Is it wrong to day dream about being a trophy wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The thing about being a trophy wife is you are not allowed to have your looks degrade. Because there will be another 20 something around the corner. So, you need to work out regularly. You need to keep the skin wrinkle free. Etc.

As for sex, well, it is on his terms. Your full time job is to make sure you are always desirable for him. And, you have to figure he is having affairs.

I have the looks and it has not degraded over the years (superior genes). Helps that I am very high libido and after years of marriage neither of us can get enough of each other. Very well protected in terms of financial future - no prenup, joint assets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I sit at my desk at work, sipping my coffee and day dream about how nice it would be if I was a trophy wife. Nothing to do except look pretty, go to tea with the ladies and take afternoon naps.

When I am sitting down having tea with the ladies or taking my afternoon naps, I never ever daydream about sitting behind a desk at work.
- Trophy Wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I sit at my desk at work, sipping my coffee and day dream about how nice it would be if I was a trophy wife. Nothing to do except look pretty, go to tea with the ladies and take afternoon naps.

I am sure it's been said somewhere in the thread, but obviously sex and lots of it is part of the deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
+1. Can't wait to be financially independent and quit my day job.

I would do nothing and then 2 chicks at the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

If he leaves I get half of a huge 401k, child support, alimony and my substantial premarital assets- l never need to work again.

LOL

BUT BUT BUT marriage benefits men more than women! We have to send thank you notes!

Sincerely,

DCUM harpies

[Anonymous]

I've never heard that. Marriage benefits both of us.

[Anonymous]

Only like 10% of the population is attractive enough to be a trophy wife or trophy husband. I know a woman who is prime material but she isn't into that. I'm more average looking but but I have a body and ass that most women are very jealous of. If I were model hot, I wouldn't want to be one. I would rather work and has an example of something my future children will be proud of. I would rather have a man I am deeply in love with than a old rich guy. I love sex and give my boyfriend daily pleasure but I could not bring myself to do that to an old guy I had n feelings for. It's repulsive and disgusting. Good for these women who choose that profession but I believe I have more value than my looks and what I can do with my holes.

[Anonymous]

This discussion is one of many on DCUM that makes me think people are foolish to marry without pre-nups in place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only like 10% of the population is attractive enough to be a trophy wife or trophy husband. I know a woman who is prime material but she isn't into that. I'm more average looking but but I have a body and ass that most women are very jealous of. If I were model hot, I wouldn't want to be one. I would rather work and has an example of something my future children will be proud of. I would rather have a man I am deeply in love with than a old rich guy. I love sex and give my boyfriend daily pleasure but I could not bring myself to do that to an old guy I had n feelings for. It's repulsive and disgusting. Good for these women who choose that profession but I believe I have more value than my looks and what I can do with my holes.

For me it is more about style, character, and attitude than raw looks.

[Anonymous]

I have t read the thread so this has probably already been said but we all age eventually. I wouldn't want to have to go u see the knife, needle, etc. multiple times to Mia rain my looks - there is medical risk involved and also risk that I'd look overdone with a botched face. Plus life happens - disfiguring medical conditions, etc.

There's no real " for better or for worse" in the trophy marriage. No thank you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only like 10% of the population is attractive enough to be a trophy wife or trophy husband. I know a woman who is prime material but she isn't into that. I'm more average looking but but I have a body and ass that most women are very jealous of. If I were model hot, I wouldn't want to be one. I would rather work and has an example of something my future children will be proud of. I would rather have a man I am deeply in love with than a old rich guy. I love sex and give my boyfriend daily pleasure but I could not bring myself to do that to an old guy I had n feelings for. It's repulsive and disgusting. Good for these women who choose that profession but I believe I have more value than my looks and what I can do with my holes.

For me it is more about style, character, and attitude than raw looks.

Character?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh my gosh are you serious?

One day women will learn that the worse insult ever is NOT "your man will leave you".

If he leaves I get half of a huge 401k, child support, alimony and my substantial premarital assets- l never need to work again.

My husband is a great guy and I love him so much- but if you think your job protects you from being cheated on you are nuts.

The job doesn't protect you from being cheated on, but it is better to be miserable and rich than miserable and poor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Depends on your definition of trophy wife:
If it means model gorgeous woman married to ugly rich guy - that's not me.
But if it means educated attractive woman who worked ina career until 37 then decided to stay home with kids while high earning husband advanced his career - that's me. Now I'm an at home mom with teens. We live comfortably. Travel. Entertain. Enjoy life. I spend my days in all sorts of ways including excersise and lunching with friends and shopping. As well as maintaining our home, planning travel, managing finances which includes a side business we run together, summer on nantucket, etc. etc.
it's what you describe except I'm not "having sex for money".

Are you sleeping with the gardener or the pool boy?

I live your life too. It's a good one and I feel very fortunate

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Depends on your definition of trophy wife:
If it means model gorgeous woman married to ugly rich guy - that's not me.
But if it means educated attractive woman who worked ina career until 37 then decided to stay home with kids while high earning husband advanced his career - that's me. Now I'm an at home mom with teens. We live comfortably. Travel. Entertain. Enjoy life. I spend my days in all sorts of ways including excersise and lunching with friends and shopping. As well as maintaining our home, planning travel, managing finances which includes a side business we run together, summer on nantucket, etc. etc.
it's what you describe except I'm not "having sex for money".

Are you sleeping with the gardener or the pool boy?

I live your life too. It's a good one and I feel very fortunate

Me too and I have no need to sleep with the gardener or pool boy given my DH does a very good job of taking care of me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The thing about being a trophy wife is you are not allowed to have your looks degrade. Because there will be another 20 something around the corner. So, you need to work out regularly. You need to keep the skin wrinkle free. Etc.

As for sex, well, it is on his terms. Your full time job is to make sure you are always desirable for him. And, you have to figure he is having affairs.

I have the looks and it has not degraded over the years (superior genes). Helps that I am very high libido and after years of marriage neither of us can get enough of each other. Very well protected in terms of financial future - no prenup, joint assets.

You are so full of shit.