snooping

[Anonymous]

Do you snoop on your spouse or significant other even if you suspect nothing is going on or is it considered a violation of privacy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you snoop on your spouse or significant other even if you suspect nothing is going on or is it considered a violation of privacy?

Hell no. I don't even pick up my wife's phone, and AFAIK, she doesn't look at mine or anything else. I have no tolerance for that kind of nosing around. I also can't un-see something once I see it, so if she's saying something about me to someone else and it's not meant for my ears, I'm better off not hearing it.

[Anonymous]

I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

[Anonymous]

Snooping is gross.

[Anonymous]

My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

Would he be mad if you found out?

[Anonymous]

*mad if he found out you were snooping

[Anonymous]

Nope, total violation of privacy.

[Anonymous]

I would never want my spouse to feel like they can't look at my phone or computer. That's a terrible way to be imo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do, and I totally trust my DH, so I think I'm just nosy. It's made me really hate one of his friends in particular.

Probably because you found out one of his friends isn't a good person. I pay the phone bills, so I see calls etc. I wouldn't be with anyone who was like that.

My phone died before so we shared for awhile, how it should be. I suspect some cheaters on here who got caught or are hiding something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

+1. I don't snoop, but I use his email, cell and computer occasionally. We have nothing to hide. I know all his passwords and he knows mine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My spouse can use my phone, computer, etc. I have nothing to hide and assume the same with him. It's called being open books.

A secretive person means there are red flags.

That is completely untrue. I do not like my husband using my phone, computer, and there are no red-flags. i am not secretive, per se, but I like privacy. i don't want my husband seeing all the weird things I google, for example. He receives the same privacy. I never ever use his phone or computer and I don't even go in his dresser drawers. Married people are entitled to space, too!

[Anonymous]

I snooped only because I suspected something was going and found DH flirting with another woman and he was lying about it. Now I have to keep an eye on him, Sigh.

[Anonymous]

Yay i snoop all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yay i snoop all the time.

What do you?