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This. This discussion is ridiculous. All of the proposed changes are still FACTUAL. The only thing that I do not like is grouping the boys and girls together. I think there should be leeway and acceptance if a child does not want to go to the group of their assigned gender and I absolutely think both groups should be taught content for both the male and female reproductive systems. However I remember very clearly the discussion in my 4th grade group about this. Some children had some very, VERY wrong information about certain things or had some great questions. I fear the children will be too embarrassed to ask questions or fact check their concerns if they’re in a class with the opposite sex. |
DP. These changes are not for children, they are made so that some adults feel better. Such as the person who wrote the mature post that you quoted. |
So then why do the PPs above want to get rid of it? |
This. All of it. If you don't have a trans child, then what do you care? You just want to pretend that these kids - HUMAN BEINGS that go to your child's school and live in society- don't exist. You're repulsive for that. If you do have a trans kid - god help them. |
Then.Opt.Out. The FLE is for kids in public school who are learning things that a) they may not get at home, and b) concerns health, safety, sex, sexuality and a number of other topics that -while uncomfortable for you- the kids will hear and experience in their life and in school. It is not meant to be tailored or cut down to the lowest common denominators of fear, prudishness or bigotry. If you don't like it, opt out and/or discuss the lessons with your kid at home and convey your beliefs. Or go private. |
FLE should be opt in, not opt out. |
The summary is on one page without page numbers. There is a long pdf linked to on that page as well which show the exact language, changes and vote totals. |
It's a question of how effective the presentations will be in a mixed audience vs gender segregated audience even if the same topics are covered. The PDF lists a how bunch of research papers about inclusion, but doesn't address any concerns about being able to ask questions without the presence of people of the opposite sex |
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I didn't notice any changes and I went to the website to look - the boys and girls are separated for portions of it.
What are the changes? We are new to FCPS. I did see that "abstinence only" is the only form of STD prevention - didn't care for that. |
Not in public school. No. |
All of your whining masked as concern, and those like yours, can be solved quickly and easily: OPT OUT. |
The first paragraph is the old policy, followed by the replacement policy.each section is marked between current curriculum and proposed curriculum. |
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Thanks to a previous poster who posted that link - I didn't know about these suggested revisions.
If these pass, will it change for next year at the earliest? |
You are looking at the old policy. Boys and girls are now combined for the entirety of the instruction. The only kids who are instructed in separated boy/girl classes are a very small and specific category of special education students. Most fcps will not fall under that specific category of special education. |
No that's a different issue entirely. It's about making feel comfortable with a number of peers facing the same issues and with the same concerns. Opting out does not create that scenario. At best it means that kids might feel comfortable asking an adult or expecting an adult to pass on that content to them. |