Is it wrong to day dream about being a trophy wife?

[Anonymous]

No, sometimes I dream about winning the lottery, which would be 1000x better than being a trophy wife.

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

If the husband wants to have kids with the trophy wife, smart is typically valued. Larry Page, the founder of Google married a model who had a doctorate in bioinformatics from Stanford. Now THAT is a trophy wife that any billionaire would envy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

If the husband wants to have kids with the trophy wife, smart is typically valued. Larry Page, the founder of Google married a model who had a doctorate in bioinformatics from Stanford. Now THAT is a trophy wife that any billionaire would envy.

let's not ruin a perfectly good trophy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a first wife, Southern, never worked, kids all grown, I do what I want, commence with the hate.

I don't hate you, I just don't want to be friends with you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Intelligence is a requirement. These women have to move in circles with incredibly successful people. They can't be morons. The ones I have known are always bilingul, wordly, and average intelligence (At least).

I don't get the hate. I am not one and hold no ill will. They work very hard at what they do. I don't fault the men either. If I was a super rich man I would want the same.

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Anonymous wrote:Op, it's so unbelievably fun! Worked my but off in corporate America and interestingly enough it was a female boss who sent me down this route with her nastiness and craziness. At some point I just wanted to have fun and took my then fiancé up on the offer and it's been amazing. That being said, I did already have a sizable retirement fund built up from my years in corporate USA. Not one ounce of desire to go back to the grind.

How do you spend your days?

Why is this often a question? Will watching tv and exercising suffice? Or must it be a life full of activities?

Curiosity.

I found myself in a similar position as the first PP (but with passive income instead of a retirement fund), but I got bored after a while. So I was looking for tips in case I decide to give it another go!

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I disagree. I am an attractive, educated, middle class
class woman. I married an atractive, smart guy because I could. Does that make me shallow or insecure? Most peole would choose hot over mediocre looks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

I agree it seems like most here dont know what a trophy wife is, it certianly ismy a stay at home at home mom. A torphy wife is a smoking hot 10 out of 10 show piece. A stay a home mom works......a lot and is one of most repected jobs in my eyes. Very very very few women are attractive enough to be trophy wives

can a woman that went through menopause be a trophy wife?

Important question is do they swallow?

i would guess it is mandatory.

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Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I disagree. I am an attractive, educated, middle class
class woman. I married an atractive, smart guy because I could. Does that make me shallow or insecure? Most peole would choose hot over mediocre looks.

Congrats but that doesn't make you a trophy wife.

Newsflash: you can look beautiful and have a husband that is proud to show you off and not be a trophy wife.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I disagree. I am an attractive, educated, middle class
class woman. I married an atractive, smart guy because I could. Does that make me shallow or insecure? Most peole would choose hot over mediocre looks.

Nothing you said even remotely comes close to making you a trophy wife. Wow , women are amazingly narcissistic today.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I meant more for the sex stuff - a PP said that the trophy wife has to do all these other things, and also put out with her ugly but rich husband. I was under the impression - based on nothing at all; this is not my life - that the mistress is there to keep the guy sexually happy, the wife has to be good in public. Am I wrong that most men with trophy wives also have mistresses? How does that part work?

(I don't mean to be sex negative - I'm all for people having deeply satisfying sex lives! Just going on the assumption that few trophy wives are super attracted to their rich husbands.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I meant more for the sex stuff - a PP said that the trophy wife has to do all these other things, and also put out with her ugly but rich husband. I was under the impression - based on nothing at all; this is not my life - that the mistress is there to keep the guy sexually happy, the wife has to be good in public. Am I wrong that most men with trophy wives also have mistresses? How does that part work?

(I don't mean to be sex negative - I'm all for people having deeply satisfying sex lives! Just going on the assumption that few trophy wives are super attracted to their rich husbands.)

Yes. I'm not saying that situation never occurs but part of the deal is she is that woman. The mistress is more prominent when they don't want to get divorced because of the potential alimony/divorce settlement. Those assholes set up the young girl in an apt and expect her to be available. They get an allowance but they also get some free time and can bail.

The trophy wife normally has a pre-nip when she gets married. If no pre-nup, well, then once married, the sex might not be what the guy got prior b/c she's ok with a divorce situation. I think that's when you see the H add the AP. Generally, sex is part of the deal but luckily for the young woman, the old guy is going to start having equipment issues. Viagra is their enemy.

As mentioned earlier, the relationships are often work. If they involve children, the H will see himself as doing that as a gift to the TW b/c he is done with children. He will likely view them as her problem and be only superficially and financially involved.

[Anonymous]

I knew I'd never be a trophy wife. To be honest I'm not pretty enough. So what did I do instead? Made myself rich. Now I sleep til whenever and take midday lunches. Every month I go on vacation somewhere new.

Here's a tip ladies: you can have the same benefits of being a trophy wife without the hassle of a blowjob contract. Just use your damned brains.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:there's a difference between SAHM and trophy wife.

what is difference?

Big difference. Trophy wives are beautiful. They could be models. They are also smart, sohisticated, and cultured. They are show pieces and are trohies for very wealthy husbands. A sahm could be any one.

Smart is not a requirement. Being smart enough to know when to be quiet is. Looking good and being his sexual plaything are the main requirements.

Aren't you describing the mistress, not the trophy wife? What does the mistress do, if not all this?

I thought the trophy wife was there to look good in public, the mistress is there to look good at home.

The trophy wife is there to look good everywhere. Think about a trophy, you like to show it off but it doesn't talk. Guys that want trophy wives are insecure and superficial. They drive 300k sports cars to impress others. They want to be the smart ones and all they care about is that everyone notices how hot their wife is. It's to prove the guy wins at everything.

I meant more for the sex stuff - a PP said that the trophy wife has to do all these other things, and also put out with her ugly but rich husband. I was under the impression - based on nothing at all; this is not my life - that the mistress is there to keep the guy sexually happy, the wife has to be good in public. Am I wrong that most men with trophy wives also have mistresses? How does that part work?

(I don't mean to be sex negative - I'm all for people having deeply satisfying sex lives! Just going on the assumption that few trophy wives are super attracted to their rich husbands.)

Yes. I'm not saying that situation never occurs but part of the deal is she is that woman. The mistress is more prominent when they don't want to get divorced because of the potential alimony/divorce settlement. Those assholes set up the young girl in an apt and expect her to be available. They get an allowance but they also get some free time and can bail.

The trophy wife normally has a pre-nip when she gets married. If no pre-nup, well, then once married, the sex might not be what the guy got prior b/c she's ok with a divorce situation. I think that's when you see the H add the AP. Generally, sex is part of the deal but luckily for the young woman, the old guy is going to start having equipment issues. Viagra is their enemy.

As mentioned earlier, the relationships are often work. If they involve children, the H will see himself as doing that as a gift to the TW b/c he is done with children. He will likely view them as her problem and be only superficially and financially involved.

Interesting - thanks