DH won’t let me track his Phone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d be really irritated if my partner wanted to track my phone. It makes me feel like they’re my parent, not my significant other.

I agree, and I have nothing to hide. I’m either at target, Harris teeter, the gym or home. Ask me if you want to know.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't worry about it. Some people like to pretend they can achieve pre-internet privacy, even though we can't. It doesn't mean they're hiding anything.

Also you said you wanted to do the tracking for yourself and he complied. I'm sure if you changed your mind, he'd comply to that as well. I don't think there's anything here.

[Anonymous]

If your husband is tracking you;
But will not let you track him....

Then like someone else posted, there is something very shady going on.
Your husband seems a bit of a control freak.
And you are not an irresponsible child.

[Anonymous]

I gave in to this and dh cheated for multiple years. Now working on recovery and he would say phone tracking is a must, please be forewarned. Really thought we were immune from infidelity,

[Anonymous]

Your husband is fvcking someone in this thread.

[Anonymous]

We have it on our phones. My husband is very against being on the phone while driving so it's a good way to see if each other is on the way home from work without actually calling. He travels a lot domestically and internationally and it's a fun way for our children to see "Where's Waldo?". He has never said he has a concern about me tracking him which I guess is a good thing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is tracking you;
But will not let you track him....

Then like someone else posted, there is something very shady going on.
Your husband seems a bit of a control freak.
And you are not an irresponsible child.

But OP WANTS to be tracked. Her DH is not insisting on it and OP never suggested he asked for it or cares. Why is that shady?

[Anonymous]

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You do realize it’s not HIS paranoia that’s the issue here.
It’s YOUR paranoia that is causing you distress about this matter.

What are you saying I’m paranoid about?

Paranoid about the terror of missing a text when either of you are running or biking or driving.
Paranoid about the panic of losing each other in amusement parks and other public spaces.
Paranoid about the horror of dinner preparation and not knowing whether to wait for him or go ahead and eat without him.
All your words.
You seem paranoid about the dreadful uncertainties of everyday life it would seem.

Oh goodness. No those are t my words. Those are all just scenarios of convenience and usefulness. No one is in terror, horror, or panic.

So relax and respect his wishes then.

NP. But at the same he can’t be tracking you. Also, he reminds me of the gene hackman character in the movie ‘enemy of the state’. I assume you don’t have an Alexa in your house !

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I gave in to this and dh cheated for multiple years. Now working on recovery and he would say phone tracking is a must, please be forewarned. Really thought we were immune from infidelity,

Same here. Though I divorced.

I'm the oldest of four kids, and all of my younger siblings and their spouses track each other. Their friends do the same. I think it's just the future, and I'm a little skeptical about all the outraged people here. My kids track their friends, my dad even tracks my mom because she's a spaz who is always late.

Tracking is here for good and there is no going back. Hell, WA, tracks you AND shows in real time every time you read something or are active on it. That's worse than tracking in my opinion.

Privacy is dead.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone has limits and mine would be against tracking. It's invasive to me. Would you want your DH reading every text message you send? Allowing him to record your conversations with friends? What do you have to hide?

This is my position too. Never cheated, never have on anyone in my past either. I just think it’s invasive and a slippery slope.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is tracking you;
But will not let you track him....

Then like someone else posted, there is something very shady going on.
Your husband seems a bit of a control freak.
And you are not an irresponsible child.

But OP WANTS to be tracked. Her DH is not insisting on it and OP never suggested he asked for it or cares. Why is that shady?

because, DCUM so folks don't read or care about the facts/details. these folks conveniently deflect and obfuscate just so it fit their own twisted narrative

[Anonymous]

My wife tracks me. I just turn off my phone when I do not want to be tracked.

[Anonymous]

This is just sick. If you can’t trust, don’t be married.

[Anonymous]

My ex wife turned off tracking when she was cheating with a colleague. At first she came up with all these excuses. She was cheating. YMMV

[Anonymous]

I have never cheated and am not cheating or have any inclination that I will ever cheat. And I would be deeply uncomfortable knowing someone had 24/7 access to my location. Which is funny in some ways because DH and I text all the time and do basically know where the other person is all the time. But something about the idea of him looking me up in a browser instead of asking me directly feels like being a prisoner. Hard pass.