Re-entering the dating scene. Are brazilian waxes an expectation now?

[Anonymous]

NO WAY

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

[Anonymous]

There are also men who find an untamed bush to be super hot. They are not super common but some men find it sexy.

I want to find a man like this haha. I’ve dated men like this before but DH isn’t one of them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

Untamed jungle = being sent into the shower with a razor

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

100%

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

Let’s be real. A hetero man with the typical male sex drive isn’t turning away the untamed jungle, either. Maybe it’s not his ideal, but there are probably things about his body that aren’t his partner’s ideal, either.

Untamed jungle = being sent into the shower with a razor

Lol I keep mine somewhere in between scorched earth and untamed jungle, but if any dude tried to send me to the shower with a razor I’d walk out the door and never look back.

[Anonymous]

Why care what everybody expects nowadays. Hopefully you won’t need a crowd pleasing 😺

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

You are most definitely not a man. You are some bitter hausfrau who thinks she is the ultimate authority in all things.

Yes, OP, most men prefer it bare and so do I.

Most p*rnsick men. And you've been conditioned to do anything they want, even make yourself appear prepubescent.

whatever you say hausfrau. You're just gross.

NP but such a bizarre insult. I’ve never seen it anywhere but DCUM. It just means “housewife” in German. Do you think that makes it a more sophisticated rejoinder?

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Anonymous wrote:There you have it OP. You can go Brazilian and attract misogynist manchildren who only want you as a Fleshlight, or you can put up a hedge to keep the trash from drifting into your heated pool.

I don’t know if you made this up but you won the internet today.

+1

[Anonymous]

Well, I didn’t burn my bra 100 years ago, so that women are basing “painful “ decisions about what they do with their body on their dating chances.
If it’s a deal breaker not to go through a Brazilian wax, it’s a good way to weed out the guys that are wrong

[Anonymous]

I don't think so and I'm in my early 30s/been in the dating scene on and off for the last few years. I think guys prefer trimmed with some hair down there but you don't have to take it all the way off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

You are most definitely not a man. You are some bitter hausfrau who thinks she is the ultimate authority in all things.

Yes, OP, most men prefer it bare and so do I.

Most p*rnsick men. And you've been conditioned to do anything they want, even make yourself appear prepubescent.

whatever you say hausfrau. You're just gross.

NP but such a bizarre insult. I’ve never seen it anywhere but DCUM. It just means “housewife” in German. Do you think that makes it a more sophisticated rejoinder?

I know what it means, dear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, I didn’t burn my bra 100 years ago, so that women are basing “painful “ decisions about what they do with their body on their dating chances.
If it’s a deal breaker not to go through a Brazilian wax, it’s a good way to weed out the guys that are wrong

But what if we, women, prefer it bare? It's easier to go to the pool without thinking if hair is sticking out of my swimsuit. It's easier to keep clean. I enjoy sex more. So to each her own?

[Anonymous]

It will get stinky faster.

[Anonymous]

Most men prefer hair: but tamed. Wax the bikini line and maybe a trim if needed, but don’t wax it all off.

IMO men that want totally bare are usually the ones that watch way way too much porn. Not great boyfriend material.