DH won’t let me track his Phone

[Anonymous]

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This is why to this day, I only carry around a land line phone so nobody can track me.

Same here. It's a real pain to reel in the miles of cord sometimes, but totally worth it.

[Anonymous]

OP, your bigger problem is: you think your husband should do something -because you want him to-

He doesn't have to. He shouldn't. It's a preference, his preference. You need to respect that.

The issue, the particular issue is almost unimportant

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife tracks me. I just turn off my phone when I do not want to be tracked.

Yep forget the phone. Let him think you're monitoring his phone OP. Stop bringing it up, but buy a decent gps with a magnet. Put it under his car. If someone steals the car you'll know where it is - another plus.

That shows how little you know about this technology. If you want that GPS to report location to you, you have to subscribe to a monthly cellular data plan. Then it will work for as long as the batteries last, maybe a whole week. Unless you hard wire it back to the car battery. Or, you can attach the GPS, let it capture and store the data for your later retrieval. Those are your choices.

Super easy, very strong magnet and battery lasts about a week. I recommend leaving it on for 3-4 days at a time, then charging the batteries. You log into their site, it will show where that vehicle is at a given time. Address and everything. It is about $40./mo but you can deactivate it anytime, then activate again later. The 54 is quite good, yes a know a little more than you obviously. I know 2 people that caught their cheating spouse with this.

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[Anonymous]

The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

+1

Also, getting a separate router? REALLY? They still have the same ISP, so it's all going to the same place, just in different ways ...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

He doesn’t “want her to.” He just doesn’t really care if she chooses to make her location available to him. Big difference.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Disagree with some of the posters. My husband and I can find each other anytime. We have nothing to hide. I’d be somewhat concerned that he doesn’t want to be tracked. What’s the big deal?

lol why do you need to know where he is at all times? That's bizarre. DH and I don't track each other. We communicate verbally, that's more than enough for us both.

The point is that it’s not a big deal. No one has time to sit there and track anyone constantly but it’s not a big deal to give each other access to location. I guess we have nothing to hide and so don’t care.

Plenty of people have nothing to hide but feel it is an invasion of privacy to be tracked. Nothing wrong with that. No need to insinuate that you or your relationship are superior to others just because you both have a compelling need to track the other’s every move. Frankly, it screams insecurity even if you’ve got “nothing to hide.”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

He doesn’t “want her to.” He just doesn’t really care if she chooses to make her location available to him. Big difference.

+1. Honestly, can't you people read?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

He doesn’t “want her to.” He just doesn’t really care if she chooses to make her location available to him. Big difference.

In that case, OP, why are you making your location available to him? He shouldn’t need access to that if he values your privacy as much as his own.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The problem is he wants her to, but won't for himself. That's the issue from what I read.

Fine OP drop it. If you feel something isn't right then proceed to find out. You've been given great advice.

He doesn’t “want her to.” He just doesn’t really care if she chooses to make her location available to him. Big difference.

In that case, OP, why are you making your location available to him? He shouldn’t need access to that if he values your privacy as much as his own.

It’s for *her* peace of mind. Read the damn thread!

[Anonymous]

OP, trust your instincts. As you have read here, there is no right answer and so your judgement is the best.

If you’re concerned, you should check it out.

[Anonymous]

I'm surprised that no one has asked for details on the major super high security router systems. Can you ask him to share more details? hardware + setup would be very much appreciated.