snooping

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Would you be ok if your spouse put a wire on you during girls night out? Are you allowed to have a private conversation about your ups and downs, that sometimes involve your spouse?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

You hear that everyone...they have a rule and everyone has to abide by it.
So no more surprise birthday parties people. No secret anniversary presents no confidential conversations about poor performance in the bedroom or dissatisfaction with shared duties around the house - matter of fact, every married person on DCUM needs to create a LogIN - - - NO MORE ANONYMITY PEOPLE YOUR SPOUSE HAS THE RIGHT TO KNOW EVERYTHING!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

I am not such a crappy friend that I do things so horrible and embarrassing that I need to tell my friends but I expect them to keep the information from their spouse, somebody to bounce ideas off of and somebody they can confide in. I would never ask a friend to betray the trust of their spouse.

Sorry you don't have a spouse that you trust to keep a secret.

All my friends know that their secrets are safe with me and my H. If it is so embarrassing they can't have my H know they need some serious therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Would you be ok if your spouse put a wire on you during girls night out? Are you allowed to have a private conversation about your ups and downs, that sometimes involve your spouse?

Of course, why not. Geez, are you so trashy that your girls night out can't be observed by somebody that loves you.

My H and I discuss our ups and downs, so he would not be hearing anything new.

Next time you go out maybe you can limit your trashy ways by imagining that you are being recorded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

I am not such a crappy friend that I do things so horrible and embarrassing that I need to tell my friends but I expect them to keep the information from their spouse, somebody to bounce ideas off of and somebody they can confide in. I would never ask a friend to betray the trust of their spouse.

Sorry you don't have a spouse that you trust to keep a secret.

All my friends know that their secrets are safe with me and my H. If it is so embarrassing they can't have my H know they need some serious therapy.

Face it. You're a gossip, insecure, superficial and a crappy friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Would you be ok if your spouse put a wire on you during girls night out? Are you allowed to have a private conversation about your ups and downs, that sometimes involve your spouse?

Of course, why not. Geez, are you so trashy that your girls night out can't be observed by somebody that loves you.

My H and I discuss our ups and downs, so he would not be hearing anything new.

Next time you go out maybe you can limit your trashy ways by imagining that you are being recorded.

NP. How can you go on with no privacy whatsoever? A conversation doesn't need to be "trashy" to be private

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

I am not such a crappy friend that I do things so horrible and embarrassing that I need to tell my friends but I expect them to keep the information from their spouse, somebody to bounce ideas off of and somebody they can confide in. I would never ask a friend to betray the trust of their spouse.

Sorry you don't have a spouse that you trust to keep a secret.

All my friends know that their secrets are safe with me and my H. If it is so embarrassing they can't have my H know they need some serious therapy.

Face it. You're a gossip, insecure, superficial and a crappy friend.

Face it.. you are trash, live a horrible life and it must be secret from everybody .. especially your spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Would you be ok if your spouse put a wire on you during girls night out? Are you allowed to have a private conversation about your ups and downs, that sometimes involve your spouse?

Of course, why not. Geez, are you so trashy that your girls night out can't be observed by somebody that loves you.

My H and I discuss our ups and downs, so he would not be hearing anything new.

Next time you go out maybe you can limit your trashy ways by imagining that you are being recorded.

NP. How can you go on with no privacy whatsoever? A conversation doesn't need to be "trashy" to be private

For example?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

I am not such a crappy friend that I do things so horrible and embarrassing that I need to tell my friends but I expect them to keep the information from their spouse, somebody to bounce ideas off of and somebody they can confide in. I would never ask a friend to betray the trust of their spouse.

Sorry you don't have a spouse that you trust to keep a secret.

All my friends know that their secrets are safe with me and my H. If it is so embarrassing they can't have my H know they need some serious therapy.

Face it. You're a gossip, insecure, superficial and a crappy friend.

Face it.. you are trash, live a horrible life and it must be secret from everybody .. especially your spouse.

But, I don't betray confidences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

+1...in a hot friggin minute!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Or communications with a therapist. Maybe I am worried about you. Maybe I think you need help and I am talking to your mom and sister.

Or maybe it's work related. I'm a lawyer and I sometimes get texts and emails. That's none of your business and your snooping could have serious consequences to others.

You are controlling and insecure. If you couldn't pick a partner you could trust, that's your problem.

+1. Or maybe I was communicating with my parents about a health issue that they did not want divulged (that was a true example for me).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

I completely agree. I would have never had gotten married if I had to sign away my privacy.

Privacy is to be treasured. Not everybody needs it but I do. I like a quiet room where I can be alone, door shut. I like writing in journals occassionaly. Should my husband have access to that as well?

Sign away your privacy but I think it's a terrible idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Perhaps I am communicating with a friend about something embarrassing and confidential. The content, substance and mere existence of which is none of your business. Your snooping is a monumental violation. Monumental.

My friends and I have a rule, if I tell you something I assume you will tell your spouse. Maybe if you did tell your spouse everything it would stop you from doing embarrassing things.

Maybe it wasn't me who did anything. Maybe it was the friend.

And now you are telling the world that no secret is safe with you.

Good to know.

I am not such a crappy friend that I do things so horrible and embarrassing that I need to tell my friends but I expect them to keep the information from their spouse, somebody to bounce ideas off of and somebody they can confide in. I would never ask a friend to betray the trust of their spouse.

Sorry you don't have a spouse that you trust to keep a secret.

All my friends know that their secrets are safe with me and my H. If it is so embarrassing they can't have my H know they need some serious therapy.

Face it. You're a gossip, insecure, superficial and a crappy friend.

Face it.. you are trash, live a horrible life and it must be secret from everybody .. especially your spouse.

So are you the type of spouse who requires an open door bathroom policy? I mean...you know...he could be sitting on the crapper texting someone else.

Anybody who has a "no privacy whatsoever" policy is a loon!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a good explanation about why "snooping" is good for a marriage and blind trust is bad.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8121_snoop.html

To each their own, but if my spouse said I wasn't entitled to privacy because I was now married, I would end my marriage.

What are you keeping "private"?

Yes I was wondering, privacy as in what?

You mean in the bathroom? Could be all kinds of things.