Re-entering the dating scene. Are brazilian waxes an expectation now?

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

Man here who does not equate hairless and children. Gross.

Tidy is the best. Think about where his face and nose might end up, and make whatever adjustments you think is best for you. Same should go for him.

You do - you're just not admitting it. It's a look that came from p*rn and men enjoy it for one reason only.

Men enjoy it because we want to see your entire pubic region. Men are visual and hair gets in the way. That has nothing to do with your twisted pedophilia connection.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

You are most definitely not a man. You are some bitter hausfrau who thinks she is the ultimate authority in all things.

Yes, OP, most men prefer it bare and so do I.

I lost all my hair after I had chemo in my 40's. When it started to come back I asked DH if he preferred that I keep it all off, and he said he preferred trimmed and tidy hair. So yes some men don't like the bare look.

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Anonymous wrote:I would say yes - went to Korean spa the other weekend and most women are hairless. Age didn’t matter. Surprised me.

Maybe hairless women like to flash.

The Korean spa is notoriously busy on Saturdays, all walks of life, sizes and shapes too, but it gives a pretty good glimpse into women in the DMV. All have to be nude for the pools and scrubs.

I’m going to challenge you on that and say the people who would go to a Korean spa on a Saturday afternoon in June have much more commonality than not.

It’s where many go to decompress. The nudity is for hygiene. You are required to shower before getting in the communal pool. If anything it’s a place you do not have to be hyper aware of your physical appearance. That’s what’s great about it. The weather outside is irrelevant to why folks go.

King Spa and Balian have outdoor pools where you wear swim attire.

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Anonymous wrote:There you have it OP. You can go Brazilian and attract misogynist manchildren who only want you as a Fleshlight, or you can put up a hedge to keep the trash from drifting into your heated pool.

I don’t know if you made this up but you won the internet today.

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It’s so much cleaner and more fresh. I do it for me, no one else. Hair = smells. If you don’t think that, you’re kidding yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s so much cleaner and more fresh. I do it for me, no one else. Hair = smells. If you don’t think that, you’re kidding yourself.

You should get a bidet. Even the portable ones work exceedingly well.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s so much cleaner and more fresh. I do it for me, no one else. Hair = smells. If you don’t think that, you’re kidding yourself.

I don’t know, there can also be smells on bare nether regions, speaking from experience. Sweaty/unclean skin smells too. Also bare skin is more prone to skin issues like ingrown hairs, which can also be gross and even get infected.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s so much cleaner and more fresh. I do it for me, no one else. Hair = smells. If you don’t think that, you’re kidding yourself.

I don’t know, there can also be smells on bare nether regions, speaking from experience. Sweaty/unclean skin smells too. Also bare skin is more prone to skin issues like ingrown hairs, which can also be gross and even get infected.

DP - I wax specifically because I can't shave due to ingrowns. I've never gotten an ingrown after waxing, but I'm sure that is an issue for some people. It's either trim or wax, shaving is the absolute worst!

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Anonymous wrote:I would say yes - went to Korean spa the other weekend and most women are hairless. Age didn’t matter. Surprised me.

Maybe hairless women like to flash.

The Korean spa is notoriously busy on Saturdays, all walks of life, sizes and shapes too, but it gives a pretty good glimpse into women in the DMV. All have to be nude for the pools and scrubs.

I’m going to challenge you on that and say the people who would go to a Korean spa on a Saturday afternoon in June have much more commonality than not.

It’s where many go to decompress. The nudity is for hygiene. You are required to shower before getting in the communal pool. If anything it’s a place you do not have to be hyper aware of your physical appearance. That’s what’s great about it. The weather outside is irrelevant to why folks go.

King Spa and Balian have outdoor pools where you wear swim attire.

And? Those are two newer spots that are catering to white people. If your body makes you uncomfortable and seeing others nude is problematic for you pay more and go there. NBD but the nudity at most Korean spas is not intended to titillate. Also, I’d be concerned about places that allow people to wear bathing suits. If you’re going for anything other than lounging in the sun, you have no idea if they have showered or washed their suit. That’s why most jjimjilbang have the single sex no suit areas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will never stop being astounded at h the painful things women do because of peer pressure or because they think men want it.

I’m a straight 50 year old woman.

I got them in my 20s for dating and then stopped post marriage and baby having. But a couple years ago I went back to them because I just got sick of dealing with the whole operation. Now I have a standing appointment every 4-5 weeks, everything gets dealt with, it never gets out of hand, and I just feel better. To each their own but not everyone is doing it for the menfolk.

At european wax center the wax is much more gentle and it hurts less when you're regular. I will say my DH IS a fan and is always motivated to woo me a little extra during that week haha but I consider that an added bonus. And the bonus isn't just the extra attention the lack of hair also improves the activity for me (more sensation!)

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NO, they are not required.

And they are not hygienic. My ob gyn is very opposed to waxing there. She says the hair exists for a reason. To catch bacteria etc.

[Anonymous]

I think men slightly prefer bare, but they certainly aren’t going to turn down “mostly shaved” or “neatly trimmed” so long as it’s not a full jungle down there. It’s not a deal breaker for most men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NO, they are not required.

And they are not hygienic. My ob gyn is very opposed to waxing there. She says the hair exists for a reason. To catch bacteria etc.

+1 my doc said same thing - it’s less sanitary to wax. But it sounds like most people do it and have no problems.

[Anonymous]

I cannot imagine a man is going to turn down sex, or not go down on an au natural woman. He's probably static just to be in bed with you

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. We don't want you to look like a child. That's gross. Neat and tidy is fine.

Man here who does not equate hairless and children. Gross.

Tidy is the best. Think about where his face and nose might end up, and make whatever adjustments you think is best for you. Same should go for him.

You do - you're just not admitting it. It's a look that came from p*rn and men enjoy it for one reason only.

Men enjoy it because we want to see your entire pubic region. Men are visual and hair gets in the way. That has nothing to do with your twisted pedophilia connection.

And also you're not trying to floss.