow up.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a teenager. Do you prefer people have babies at 17? Or you're okay at 25-28 and that's it?

[Anonymous]

My mom had me when she was 40 and it was so nice in my teen years. My friends moms seemed so emotional and so immature.

My dad was 42 retired at 55 when I was 13 and we did do much together in my teen years it was great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wtf is the “15 yo having a temper tantrum while you wait to get your senior discount” thing about? So incredibly weird and random.

Perhaps OP has recently had a stroke?

Ha-ha I actually thought it was a very telling remark, I now have a complete mental portrait of the OP: she is a 23 yo cashier at Walmart, with colorful tattoos and several piercings in all the visible places, with two kids from different fathers. She just needs something to feel superior at, poor thing.

And she is going to vote for Trump.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Why not adopt” says the person who has no idea how expensive and difficult adoption is.

+1000. This comment alone shows how immature and uninformed this poster is. My jaw almost dropped when I read the entire message. This has got to be 18-22ish year old. If the OP is reading this I say to you, PLEASE wait awhile longer to have your kids. You really need to grow up.

Regardless of OP's age, the prospects are not good for his/her offspring. Even most elementary school students are smart enough to tell the difference between those whose parents have stable careers and homes and those whose moms dropped out of school to have a baby. They may not know the details, but they notice the difference in quality of life.

[Anonymous]

Married someone younger who wanted more time before having kids. My grandmothers had babies at 42 and 46 respectively-strong late in life fertility seems to run in my family. Adoption just seemed crushing to me, putting together your dossier and then just waiting for someone to pick you, I have several friends who took their adopted child home and then one of the birth parents changed their mind-as is their right, but how crushing, and it's REALLY expensive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Several good reasons - so my kid has a mom who knows the difference between your and you're, so that my kid has a mom who knows that 40 is not "biologically . . . menopause age [sic]," and last but certainly not least, so that I can "grosses out" [sic] teen moms.

Thanks for asking!

hehehe

You guys are ridiculous pretending the only two options are teen mom or geriatric mom. At your age, you should know better.

[Anonymous]

I know the answer to this, but do you have ANY idea how extremely complicated, difficult, and expensive it is to adopt? And that you can put tons and tons of time, energy, and hope into an adoption that falls through? Repeatedly? And that the large majority of adoptions these days are open, stipulated adoptions where the birthparents can decide their role and frequency of contact even if the adoptive parents wish otherwise? And that, unless you’re cool with adopting a child born to a mother with alcohol, nicotine, drug or mental issues, you might be waiting 3+ years to be matched?

The “just adopt” statements are so flippantly thrown around by people who lack intelligence and empathy to understand not everybody in this world finds their person early in life or has the financial and emotional support to be a single parent until they are older or that the desire to carry a child with your DNA and physical traits does not go away when you reach a certain age. How small of you to think this way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“Why not adopt” says the person who has no idea how expensive and difficult adoption is.

This.

Signed, mom who adopted