Things are not so bad after all for us divorced guys 45+

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty similar to you and have found it easiest to date women with kids closer to my age, or women much younger who want to have a family someday, but don't want to consider it for 5-6 years. Current GF is 26.

NP. I get the ick from a 26 year old dating 46 year old…too close to my own daughter’s age.

Good. I’ll smile about that when we’re on our upcoming long weekend getaway.

Why do men think ppl are impressed by their sexual exploits with younger women? Some show of virility or something? It’s super weird.

Its because when they can no longer perform women come here and complain of their erection issues, how they can only go once a week, how they c**m quick etc women are cruel toward men they perceive are not sexually meeting their needs.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty similar to you and have found it easiest to date women with kids closer to my age, or women much younger who want to have a family someday, but don't want to consider it for 5-6 years. Current GF is 26.

NP. I get the ick from a 26 year old dating 46 year old…too close to my own daughter’s age.

Good. I’ll smile about that when we’re on our upcoming long weekend getaway.

Why do men think ppl are impressed by their sexual exploits with younger women? Some show of virility or something? It’s super weird.

Its because when they can no longer perform women come here and complain of their erection issues, how they can only go once a week, how they c**m quick etc women are cruel toward men they perceive are not sexually meeting their needs.

Women will not agree with you though. They re just saying you are not meeting their "needs"

[Anonymous]

OP, just tell 35 yr old you had a vasectomy and see how quickly she hightails it out of there.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, just tell 35 yr old you had a vasectomy and see how quickly she hightails it out of there.

Please do this and report back.

Also, really get a vasectomy too tho

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Interesting...a woman the same age proudly (and is even encouraged) date a younger man of the same age but a man doing so suddenly it's a flood of comments telling me to rethink his position. Aren't men entitled to enjoy dating a younger person as well? Please someone explain to me like I am 2 years old. A 46 years old woman dates an early 30 years old guy and even encouraged other divorced women to do so but then they tell the 46 years old guy to date women the same age as him or older. Some even call an older man dating a younger woman creepy or gross. What about the woman dating younger? Interesting

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I agree with those saying vasectomy. Or even just tell her that you're going to get one later this year and see what her reaction is.

What do you think a 35 year old single childless woman thinks when she sees a good looking (presumably fit) guy that's a good dad to his kids?

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I’m getting second-hand osteoporosis just reading some of the battle axes blowharding in this thread.

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting...a woman the same age proudly (and is even encouraged) date a younger man of the same age but a man doing so suddenly it's a flood of comments telling me to rethink his position. Aren't men entitled to enjoy dating a younger person as well? Please someone explain to me like I am 2 years old. A 46 years old woman dates an early 30 years old guy and even encouraged other divorced women to do so but then they tell the 46 years old guy to date women the same age as him or older. Some even call an older man dating a younger woman creepy or gross. What about the woman dating younger? Interesting

That young guy can have fun with the older woman and not give up having a family life later white picket fence and all. The 35 yr old dating an older man who doesn’t want kids is screwing up her last chance.

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And the 26 yr old, well it’s not her last chance but time flies faster for women than men. She can enjoy one or two years more I guess

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Anonymous wrote:OP, just tell 35 yr old you had a vasectomy and see how quickly she hightails it out of there.

Please do this and report back.

Also, really get a vasectomy too tho

Omg. Then she’ll probably have breakup sex with him, end up pregnant, and he’ll get another child support payment out of that.

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Women over 35 aren’t the sole cause of chromosomal abnormalities.

OP should get snipped even if this woman dumps him.

For the overly sensitive, kids with disabilities are as treasured as kids without them (or they should be). I just think OP and all men should have to listen to the same lecture that women in their 30s and 40s are subjected to annually. It’s not wrong.

https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2018/10/older-fathers-associated-with-increased-birth-risks.html

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty similar to you and have found it easiest to date women with kids closer to my age, or women much younger who want to have a family someday, but don't want to consider it for 5-6 years. Current GF is 26.

NP. I get the ick from a 26 year old dating 46 year old…too close to my own daughter’s age.

Good. I’ll smile about that when we’re on our upcoming long weekend getaway.

Why do men think ppl are impressed by their sexual exploits with younger women? Some show of virility or something? It’s super weird.

Its because when they can no longer perform women come here and complain of their erection issues, how they can only go once a week, how they c**m quick etc women are cruel toward men they perceive are not sexually meeting their needs.

Men are equally, if not more, cruel about women, their looks, their sexuality, etc. So gmab.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty similar to you and have found it easiest to date women with kids closer to my age, or women much younger who want to have a family someday, but don't want to consider it for 5-6 years. Current GF is 26.

NP. I get the ick from a 26 year old dating 46 year old…too close to my own daughter’s age.

Good. I’ll smile about that when we’re on our upcoming long weekend getaway.

Why do men think ppl are impressed by their sexual exploits with younger women? Some show of virility or something? It’s super weird.

Its because when they can no longer perform women come here and complain of their erection issues, how they can only go once a week, how they c**m quick etc women are cruel toward men they perceive are not sexually meeting their needs.

Men are equally, if not more, cruel about women, their looks, their sexuality, etc. So gmab.

If women didn't engage in the same criticism of fellow women then perhaps men wouldn't be so judgemental as you correctly pointed out. The way a woman describes another woman she doesn't like is often about her looks sexuality etc. women call other women b**ch etc. so treat your own better first

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. The discussion about kids did come and I made it clear that I was done having kids. I do not plan to be remarried right away but I do not want to discount that. The lady I am currently seeing said she is unsure whether she wants kids but as of right now she doesn't want to have kids.

You are not thinking clearly. Of course when you told her you didn’t want kids she would say she wasn’t sure. You really are thinking with your other head.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty similar to you and have found it easiest to date women with kids closer to my age, or women much younger who want to have a family someday, but don't want to consider it for 5-6 years. Current GF is 26.

NP. I get the ick from a 26 year old dating 46 year old…too close to my own daughter’s age.

Good. I’ll smile about that when we’re on our upcoming long weekend getaway.

Why do men think ppl are impressed by their sexual exploits with younger women? Some show of virility or something? It’s super weird.

Its because when they can no longer perform women come here and complain of their erection issues, how they can only go once a week, how they c**m quick etc women are cruel toward men they perceive are not sexually meeting their needs.

Men are equally, if not more, cruel about women, their looks, their sexuality, etc. So gmab.

If women didn't engage in the same criticism of fellow women then perhaps men wouldn't be so judgemental as you correctly pointed out. The way a woman describes another woman she doesn't like is often about her looks sexuality etc. women call other women b**ch etc. so treat your own better first

Got it. Men bear zero responsibility in being cruel, judgmental, etc. How convenient.